Odds are....negative decision = they will make things very difficult for you.
Especially since you have given them ample reason to question the sincerity of your intention to make Poland your primary place of residence, and also possibly to question whether your marriage is genuine.
Best to consult a lawyer
I agree. It is exceedingly unlikely that you will be able to appeal successfully without the help of an attorney.
will they forgiv me because I was not know about that ???????
I would not hold my breath. Ignorance of the law is no excuse.
Can you tell me that what is waiting time for this
No one can. It all depends on the good will of the wojewoda. It could take months. Or longer. That is, if they decide to review your appeal at all.
You do realize you made a major blunder that will be difficult to set right, if it can be set right at all? You've given the wojewoda concrete grounds to question your good faith, and it will be difficult to regain his trust, especially with an appeal based on ignorance of the law.