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Joined: 10 Jan 2010 / Male ♂
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skysoulmate   
29 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

Well, is it because you're a woman or because you're natasa? LOL

Some 20% of military personnel in the US are women so I think your findings are somewhat inaccurate or maybe all those women go AWOL one week every month? FYI, there are guys in my unit who PMS regularly but we all manage.
skysoulmate   
29 Nov 2011
Law / I am starting a new business life in Poland (coming from Sydney) [84]

...the dollar is on his mind and making a bucket full in Poland represents a challenge...

Really? I thought he made it very clear that his grandmother was on his mind first one foremost? He emphasized several times that money wouldn't be an issue for a while...

...The main reason for going to Poland is to spend quality time with my grandmother before she passes on.

skysoulmate   
29 Nov 2011
Language / Spelling "aunt" in Polish [142]

Mikush - I hate to tell you this but "babci" and "dziadzi" is something a toddler would say, and then only if he/she was born with a speech impediment. (ok, just keedin' here, sort of...)

It's babcia (yes, there's an a at the end), dziadek (although a toddler might say dziadzia), and ciocia (yes, there's an a at the end)

If those nuns truly say dziadzi then they're simplifying the Polish language so people like you (no offense) feel "at home."

Busia, busha, etc are fictional terms created Americans of Polish or Ukrainian heritage.

Now, the term babci exist but you're using it in the wrong context.

To jest moja babcia - this is my grandmother
To jest mojej babci dom - this is my grandmother's house
skysoulmate   
28 Nov 2011
USA, Canada / PolAms -- do you regard yourselves only as 'white Americans'? [187]

Personally I never answer the race question. Well, I actually wrote noyfb there somewhere. I know they're trying to "repair" rasism and discrimination of the past with "quotas." A modern form of racism and discrimination that some call affirmative action, while others refer to it as "positive" discrimination, revenge discrimination or reverse discrimination. Pick the term of your liking. I simply won't participate in that and won't answer such questions. If they ask for prefered language I write "Klingon".
skysoulmate   
28 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

Insisting on artificial changes of by biology given limits of both genders is silly. And funny.
Woman in uniform with the gun is a threat to public safety. What if she is in PMS?

Although I don't support quotas and other government sponsored forms of discrimination I don't buy your PMS argument. I've served with many females and they performed their duties just as well as the men did. Now, I'm in the aviation field, if I was on the battlefield I'd want to fight next to someone who could drag me away if I was wounded. Otherwise, I have no qualms about serving side by side women.
skysoulmate   
28 Nov 2011
Law / I am starting a new business life in Poland (coming from Sydney) [84]

you must be the only person who would enjoy a outdoor barbecue or a dip in the ocean in the freezing cold.

I guess I didn't realize Poland had 8 months of freezing cold?? Granted, I was a kid when we moved but the only cold I remember was Zakopane and Karpacz when we went there for winter breaks. Of course, Sweden and now Alaska made me somewhat immune to "freezing cold." We have a warmer than usual November, t's 19F/-7°C here in Anchorage right now but the sun is shining and it feels great.

PS. I'm outdoor. :-)
skysoulmate   
28 Nov 2011
Life / Vertu (or iPhone) in Poland ?? [19]

Not sure what kind of phone you have now but if it's iPhone 4 I'd stick with it. I now have 4s but in some aspects prefered the 4.
skysoulmate   
28 Nov 2011
Love / Falling for a Polish guy and confused.. [23]

Pawian, what do you mean by its a written English practice?

You being his English "tutor"? That's my guess on what Pawian meant.

By the way, I didn't realize you were in LA, somehow I thought you were in the UK so yes, he is actually moving across the globe and it might get expensive to fly to/from Poland. Either way, don't think of him as a guy from Poland, just think of him as a guy. Amathyst is right, our hearts bleed the same no matter which side of the pond you're on. Hope things work out.
skysoulmate   
27 Nov 2011
Love / Falling for a Polish guy and confused.. [23]

Orchid - when it comes to relationships you really can't rely on advice from strangers on a message board. Only you and your friend know the right answer. Long distance relationships seldom work but sometimes they do. Maybe this shy guy became more assertive when he realized he only had a few weeks left with you? Maybe he has feelings for you or maybe he's just a player? Only the two of you can figure this out.

Remember that Poland is only a few hours away, he isn't moving across the globe, you know. If you two stay in touch and things work out you can get there on a low-cost airline for £50 or so. You sound very young and I'm guessing you'll develop feelings for some other guy pretty soon (out of sight out of mind) but maybe you won't? Maybe the two of you will hit it off? I'd say be honest and forthright with him and see where this takes you? Otherwise you'll always wonder what could've happened if you gave it a chance? Good luck to you.
skysoulmate   
27 Nov 2011
Law / I am starting a new business life in Poland (coming from Sydney) [84]

At least you can use the quote function Magda. The function was taken away for those of us who use iPhones. When I quote someone I have to type the HTML code and copy & paste the message I want to quote within the brackets.

