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tornado2007   
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

funnily enough tornado you're ready to agree with them but i expect that's just male coalition!

nothing of the sort, i write whatever 'I' believe, i'm not a sheep who follows others way of thinking. I'm an independent guy with his own views, i just happen to agree with a few points that Tomek made about experiences we have both had with 'a' girlfriend.

its kinda unfair in a sense to just point out women in general are negative

my dear Patrycja19, i was not talking about every woman on the face of the earth, just the one i had those experiences with. Do you really think i'm the sort of person to box all women together with the same label on??

wow there is a lot of reference to the word 'negative' in that paragraph, i get your drift and i also agree with you, however once again i would like to point out the fact its not just men who think some women are negative, i'm sure there are women who think some men are negative.

i never said looks were all there was to a person but initially they do get your attention, is that not true?

If your on a night out and approach a girl, then yes it probably has a lot to do with it, in any other situation where you interact and develop a relationship/friendship/acquaintance it is more to do with what the person is actually like. How they speak/sound/personality/language and even smell if you get that close.

you don't look at girls and think 'oh she looks like someone with a nice personality' ha ha do you?

again i totally agree with you, however you don't meet every girl in a club and start a conversation. Sometimes circumstances bring you together or in contact with women, social clubs, workplace, university etc etc. That initial contact is not made because of looks its made because of circumstance. This gives the traits you mentioned above a chance to shine through better than if you were doing your thing on the dance floor and looking to see who you are going to approach.

you think more along the lines of 'she looks well nice i wanna speak to her'. same goes for us girls really, you see someone you like and then eventually you get to know them and take it from there... you click or not.

3rd time in thee sentaences i'm going to agree with you. As i said before though your situation seems more suited to being on a night out and not everyday meetings with people in other circumstances.

I've only ever met one girl in a club i've gone on to 'get involved with' and the rest have all been met in other circumstances.

some people clash personality wise, beliefs wise, culture wise and so on and that often causes the negative feelings, hopelessness, lack of enthusiasm, no drive, just passive all the way.

i would like to believe the resason for her 'negativity' was not 100% down to me, that of course was never my intention butit seems to me your pinning the badge square on my chest. if anything i would say in most cases its 50/50 surely??

you get to the stage where you feel it can only get worse and you would actually be surprised if things got better one day. i've been to that dark place for quite some time and never want to feel like that again.

i've been there and i can tell you for sure, I'M NEVER GOING BACK THERE, i tried to hard for to long to save something that was impossible to rescue. I wasted a lot of time and effort doing that with no reward. I don't blame her, i actually look back on it and think 'you should have just got out' but to me thats giving up and that is not written into my personality.

obviously you can't rely on other people to motivate you all your life, but having that special someone for whom you want to become a better person day after day, want to make them proud... that certainly helps a lot.

dosen't look like i've met that special 'someone' yet then, lol.

oh, and i can be a miserable cow yes, but only if i don't like you.

what abot when you get stuck in a traffic jam for four hours, surely your a miserable cow then?? :) Or when that cycle comes round once a month, all girls are cows then :) they can't help it but still it counts lol.

of course, most females are

females are much better at being in touch with their emotions, i find as a man sometimes i'm crap at it, maybe sometimes i don't admit how i feel so i don't seem weak/vulnerable to those around me. I also defy my emotions sometimes, for example i really liked this girl once but i convinced myself i didn't because she was such a cock!!!!

just do it!! :)

all royalties to Nike :)
tornado2007   
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

Ah Justy dodge some bullets, and she prob likes the attention (secretly). :P

ow well maybe i have not read far enough back in the thread to know what you mean, i will have to take your word for it.

I just thought about one thing why my ex-p-girlsfriend was sometimes negative, and that was because it was hard for her to get a good job in the UK and to make a living, although she had a good education.

i think mine/your ex had a few things in common, mine did not have any problem with getting a half decent job (as she was doing her education here) she just lacked the belief sometimes to equal her potential talent, i sometimes thought 'what a waste of talent'. I would not call myself stupid, nowhere near, however she had more in the bag than i did. The difference was i have a lot of self belief, positivity, well motivated and driven. I felt sometimes that she lacked a few of these traits, i did my best to boost them but nothing seemed to work.

