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From: Poland, Szczecin- the best city ever
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aphrodisiac   
21 Sep 2012
Life / Typical for the Poloniandists [171]

Definitely not: Poland is learned (very often the hard way).

I meant : tough- typo
aphrodisiac   
21 Sep 2012
Life / Typical for the Poloniandists [171]

Mine was that certain self-proclaimed Polonia come here and project their own failures onto other people: they completely failed when they came here and had to return to mummy and daddy with their tails between their legs, or they are still living at home with mummy and daddy (and perhaps busha) despite being in their 40s, and so they assume that anybody else who came here from the 'west' fails as they did.

aaah.........true, I have met at least 2 last year. They do have a problem with adjusting and making it, at least some do. However, there are many Westerners who fall into that category as well. I have met many. The majority leaves and never returns. Poland is taught and if you can make it here, you can make it anywhere. I don't know the statistics, but that would be interesting to see. The fact is that there is a whole spectrum of people and I don't have to explain this to you. As for success, I think that it depends on the individual.

Poland is a Wild West for some:D

PS. you have been on this forum for a while , so I am sure you recall many Westerners who have left the country, but used to post here in the past.
aphrodisiac   
21 Sep 2012
Life / Typical for the Poloniandists [171]

I can assure you that the only role money played in my coming to Poland was the question 'Do I actually have enough money to go there and do that?'

it is not my business Harry. It is your life and neither you, nor anybody else should write a CV on PF to justify what they do with their lives. That's my take on it. See my point?
aphrodisiac   
21 Sep 2012
Life / Typical for the Poloniandists [171]

But actually, what makes them stand out the most is this belief that they are somehow better than ordinary Poles. Look at the posters on this thread - you can see a very nasty superiority complex running through them. BBman is a great example - he thinks that he's better than the rest of them because his Polish family are racist backwater village morons. Yet - in the very same post - he goes on to attack us.

that pretty much right and applies to a certain group of people who immigrated. The funny thing is that it also applies to other nationalities. I am Ukrainian and my family in Canada behaves like that too. With some exceptions, but when I found out that one of my aunts went to Ukraine and while she was in the museum trying to tell the locals what language they should speak, I almost lost it. When they found out I was going back, they really felt sorry for me and keep asking when I am coming back. The truth is that whoever immigrated has to make the new host country look superior in order to reduce the stress and hardship of the process ( there is a term for that, which I can't recall). That applies to me, Delph and Harry as well, and anybody else. You will not tell me that making and building a new life in a new country does not require sacrifice.

Majority of Polish immigration was economical. There is no shame in it. Poland as a country did not provide enough for those people and they decided to take matters in their own hands. Kudos to them for being brave and taking the risk.

If you Delph and you Harry do not understand that, then I don't know who will. I am not saying that you are economical immigrants, but you had your reasons and that is your life, isn't it?
aphrodisiac   
20 Sep 2012
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

Something must be wrong with me. I actually enjoyed aphrodisiac's video in post 843.

that is so funny, I just noticed that:D.

your last post is something I am very familiar with.

the veggie shop rent near my place is: 5000 PLN and it is not even central location- that is NOT Warsaw.

Not only that- people don't seem to do business plans or research their market- they don't know what the hell they are doing- but they want to open a shop.

some do and some don't, but I really don't know the statistics, not sure if they are available at all. By the looks of it a lot of people don't.

My husband is in commercial real estate and manages a few buildings in Warsaw.

that just sounds like somebody who has too much cash and nothing to loose:(

It isn't just this type, it is also small shops. Poor locations, bad pricing- very bad service. What I have learned by running my shop in a year is that word of mouth is important.

the same here. Congratulation on the business venture. It imagine it must be harder for a foreigner to make it.

anyway...rant over. This is something I am quite passionate about- there are so many shops and services in this country that are open one day and closed the next- all from poor planning.

it wasn't a rant, it was a post with a lot of interesting information. I am just stunned that the rent in Szczecin is comparable to Warsaw one. I have been on a lookout for a place to rent for some time.

Oh yes. It's great fun to watch what people open - then they make such basic mistakes such as not selling tram tickets.

why would be a great watch? I am guessing poor business practices are annoying to many people. There was a KIOSK across from my place, but it is gone now and I am happy about it, because the woman was horrible. The place was so packed with stuff, that it was difficult to enter lol.