Like this:

...type HTML code and copy & paste the message I want to quote.

Anyways, I'm glad Zach saved up some money as it might take time to find a new job in a country he's never lived in.
skysoulmate   
27 Nov 2011
History / Whom do the people in Poland hate more: Germans or Russians? [869]

Well, no I wasn't aware of that. Is it proven it was the same person though? I'm only defending the posts written by BB as that's all I know. I like to see his perspective, sometimes I'd agree and sometimes I'd disagree; I'm glad I can keep discussing issues with him even though it's on a different forum.

Franky the whole notion of posting under different screen names is very perplexing to me, why would anyone want to do that?? It's like having a discussion with yourself, I guess I just don't get it?? You'll never see me posting under a different screen name, here or on ATP. If it doesn't say sky... it ain't me. Oh well, enough about that.
skysoulmate   
27 Nov 2011
Law / I am starting a new business life in Poland (coming from Sydney) [84]

You're welcome and just to be clear, yes, we have many problems here just like anywhere else but overall it's a pretty darn good country to be living in, just like Australia. You'll see ups and downs anywhere you go and many people like to 'whinge' no matter what. I have many Australian friends and they seem to be enjoying living here in the US although many miss their families.

I think it boils down to making a decision, hopefully a somewhat well educated guess and sticking to that decision. Forget the past and focus on the future, too many people dwell on "what iff's" and "should've - would've", so stick to your plans, keep an open mind, be ready to improvise and I'm sure only the sky will be your limit. Cheerio.
skysoulmate   
27 Nov 2011
History / Whom do the people in Poland hate more: Germans or Russians? [869]

Someone mentioned that Bratwurst Boy was not here anymore? That's a shame. Got noone to wipe the floor with now :(

Correct, he left and I don't blame him. I don't remember him defending nazism or war atrocities or even whitewashing the German (nazi) war crimes. Ever. On the ATP forum he even claimed that Germans caused more suffering than the Russians did. I disagreed with him but am bringing this up to show that this German you like to stomp on isn't as devilish as you claim. He's proud to be a German and rightfully so. I don't always agree with him but am yet to see this nazi boy mentality so many here think he espouses. Nothing could be further from the truth.
skysoulmate   
26 Nov 2011
Law / I am starting a new business life in Poland (coming from Sydney) [84]

I would love to go the U.S for a holiday but I would not go there seeking a new life for myself.Australia on the other hand is a great country and there are many opportunities if you are prepared to work hard for it but unfortunately I can't afford the time because my babsia is getting old.

Well, America is a great country too and we also have many opportunities if you are prepared to work hard. It works better for some than others; I wish you well in your future endeavors. That goes to you and pawel, and I mean it sincerely.
skysoulmate   
24 Nov 2011
News / Famous Pickup Artist in Poland now [75]

I'd like to see that

The other day he was caught on camera doing just that.

Southern picks up a "woman"
skysoulmate   
23 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

Huh??

Well, I was hoping you'd actually read my replies to YOU and not to southern.

The comment you quoted is my reply to southern when he tongue-in-cheek "sees" me gravitating toward a communist idea. (ALL jobs, coal mines, farming, etc, evenly divided, based on the "equal representation" idea). He knows how I feel about communism and that's why he made the comment. I replied "if that's what you really see then you need to check your vision" as I obviously am not supporting those ideas at all but rather am playing the devil's advocate, ie if we reserve government jobs for one group then how about all other jobs?

Either way, I gave you plenty of reasons to my thinking, but to summarize them all - racism and sexism is wrong, period. Whether by the government or in private business. No exceptions.

... I gave you plenty of reasons to my thinking...

90, 100 and 101 are my latests.
skysoulmate   
22 Nov 2011
Life / Multiracial Poles [154]

This is disgusting :(
You are all fools for ruining your lineage.

...but you've already ruined your own lineage. Anyone who's proud of racism and xenophobia is wasting his family's lineage.
skysoulmate   
21 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

Carrie is absolutely correct. There's nothing wrong with "parity" although I hate that term and prefer equality. An equal society is a flourishing and a healthy society and it should be the ultimate goal for all of us. We'll probably never reach a total parity or some people would have to split in half.

There's discrimination and there's bias all over the world. Poland, US, Sweden, no perfect societies out there. Change begins from within, you cannot fight one form of discrimination with another, this time government sponsored discrimination.

So I think most people on this thread agree on the final outcome, we just disagree on how to get there.

As always I wasn't quick enough to proofread.

