You live in dreams and this makes it hard to accept very basic fact not conforming with your ideals.
1. The Polish Uprisings were always
an organized form of military combat, having Government, authorities and military command.
2. In the uprisings of 1830 and 1863, the army was formed by the gentry who was in possession of arms and could afford production of more arms. Gentry was the militant class of the society. Only with Kościuszko's Uprising, peasants went to fight, using straightened scythes, under the command of gentry.
3. Solidarity won the Polish independence in 1989, completely unarmed
Especially the last point is worth considering.