There is a light at the end of tunnel though. Another KIOSK changed hands and I cannot imagine a nicer and very professional service. It is only a KIOSK, but the new owners are great. They know they are new in the area and they are trying really hard, although they don't have a competition.
aphrodisiac   
20 Sep 2012
Life / Polish vs British vs American - Clash of cultures [390]

but they are hard to find here nowadays

not true, I have a friend in TO, whose apartment downtown still has them, plus a really big sink. They look like they were built in the 70s, but don't appear to be run down. Good quality goes a long way:D

Back on topic. Nice harvest. I need to go into the woods this weekend.
aphrodisiac   
20 Sep 2012
Love / Dating a Polish man - how to impress his mother? [51]

don't let anybody intimidate you, because in the long run you will regret it. Some Polish people might make you feel that way, but don't succumb to that. Canadians are nice, but the excuse the we are all people pleasers and doormats is not really true. Being polite and assertive go together. Just be yourself and think twice about marrying a man who has such traditional values, which by the sound of it are not congruent with yours. Good luck:D. Don't try to fit in too much, because they will play you like a violin;).
aphrodisiac   
19 Sep 2012
News / Children licking cream off a Polish priest's legs "inappropriate" says NGO [116]

of course it is inappropriate, but I read in GW today that the letter from the students, the teachers and the parents were issued, all stating that they don't see a problem. So as we can see, the tree parties less or more directly involved don't seem to mind, while the public opinion is stunned. The priest in question refused to comment. Strange story in my opinion. Now I can see how the abuse by the priest has been going on for so long within some Polish circles and that it has been treated with either silence, acceptance or even approval of such 'innocent" clergy behavior.
aphrodisiac   
14 Sep 2012
Life / Do Poles drink before noon? [95]

Could we swing this back to something that's looks a bit closer to the title please?

I think we pretty much exhausted the topic.
aphrodisiac   
14 Sep 2012
Food / Where can I get free yeast to bake with in Poland? [11]

Thank you, didn't see it when I was there earlier; perhaps different branches have different stuff sometimes. :o)

Biedronka (among others) and any small food shop should have the fresh one: just ask for świerze drożdże- a nice tongue twister btw.

they can't afford the dried stuff as it's quite dear if you bake often.

you are probably right, I really don't know that much about the commercial baking. Enjoy!!!
aphrodisiac   
14 Sep 2012
Food / Where can I get free yeast to bake with in Poland? [11]

I don't know if fresh yeast in any good for baking bread, but let me know how it turned out:). I use it as peeling on my face.

The last time I made bread it was soda Irish bread or something like that, but I still have some dry Canadian one I am saving in case I want to bake something.

edit: fresh yeast is OK, just checked. have fun, I love fresh home bread:)
aphrodisiac   
11 Sep 2012
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

had you of said that in the very beginning then the entire banter between you and me would not have happened. But you didn't. You got defensive and starting insulting me.

the banter is over. Peace:D.

There is a really cute movie called "my life in ruins" with Nia Vardalos about a bus tour in Greece.

I have heard about it but have had not a chance to watch it yet. Thanks for remaining me.

Latest news: a Polish tour bus flipped over in France- 2 people are pronounced dead. Makes one think twice about taking Polish bus anywhere.

business changing hands at the speed of light.

The reality, at least in Szczecin is that many shops, stores and other small businesses are changing hands at the speed of light. There is this place around the corner which in the last 2 years was a Pizza place, a Food shop, was closed for a while, then reopened again. To be honest I am afraid to go in, since this place seems to be either a money laundering machine, or the owner has a really hight rent and nobody can survive.

I am puzzled.

coming in the future:

any topic suggestions, I am experiencing a dry spell:D
aphrodisiac   
10 Sep 2012
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

love your observations!

thanks:D

What kind of professional driver is he to get upset over such a trivial thing.

I doubt he was A professional driver, but he was A character for sure. lol

( I too have been on a few guided bus tours. I happen to like them)

One needs to be in the right state of mind ;)

I'm actually thinking of bringing my family on one throughout Poland.

sounds like a good idea to me:)
aphrodisiac   
10 Sep 2012
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

Polish window cleaning
I know it is mundane, or perhaps even a murderous work to some ( I know it is for me and a complete waste of time) I know nobody mentions it, because the windows have to be cleaned, washed and so on. Do you ever wonder who does it? Not Pixies for sure. I am not sure what my relationship to widnow cleaning is, but I try to avoid that particular activity by doing the most useless things in order to avoid the window cleaning. I think I have been under the radar of the Polish Commity Of Window Cleaners for some time now. I look outside and I see ALL the windows clean and spotless. I need to got to work, but....... I cannot be bothered too much with it, so instead I decided to write this.