Meant to say:

...There's discrimination and there's bias all over the world. Poland, US, Sweden, no perfect societies out there. Change begins from within, but most of all, you cannot fight one form of discrimination with another, this time government sponsored discrimination. The whole idea is revolting. You dislike the current discrimination (yes, it exists) and therefore want to mandate positions based on gender (or race) which is a different form of ...discrimination.

Look it up.

Discrimination - Wikipedia
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discrimination
"Discrimination is the prejudicial treatment of an individual based on their membership in a certain group or category."

-> in this case the category is a person's gender....
skysoulmate   
20 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

If that's what you "see" then check your vision, prompto.

Besides, this wasn't truly a suggestion of mine, I simply highlighted the fallacy of forced gender (and race) quotas in workplaces.
skysoulmate   
20 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

"it is not. I will tell you why. I have read this thread and I have been observing what is happening re parity in Poland and most men don't want it. I am just making an observation. Why would men want to decide what it good for women and for that matter why would anybody decide what is good for another person, eh?"

I'm not saying your observations are incorrect, frankly I don't know what most Polish men want. However, if I understand you correctly you feel that a majority of Polish men are pigs and therefore f@&k them, let's discriminate against them, an eye for an eye, correct? Yeah, that'll really bring out equality in your society. lol

"OK, relating and being in someone else's shoes are two different things. There are limits to relating to things imo."

Fortunately (for me and for other men) that's irrelevant when it comes to voting. My voice counts as much as yours does (not in Poland but generally speaking). I'd never try to discount your opinion on testicular cancer just because being a woman you "don't really understand."

in your opinion, not mine. We are talking about parity in the Polish government- a direct representation of the society.

How about parity in coal mines? Why don't you force at least 50% of the miners to be women? Construction workers? Farmers? Trash collectors? Direct representation, right?

"that would be my understanding. I will not have it any other way."

If you wouldn't have it any other way than you're agreeing with me. Yet I'm against government imposed quotas which you support and therefore you don't agree with me at all and would indeed have the "other way" or ANY way to achieve your goal of this fake equality.

"Isn't is a result of what happened in the past re admitting more men then women? Is has not been overturned. It is just the natural reaction to the number of admitted white males. It will balance itself eventually."

Not sure what you're saying here. Yes, it was overturned. In 2003 to be precise. It's a slow process and the race/gender law still exists in many areas of our lives but at least the law is now being confronted.

Women who in the past supported this reverse discrimination realized that their own sons were chance-less when faced with lesser performing females (and/or minorities) when applying to good universities simply because they had the "wrong" gender or the "wrong" skin color. The minority/female quota had to be filled no matter what. Those same women changed their mind on what affirmative action really is. Slowly the society rebelled and the Supreme court struck down parts of the law. It still stands but has more restrictions.

"How would you implement the changes if they would not be imposed by the government then? How would you secure equality to people, women? I am curious."

One way is to create interest for male dominated fields with the young girls (similar to "take your daughter to work" program) and likewise take the boys to hospitals, restaurants and other female dominated fields. True interest, curiosity is how you attract future talent. Implement severe penalties for anyone who discriminates based on gender (or skin color). I'm talking multi-year long prison sentences for those who are found guilty. Punish those who discriminate, not the entire male population. My approach would take longer to implement. Those are just some ideas, I'm sure there are many more ways to achieve that.

PS. I am turning in. Long day:)
tbc."


Ok, nite nite.
skysoulmate   
20 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

"so why do you even use those words?"

- Because the argument you used is a femi-nazi argument. "You're not one of us, thus you don't understand.". It's an elitist, sexist argument, a flawed argument.

"I see the reason for parity in the Polish government, you don't. You talking it way to personally Sky."

- it means we disagree, NOT that I don't understand because I'm a man. I'm not taking this personally at all, it's just a message board.

"It wasn't sarcastic. I merely pointed out that most men are not able to relate to parity issue because they are not women. Simple. That said I am sure you are an expert on many things. "

- Well, is it possible there were white men and women who knew slavery was wrong even when it was still legal? How come? How could they relate? After all, they were white?? Now change the color of one's skin to one's gender and tell me how this is any different?

"parity and stealing are two different things, there is no comparison, how could there be."

- They're exactly the same. Theft. You award a person with a position (money, benefits, etc.) based on what's between his/her legs and not his/her knowledge and experience.

"I don't see parity as a negative, but a positive thing.... Parity in my view has nothing to do with discrimination, why would you even think that?"

- If parity is achieved simply because there were just as many talented and experienced men as women then yes, it's a great thing.

- Today however, parity is a government tool of reverse discrimination, or revenge discrimination. In the US it's achieved via the so called "affirmative action", a term created by the politically correct crowd. In Sweden until very recently the affirmative action was called "positive diskriminering", or "positive discrimination", positive for some (women and minorities) and negative for others (primarily white males).