I think if you move from Poland to the UK it could be hard to find your way, and those things could make you negative.

i think your onto something there and it could also have contributed why we got together, maybe i was something to help her find her feet and on my side, the company, interaction etc etc of somebody who is going through the same thing is me (uni in this case) two heads are better than one :)
tornado2007   
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

what has JustysiaS done to anybody?? what is this kind of reaction for, can nobody take criticism??? The girl just told me straight up that i fcuked up my relationship and that i was the one in the wrong but i did not reply with sly and spiteful comments.

Come on guys this is a lady you are talking to not some drunken yob outside the pub
tornado2007   
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

To stay on topic: my ex Polish girlfriend could be really negative but she was fun (and positive) as well. And the girls I met in the Warsaw hostel were really positive, so I don't think the 'pos-neg-thing' has too much todo with nationality.

i totally agree with you on that point, it cannot be based on nationality, positive and negative flows through all nationalities.

No no no nic random chat - just read Justy's post again! :P

ok it was a joke, i apologise for my last post directed at you.
tornado2007   
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

i guess physical is important but i think chemistry and a persons make up is more important in the long run, looks are not permanant but the other two are. The old saying about judging a book by its cover could not be more relevant here

Ha ha well my sweet mourning krówka. I'll take you out of the pasture if no-one else wants you! :D

i hope your not calling any female members of the forum 'mmmoooooooowwwww cows' that is out of order and you need to have a word with yourself, you bad excuse for a man.
tornado2007   
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

maybe some guys just have a 'talent' of bringing out those negative traits in women? i don't believe that someone who appears te be lovely and cheerful just turns out to be a pesimist moaning cow all of the sudden, something must be triggering it.

yes she was/is lovely but i never mentioned she was the life and soul of the party. I think the fact she was under a lot of pressure from home to do well in University may have been the trigger, rather than myself as you pointed too.

I tried so many times to help her see the positive side of something, the 'what happens if you achieve' rather than the 'what happens if you fail' In my job i have to do a lot of motivating, talking up, showing the positives to so many people and i actually think i'm good at it, in fact the results show this :):). If i can motivate children, friends, footballers etc i don't know why i had a problem with her. I guess sometimes your not always on top form, or maybe i just made a mess, heck i'm human and we make mistakes.

some people are not good together and that's that, they will never be happy and satisfied no matter what.

i think your right here, i first pointed this situation out to you and the rest of the forum in reply to your sentence about knowing/thinking you fancy somebody as soon as you meet them. Looking back on it i don't know why we were ever together, i have a feeling it was because of a thing called 'circumstance' we were in the same place at the same time, in the same situation facing the same pressures, i guess we just banded together. The funny thing about the whole situation is that even though the relationship went tits up, we both achieved very good results, go figure (because i can't :) )

i mean i can still remember what i was like when i was with my ex, i tell ya i could be such a miserable cow sometimes...

you probably still can be :):)) hahaha (J/k)

working and socialising with both English and Polish women though, i have to say Polish girls have much more sparkle and get up and go than the English ones!! so maybe it's something you guys are doing wrong?

i would not call it 'sparkle' as such, i think they have a lot more drive and a better work ethic, (the Polish girls) thats how i see it anyway.

If i did something wrong then i did, we all fcuk up sometimes, its just part of life. She could have fcuked up too, i guess i will never get to the bottom of it as we don't speak anymore.
tornado2007   
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

all that depends on personal preference but still, you can tell whom you fancy straight away and whom you don't.

this sentence is correct apart from the omission of the words (you think) between the whom and the you. When you first meet somebody you can say to yourself 'yeah i like her/him, a really nice person and a looker to boot' however it rarely turns out that you actually do fancy them, or like them anymore than just a mate.