Polish traveling
I remember Flagless mentioning that his present motherland Tailand has been flooded with a number of arrogant Russian tourist. He must have never encountered Polish tourists, although some of them ( I have heard) travel to Thailand, but they pretend to be German in order not to be put together in one bag with the vodka drinking, gold chained around their neck, littering, loud mouthed Savic brothers. Poles think that they are better then Russians. If they only knew.

I spent a week on the Polish tour bus, after being told that it is/was/has been the most uncool way of travelling by all the people who were not going;). I have been told that I am lazy, that I don't know how to use the internet. I was told that I lack imagination and for such a wordly woman like me it is not suitable to mention that I went on an organized trip. Well, too bad, because I did. One week on the bus in Greece and another one in the Greek family run hotel, far away from everything.

An explanation to Pip. O flew to Athen and only THEN I got on the bus:D

Pan Stasiu was a very keen tour "walker" (the one who always is the closest to the guide and listens to everything he/she has to say). I was like Pan Stasiu on tours when my parents dragged me on annual vacations, but I was a child at the time and unusually curious. I also had a nasty habit of checking the outfits and faces of the church goers every Sunday at that age, but that experience proved invaluable to the development of my observation skills. It is also true that those people never, ever did anything to me. I am sure they didn't notice, since they were so pious. Recalling my nasty childhood habits I looked at Mr Stasiu and realized that he is at the age when the cycle of life is on the reverse. He also had to eat between the meals on the bus, like a little child. We did too, but he was the closest to the driver and got busted. The driver had a bad day, told the tour guy that Mr Stasiu is munching on something, Mr Stasiu said that he would finish whatever he was munching on. The tour guide started crying and we all forgot for a moment about the ancient sites. Drama is very present in Polish life and that is why Polish theatre and Polish actors are very good - or at least this is what they think. That also includes Polish actresses, but that is another story all together. On top of that we were in Greece, the ancient land of drama. I need to write a piece on Polish women drama, which I think I already did on this thread.

The longer I live the less I understand some people's behaviour, so the stress is great at times. I try to cope with that stress when encountering craziness with "dressing people" into some funny characters in my little world. On this trip there was a:

TV 24 (for those who are not familiar- it is a commercial Polish TV station)- a lonely woman who had matched outfits, a camera and the need to be liked by everybody. She even complimented me on my white dress (which was a fashion disaster, but cheap) and had pigeon ex·cre·ment spots. Those I aquired on my way to Acropolis. Those pigeons seem to find me anywhere I go. Often times when at the museum I would see her camera sticking in front of my face. Strangely I cannot recall the make. Heavy makes up and blond bleached hair.

Azur Lady- she was on that plane. Loud, drunk, puking, wanted to force the door of the plane before it was cleared by the stewardess. BTW- it was the OLT stewardess. I think she was about 17 years old. I prayed that the Azur Lady would not end up with us on that bus. Well she didn't, but others did to our amusement.

Professore
I think he was teaching something at Uni, his wife lost all the travel notes and would not shut up about it for two days. Not sure what her problem was since she was taking pictures left and right during the trip.

Cougar Mother and her son
We (and my travel companion) were actually pretty sure that they were lovers. It just fitted better into our twisted minds. Not to mention the fact that they behaved that way too.

The mother left for Poland in a see through frock, which she purchased abroad and I am sure that this is what she is still wearing today. She had crooked teeth, which she didn't break after the unfortunate fall on the beautiful marble floor in the hotel. In my opinion she lacks class, because if you are a Pole and you are coming back from vacation abroad, you need to be altered in some way. BTW - Oedipus did not travel with them. Please, if you don't know who he was, don't check it on Wiki. No use.

The fallen couple
They, unlike the Cougar lady in a white seet hrough dress with crooked teeth had the most class of all the people we have met at the airport on out way back. She had a proper cast on her arm and very proper scratches on her back and legs. Her Bo was not visibly altered, but he was the unskilled driver of the scooter as we later found out. Well, who buys two weeks in the same hotel - that must have aroused their hunger and curiosity to leave the lobby at one point and check the area. They mentioned that they were not aware of the mountains and slippery roads. They scored the highest in our books.