- Recently the Supreme court struck down several affirmative action laws, for example they can't use it any longer as a school admission criteria. Until recently if a man and a woman applied to a university and both had the exact same grades, let's say a GPA of 3.89 and they scored the same on the entrance exam, the woman would be admitted before the man simply because she was a woman. For years the affirmative action controlled school entrance policies but fortunately it's now been overturned.

- Note, I'm not saying our society is equal, or perfect or that discrimination doesn't exist. It does and it needs to be changed. However, government sponsored discrimination is just as wrong.
skysoulmate   
20 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

you have the right to express your opinion, which you did, so I am not sure why you are putting words in my mouth?

I am not a femi- nazi, what is wrong with you lol

I know you aren't, I've followed you long enough to know that (no, I'm not a"stalker" :))

Yet your sarcastic comment about me not being able to understand because I'm a man is a typical femi-nazi argument. I don't have to steal to know that theft is wrong. Discrimination, whether on a personal level or on a government sponsored level is ALWAYS wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right.

I don't believe in "parity", I believe in equality. Government sponsored "equality" via forced parity will always fail. It might look equal on paper but it'll never be where it really matters, in people's hearts.

Ps. ...and what's wrong with strong women btw? :-)
skysoulmate   
20 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

yep, you are really concerned since you are a Polish woman and you live in Poland.

I see, as a man I'm totally clueless and have no right to express my opinions. Additionally I don't live in Poland and therefore I know even less. Frauen über Alles, femi-nazism has gotten to your head.

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To skysoulmate

Sorry if that sounds like I'm casting all polish women as airheads, I only know 2 who live in Poland, it's the women who I meet in my area of cardiff that I who I was writing about, who are expats anyway.

No need to appologize. Besides, as a man apparently I know nothing anyways.

My point was that discrimination is wrong. Any government enforced quotas are a form of legalized duscriminatiin based on past wrongs. That's why i agreed with the first part of your post.

The second part, well, you simply know two airheads. They're Polish but could've been British, Germans or Americans. That's all you had to say.

No apology needed. Especially to me, I'm not even a woman and as such I know nothing.

Btw., "legalized duscriminatiin" = "legalized discrimination"

Wasn't quick enough to correct.
skysoulmate   
20 Nov 2011
Law / Polish Zloty rates 2011 [20]

It's possible but highly doubtful that the Canadian and the Australian dollars will benefit so much. Just a few months ago the Canadian looney traded higher than the US dollar but as soon as the Euro crisis began to unravel the US dollar became stronger. The Aussie dropped as well although it's still stronger than the US dollar. It'll probably stay that way for a while, the precious metals are bringing the Aussie up (think mining industry). By the way, I forgot to add the Swiss frank into the "safer currencies" club, like Japan though the strong currency might hurt their long term exports which of course would hurt their economy which would affect the value of the currency (it'd drop).
skysoulmate   
20 Nov 2011
Law / Polish Zloty rates 2011 [20]

Anyone care to answer the question above? looks like the zloty weakens when the Euro gets further into trouble...

Why do you find it surprising? It's normal flock behavior very common to currency trading but also to stock trading, precious metals trading, oil, etc. When investors get spooked they seek assets perceived as "safer."

The Złoty might bring in somewhat higher rates but when there's turmoil people prefer stability over rates. Yet the "stable currencies" have problems of their own. The US has issues with our budget deficit and a huge debt ratio, Japan has the budget deficit AND a strengthening currency which hampers the Japanese export market; how high can the YŽen go before the Japanese economy collapses? The £ is weak due to the weak economy and the huge debt ratio which of course warrants a low interest rate. In general a low rate equals a weak currency but not always, look at Japan. The euro zone suffers from high debt in some member states AND unclear rules on how to proceed?

So people jump from one "safe bet" to the other and even to some smaller currencies. Yet when s&@t hits the fan they all prefer the lousy rates in the $€ŽY£ currencies over the higher yielding but even more volatile, smaller currencies.

If Greece gets pushed out of the €-zone, initially the €uro will plummet but in the long run it'll strengthen from the transition, think of it as outsourcing of the bad, Greek debt. Złoty will be all over the map during this period and it'll rise and drop based on the rumor of the day. 3-6 months after the transition (IF it happens) things will slowly return back to the more normal, less volatile appreciations and depreciations. The end of world isn't here yet. ;)
skysoulmate   
20 Nov 2011
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

Why should women have 'legislated parity'?

Truer words couldn't have been spoken. Logical, to the point and accurate.

Parity for females in Poland?

So "most" Polish women are airheads based on your personal experiences??

All this parity stuff, it's rubbish, use your brain and you'll go places!

Seems like you're using your own advice in the first part of your post and not so much when you write about your perception of Polish women. What you described here are your perceptions, hardly any "facts".