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Posts by Arien  

Joined: 20 Oct 2008 / Male ♂
Last Post: 1 May 2010
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Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

I know, I know - not ALL Polish girls are like that, its bad to stereotype blablabla....

Well, good!

:)

how did you manage to do that, huh?

Try a city like Amsterdam.

;)
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

They're not defenseless, because I've tried to tell some blokes earlier that Dutch girls are awesome! (Just too tall for me in most cases!)

;)
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

I'm not exactly a short guy in the rest of the world though! (I remember needing a soap box to actually kiss the first girl I liked.)

:)
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

I think it's cute, maybe I should post a new add somewhere.. ''Really awesome Dutch guy looking for a cold, rude, blunt, upfront, foul-mouthed, insensitive, practical, realistic, oversexed, suicidal, crazy, mentally disturbed, blonde, hardcore prn b*tch.''

;P

What do you girls think? Will I find her?
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

I think you might be selling yourself a little bit short.

Excuse moi? Nie rozumiem.

;)

Damn i m not blonde :S

Well, if the rest of the description fits you I might overlook the fact you're not blonde. (Lucky you!)

;P
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

If only I had blonde hair, Id have been perfect! Damn!

*kills himself*

*kills himself again*

:)

Colour it?
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

Can you seriously see me as a blonde???

You're right..

*bites lip*

Why suicidal?

Don't you think she'd have to be tired of life if she wanted to be with me?

;P

Open goal really! Impress me?

Maybe he is emo ...

I know Elmo, but Emo? Sorry, never heard of him!

;)
Arien   
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]

A gentlemen would just give her this 500 PLN (what is it 100pounds?) and got over it.But you foreign cockroaches proved already that you don't know what the honour is.

Oh, and one more to break your brains over; You talk about foreign cockroaches and honour but you behave like a doormat. Why not give her 10.000 PLN, that's what a real gentleman would do! *snickers*

;)

No class!
Arien   
25 Apr 2010
History / The Polish Blame Culture! [330]

To keep a long story short, I don't think anyone can blame anyone these days anymore. I mean, who on this forum for example, can honestly say that he or she fought in the second world war? I certainly can't, and most of you can't either. So what are we talking about?

;)
Arien   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

I'm sure she's 'banking' on that.

I don't think any self-respecting young man will want to date her after she becomes a widow though, but I'm sure she'll be able to find another old geezer who doesn't really care about her.

:)

Yup, she should be really proud of herself!
Arien   
25 Apr 2010
History / The Polish Blame Culture! [330]

Very true, Arien! The fact is that 2 madmen caused many death 70 years ago.

It's important to remember, and ofcourse new findings and conclusions should be discussed at any given time, but why blame people who aren't responsible? I myself for example, am very proud of the Dutch soldiers who fought really hard to keep the Germans out, but I'm not so proud of all the Dutch people who joined the NSB, or even worse, the SS. However, I'm not responsible for what the old folks did. It doesn't make you a hero because your grandfather or grandmother opposed or even fought the Nazi's. It doesn't make you a better person when you hold a teenager from today's Germany responsible for the second world war either.

I'm right and you know it, so **** another discussion about who's to blame. Stalin and Hitler were to blame, and ofcourse all the people who served them were to blame. Most of those people are dead now. It's important we all remember though, and even more important to learn from it, and hopefully some people realize that it all started with blaming other people, so let's not do that again?

:)
Arien   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

There is a very low probability that she is sexually attracted to him but it takes all sorts in life.

I guess I'll have to wait with dating for another 56 years? Seriously, if all the girls were going to be as stupid as she is, then we should go ahead and write a book about the extinction of Europeans, and call it Birth Rate Zero.

:)
Arien   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

We can see clearly from all posts here that most of men (here? everywhere?) are narrow minded and they cant think out of the box.

I can, but we all know this is about money. You can't tell me this is natural. You can't tell me that this girl can honestly expect to be with this guy for years. (At his age, he might die tomorrow, and we all know that!)

You never know what is in people's hearts and in mind's and supposing that you know coz it doesnt fit into ur scheme of life is just pathetic.

No, a young girl who's marrying an old man who might die tomorrow, that's pathetic. I know girls like older men, because they think they're more experienced, or better in bed, or more mature, but this old man is anything but mature, because he obviously doesn't feel responsible for her emotional well-being in the long run.