Mr Stasiu
Jet back dyed hair, high pants and shoe number 12 or so. Lots of energy but that was probably due to his snacking habits, which left the driver mad for days and the tour guide in tears. Socks, but no mustache. No surprises there.

The always hungry woman and her Spanish husband
She ate a lot and he had a Spanish feminine fan, probably picked up on another trip in Chinese One dollar store - Polish version. Very nice couple.

Greek lovers
We all heard about them and upon my arrival to the hotel forgot about them probably due to the amount of ouzo consumed quickly at the bar. That was my last strong drink on that trip, because my travel companion could not tolerate my drinking and it was too hot for me to hide, or make trips alone to the bar.

The Greek lovers followed us wherever we went- meals, pool, bar and the beach. Often times they would present their torsos dressed in a white shirt, not dressed at all while at the beach. It was difficult to communicate with them since their English was basic and I only realized that when I needed to use a note pad to draw a picture of an olive tree. We have not tasted the sweetness of Greek men much to their dissapointment. You all have met Southern.

Feta cheese
Some compare its whiteness to the ancient marble (a true passage in one of the guidebooks), but it is way softer and tastier then the mentioned rock.

A pile of old rocks
This is what the sock and sandal-wearing husband said to his wife upon visiting another ancient sites.

Mussaka Lady aka Cerberus
In my opinion she must have been related to Cerberus Dog, except for the fact that she was guarding food we were about to steal from the tables. We simply couldn't, could we? All the cucumbers, tomatoes brushed gently by the sunrays of the Greek sun were only to be eaten under the guardful watch of the Mussaka Lady.

The pregnant Flower Child and her IT geeky husband
It appears that IT geeks CAN carry bags after all. The child is probably blessed because most of the sites we have visited were indeed holy.

Donkeys
We have not seen any, but we have heard that they are around and I am hoping that they are friendly to the ever ready for sex Greek waiters when the last woman from the Western and Eastern world boarders her plane back home.

Quiet Eve
She got so traumatized on the last trip abroad that she hardly spoke to anybody.

Heroes:
Mountains, the Sea, the mist, the fresh air, the Athenian pigeons, the Mad Greek Driver, Mussaka, olives, and olive trees, the persistence of the Greek lovers, the owner of a little hotel in Delphi, the old woman greeting us with "Yasu" and a smile, the French tourist jumping off the boat out into the see screaming: Bomb!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Losers:
None or those who have not been on the trip with me.

That is all for now, because the remaining detail of my trip will only be known to me.
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The Danish Party in Szczecin

Apparently the Danish have invaded Szczecin at one point.

The Danish husband- the most behaved member of the party (well, the wifey was around).

The Danish bloke residing in Thailand - maybe it was Flagless, but he looked way older. He was definitely attracted to breasts and very young women. No wonder he is in Thailand, although I am sure it is also for the beauty of nature and inexpensive frit golore.

The Well Dressed, Drunk from the beginning, Danish Bloke, the nicest of all the Danish blokes, blond, with the drunk smile plastered on his face for hours. Often left the pub, although I suggested from the beginning that he should have taken the sofa. Nevertheless he was a brave soul and almost lasted to the end of the party helping himself with a drink and entertaining me with some pretty interesting conversations, which I cannot recall in details due to the large amount of mixed drinks I have consumed myself that night.

The pregnant lady
Who, when spotted by the Well Dressed, Drunk from the beginning, Danish bloke was asked what had happen to her stomach. In reply she gently smiled and went for a cigarette. One got to admire the coolness of some Polish women. Danish sex education went down the drain at that point or perhaps the Well Dressed had a moment of Danish sense of humour brought out of him in a moment of temporary clarity.

The men who danced with the pole
A concrete one. A safe choice for those who have a strong fear of rejection.

Loser: Me. I misplaced my reading glasses.

Winners: the Pole dancing with the concrete pole.

The next day I heard somebody saying that dancing is good for you. That was a singer from the Greek band when I was attending the session of multicultural concert. The Polish Greek band was wayyyy better then the ones we have encountered in Greece. I am not sure why some young Greek men don't want to participate in entertaing the tourist crowd. Only the rich, retired, wig wearing men would get the courage to step up and hold the buzuki, while striking the cords. My travel companion took millions of pics of men dancing in really short skirts, which matched the thicj white leggings and must have been a comfort in the 35 C temps.