So to tie this in with the negative traits and Poland, i saw one of my ex-girlfriends and thought like JustysiaS would 'yeah i like/fancy her' anyway as time went on and a relatinoship developed it did not to turn out how i had thought. She was a lovely woman/girl in many ways but she was a bit negative. I'm not saying it is a Polish trait but she was more negative than any British girl i have ever been with. If you asked her the question, is the glass half full or half empty, for sure the empty answer would be ticked. She was also more than a little paranoid, in the end it got to me so much that being around her just frustrated me. Not only did she find trust difficult with some people but she found it difficult with me (he partner). I'm one of the most honest/open people your likely to meet and if she couldn't trust me then i don't know who she can trust in the future.

I could never get my head around why such a lovely person could have such a negative frame of mind, it spoiled the person she was/is.

As i've said before though i would not say 'all' Polish girls are negative but to me this is the worst trait i've seen in a Polish girl.
tornado2007   
30 Jul 2009
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1386]

What I say has a basis of course.

i know, its cool i was justing having a laugh with you, pulling your leg so to speak.
tornado2007   
30 Jul 2009
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1386]

Sorry! I changed it. Any better? It's not an alien, it's a vampire or a witch, lol.

lol, it looks alien like but what do i know about the extraterrestrials that cruise the universe, I still think Mulder would be interested in this specimen
tornado2007   
30 Jul 2009
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1386]

please excuse him, as you can see he is obsessed by Turkey/Turkish, don't get him going :) lol.

The Alien is a much better improvment on the scary teeth, reminds me of the x-files.
tornado2007   
30 Jul 2009
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1386]

Miss_Alycia

omg you have a scary avatar!!!!! lol
tornado2007   
30 Jul 2009
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1386]

the straight on shot you don't look Polish but the profile shot looks more Polish if you ask me.
In the first photo you look more Germanic than Polski.
tornado2007   
30 Jul 2009
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1386]

I just wish those people would start embracing who they are

i agree, that would be a good start, who cares if you have a 'Polish nose' or a............

I love my Polish nose

good for you, that is said on rare occassions in this forum, although JB loves hers too.

I'm actually Polish, Irish, English, German and Dutch.

come on you've forgotten; Italian, Russian, Brazilian and Bhutani, tut tut you can be very forgetful sometimes :)
tornado2007   
30 Jul 2009
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1386]

No, I am very serious. I will try to estimate their nationality :)

no i think rock is more of an xtube.com boy myself :)

Exactly, honesty isn't always the best policy but it works sometimes. Well, I didn't always like being called ginger as a kid but I learned to live with it and now like it.

i like to be as honest as i can with people, however in this case i'm not face to face with the person or don't even know them. Plus the fact i've never spoken to 'Alycia' before so the nose comment might not get the conversation off to a good start!!!! lol
tornado2007   
30 Jul 2009
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1386]

I have a feeling this thread's title should be changed into "Look how pretty I am". Funnily enough, when you go on "Post your picture thread" most posts there have no pictures. That only happens on polishforums. One person uploads a picture and then people talk about it for 3 pages.

How else can people present themselves though, i mean they could sit there and not smile, look away from the camera etc but that would not really be a good pic, would it??

Not all blokes are looking to deicide who is the prettiest all the time, i mean people are just asking if they look Polish or not, nothing else. People like myself and Seanus have given honest answers that are the judgement call we make, not depending on how pretty or not the poster may be.

It's a classically Polish nose above

i was going to say that but i find that if you mention that particular part of the face some Poles don't react well.
tornado2007   
30 Jul 2009
Genealogy / Polish looks? [1386]

wow ur a snot

she sorta does have a point, i bet you look just as good without all that junk on your face, as for where you look like you come from. I have to agree that you do look more American than Polski.

