Softsong
23 May 2011
Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]
I agree with you that the courts have become skewed. It seems to me that there is overcompensation going on in the western world for conditions that are still prevalent in some parts of the world. Women have not always had things to their advantage, but have often suffered. Sometimes paying with their lives. That being said, I would like to see the court system fair.
But, my point was less about the legal system, than who you choose and how you choose. It is hard for either sex to see the merits of someone who shows caring and love at the outset. That person can be perceived as boring and without other options. And it could be he or she might make the best partner.
The difficult person seems a challenge and unconsciously we tend to think that makes them more valuable. Often, the opposite is true.
I agree with you that the courts have become skewed. It seems to me that there is overcompensation going on in the western world for conditions that are still prevalent in some parts of the world. Women have not always had things to their advantage, but have often suffered. Sometimes paying with their lives. That being said, I would like to see the court system fair.
But, my point was less about the legal system, than who you choose and how you choose. It is hard for either sex to see the merits of someone who shows caring and love at the outset. That person can be perceived as boring and without other options. And it could be he or she might make the best partner.
The difficult person seems a challenge and unconsciously we tend to think that makes them more valuable. Often, the opposite is true.