That is all for now. I have not lied - all the characters are not imaginary - they all exist and I met them all. I cannot say that they enriched my life, because I would be dishonest, but they definitely made my life more interesting.

Now, back to reality and window cleaning. It has been almost two years since I arrived in Poland and I am beginning to fit in.

thicj white leggings

thick. yummy and cozy for some;) lol
aphrodisiac   
10 Sep 2012
News / Amber Gold and other Poland's suspicious institutions [139]

the future will show. I am not going to make a prediction, because I was wrong before and with Polish politics one should wait for the development, because predictions are useless.
aphrodisiac   
10 Sep 2012
History / An American studying medicine in the PRL 1978-1985: my story [142]

When I came for a vist last year I also didn't see the word jadłospis written nor spoken.

now I have to go and check if there is one in the places I occasionally eat, at least one of them is from the communist time.
aphrodisiac   
9 Sep 2012
Life / Szalona? Ever heard it? [5]

very popular song and once you hear it, it sticks in your brain, literally.
As for Disco Polo, there is a fairly big market in Poland for it even though it has been tarnished with being "tasteless".
aphrodisiac   
8 Sep 2012
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

I have never implied that. I said that majority is not well travelled, that was not directed at you, because I don't know you.

As for Sz-n being a culture hub - well, it is not W-wa, but I am not complaining. That has a lot to do with money and Warsaw has way more, so I am not going to bite.

you simply misunderstood me. I was on the bus tour in Greece, but flew to Athens- I would never get on the bus all the way to Greece.
aphrodisiac   
8 Sep 2012
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

It seems as though you don't like other peoples opinions. you will grow up to be a great Polish mother in law- sounds like you are doing a bang up job at the moment. Poland absolutely needs more people like you. Good job.

oh, Mother of God. You are really something. I must have touched a nerve.

and when exactly did Szczecin become the hub of Polish culture.

It is the center of my universe at the moment:D
aphrodisiac   
8 Sep 2012
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

sounds a bit of a nightmare- particularly when flights are so cheap

patronizing

The reason I say this is that the drive through Poland will be killer.

a discovery of the century for pip

My best friend and her family came here from Canada in May and we did this huge road trip. Rented a van and did a massive tour through Poland, Czech and up to Berlin.

that is not a massive road trip and said by a Canadian where the driving distances are not to be compared to Polish ones makes what you wrote even more funny. Is it because you are stuck in Warsaw most of the time? Now it is my time to assume and patronize. Feels good.

The max driving time was 4.5 hours and my legs were so swollen from being in one spot for so long- they looked like table legs.

that just proves that you travel close to none in cars. So you are stuck in Warsaw most of the time. Get out more.

Take the flight to Greece- then you can spend more time in the sun!! Or at least a train!

train to Greece, you sound insane my dear. Why don't you take a train to Greece?

ok right. making a note never to comment. more like relaying my experience as a person who has travelled throughout Poland and knows what the roads are like. this is based on the fact that your posts are always about szczecin and not travelling.

colour me bad.

cry me a river. Coloring you bad would be too nice, I think you are a bit stuck up, immature and silly at times. Grow up. Little Miss Canadian Perfect- I have met the type many times;).

Been to Majorka (not by train, nor bus), Slovenia (bus- work), Greece- flying this year so far and the year is not over. Since there are cheap flights why didn't you fly to Berlin with your Canadian friends but drugged them in the van through the Polish roads? Probably because those buggers have not been out of Canada (since most Canadians don't travel at all) and spent all their money to fly to Poland. Enough patronizing for you or I should go for more?
aphrodisiac   
7 Sep 2012
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

bus to Greece???

no, bus around Greece - I am not crazy;). I just noticed that I wrote "bus to Greece" . I would never do it. The last time I took the bus was at lest 10 years ago and I still regret it.

sounds a bit of a nightmare- particularly when flights are so cheap. The reason I say this is that the drive through Poland will be killer.

we all know that Pip;)

The max driving time was 4.5 hours and my legs were so swollen from being in one spot for so long- they looked like table legs.

sounds funny, but it must have been uncomfortable.

Take the flight to Greece- then you can spend more time in the sun!! Or at least a train!

gee, thanks, I did that:D