Miss_Alycia
Edited by: Miss_Alycia Today, 00:48

Well i would agree with the majority of people who have told you that you look 'eastern european' i would not say anything about you looks specifically Polish. Bit of a gambler are we :):):):):)???
tornado2007   
28 Jul 2009
Life / Anyone living in Szczecin? What's the city like? [69]

karolina

i always get big red and yellow flashing warning signs in my head when i read/hear this name!!!!

I live in Szczecin since I was born and I wouldn't move to any other polish city.

so how would you know that living in Szczecin is that great if you have never actually lived in any other city??? Its like saying that apples are the best fruit when you actually have not tried the others :)
tornado2007   
28 Jul 2009
Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

lol, i wonder how many polish girls have actually answered this question, it seems to me like its just a load of blokes 'guessing' hahaha
tornado2007   
25 Jul 2009
Feedback / What is your suggestion to make PF more enjoyable ? [55]

I still think that getting rid of those guests would be a good idea, i mean most of the 'guest' posts are crap, if its not an advert for a job, scam or a woman then its just random rubbish. If you want to post on PF then become a member!!! what is the problem with that Admin??
tornado2007   
24 Jul 2009
Feedback / What is your suggestion to make PF more enjoyable ? [55]

add age groups

personally i think age groups is a terrible idea, i'm against it for two main reasons, firstly PF is already divided into more subjects/threads/topics than you could shake a stick at. I get posts moved on the reg enough as it is for being off topic, let alone if i was to post in the wrong 'age group'. :)

Secondly age does not really matter or come into consideration when your writting on a public forum, unless of course it has something specifically to do with a certain topic/thread/subject. There is a lot a younger member could tell and older member and visa versa on different subjects. For example i'm sure i could tell a 40+ a lot about sports, geography, leadership etc etc that they may not neccaseraly have known previous. At the same time a -18 could probably tell me a lot about quanum physics, literature & history. Its not your age that counts here, its your experiences and areas of interest/prorfession.

I mean ok, age groups are all well and good on a dating website, where i would not really be interested in the 30+'s and the -20's, however we are not on a dating website so age becomes rather irrelevant.
tornado2007   
24 Jul 2009
Feedback / What is your suggestion to make PF more enjoyable ? [55]

What is your suggestion to make PF more enjoyable ?

If there were no Mods/Admin, that would be cool, imagine a free for all!!!!!!! Chaos would rule and PF would have so many hits its popularity would go through the roof!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
tornado2007   
24 Jul 2009
Feedback / What is your suggestion to make PF more enjoyable ? [55]

my goodness me this system sounds like it would be more difficult to explain and execute than test cricket to a person who has never heard of the game. It is a good thought but not a very good idea :) thanks for the suggestion though
tornado2007   
23 Jul 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

Have you heard "I'm bored" translates to "Im boring"?!

i think you'll get the 'boring' vote from the forum, not me :)

such an impressive essay tornado?

why thank you kind sir

why dont you start a thread that's interesting for you instead?

i don't need to make a thread every five seconds as i feel i can contribute to the threads already posted, if i have something i would like to talk about i will post it, if not i will not bother.

peace out

save that shite for somebody else :) maybe for when you mean it :)
tornado2007   
23 Jul 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

nextweek

....this thread won't exist.......... i hope, yet another thread on Polish girls. Why not find a thread about them and chuck this on the end. For regular memebers this is just repetative!!!!

I've had five million polish girlfriends and flipped them any style you like but i'm not writting about it on the forum, i could also go into what style they shaved their you know whats in but i won't. I may also talk about who was a shite cook and who was a good one, again i won't. Maybe i'll talk about every single one of them, about how it all went wrong and how it went so right to begin with.

:):):):):):):)

Polish girls are negative, Polish girls are easy, Polish girls PMS 24/7, blong Polish girls are dumb, brunette Polish girls are hot...
how many threads like that?
enough already!

i don't know and i don't want to know where you find those girls... look better then...

bloody hell you got that pretty much covered there my dear, now mods close this down!!!! please before we die of bordem!!!!