At least u have something to feel better urself about.

You're right, I don't sell myself for money.

:)
Arien   
25 Apr 2010
History / The Polish Blame Culture! [330]

However just because you were not involved in the war, it doesn't mean that your life wasn't altered by it in some way.

Ofcourse, but then again the same can be said about every other choice that has been made in the past. For example, your father could've decided not to have children, which would've meant that you wouldn't have been here. I guess I just mean to say that you can't really use the second world war as an explanation for every choice that has been made in the past.

:)
Arien   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

Maybe you are the stupid one when you judge people u dont even know?

I don't know these people, but I do know what's wrong with the picture.

Again, are u mind reader? How do u know? You dont even know those people.

How and where do you think she met this man? Tell me that and I'll answer your question.

He is still a human being even if older than her. What's unnatural in being with a man?

The fact that there are plenty of handsome, nice looking, well-mannered, honest, decent, hard-working guys of her own age out there who have to remain single because it's fashionable for rich old men to buy themselves another working-class trophy. (Not speaking for myself there!) The fact that this man can't even make love to this girl without Viagra. The fact that this man might die tomorrow. The fact that this man can't expect to be there for this girl. The fact that this girl is still very young and needs to be active, she should socialize with guys and girls around her age, because it's natural and healthy to be active at the age of twenty five. This man can't be as active as a young man. Girls her age usually look for a healthy, strong man who can be expected to take care of things and look after her when she needs him to.

IF he was 30 years old how could she expect him to be with him for another 50 years? there are accidents etc If you were in love with a girl and she was sick and about to die, would u not want to be with her coz she will die soon anyway?

I'm sure you're clever enough to know that there's a world of difference between things you can, and can't expect? At the time she has met this old man, she could not have expected to live a life with him. The situations you describe are possibilities, but I'm talking about simple expectations. (Which are so totally ******* obvious if you'd ask me!)

Read above, there was recently a case when a guy got married with a woman who was dying from cancer. She was Big Brother winner or something. So they are pathetic?

No, because that's different. Anything could happen, and nothing is certain, we all know that. But you can't honestly tell me that this girl could've expected to be with this guy for a few years at the time she met him.

This works in both ways - men have rights to women's wealth as well.

I'm not going to marry someone who could've been my grandmother for money anyway. Not even if she had millions.

:)
Arien   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

Well, not really, when they were going to marry they already knew she was dying of cancer.

Can you show me where it says that she is dying of cancer? And even if she is dying of cancer, there are many young guys who are dying of cancer aswell, and they're probably more attractive and active than this old man.

He was her tutor at university.

She would not have met this man while actively socializing with people around her age.

It doesnt change the fact that if she loves him she would not want to be with anyone else regardless his age and position.

Oh really? Well, why is it that these old guys always are wealthy then? Why do I never see a young woman with an old guy who's poor?

I see your point but why it is always woman's fault?

Well, I'm glad you see my point. It's better than defending old men who use young girls, because if you thought it's only the girl I was having a dig at, then you're mistaken. Oh, and where did I say it's always the woman's fault?

She may be genuinely in love with him, there are lots of cases when girls fall in love with their teachers, more if the girl had bad relationship with the father so why always it is woman who is bad and nasty, i just dont get it.

Where did I say women are always bad and nasty?

:)

If a man of 25 did the same then I'm sure Arien would speak out against it too.

True. I don't mind being with a girl who's like ten years older, and I don't mind a guy being with a girl who's like ten years younger either, but a gap of sixty years is just taking the **** and you all know it.

;P

Excuse my Dutch.
Arien   
25 Apr 2010
Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

I was not talking about the Lapicki's wife dying of cancer.

Then why bring it into this? It's like comparing apples with strawberries.

It was my other example when i was sayin that sometimes people marry even if they know they wont be together for long.

If they both had health problems I'd understand. If your partner suddenly fell ill I'd understand. If you're going to date an old man who could've been your grandfather, and he's wealthy aswell, I'm going to call you a dziwka. (Which doesn't mean I'm going to treat you as a horrible person mind you! Just calling a peach a peach here!)

The argument that people should not be together if they know one of them will die soon is not convincing, thats all.

My argument was that it is unnatural. Which it is. (I gave you a full explanation as to why it's unnatural, so be my guest to say that it's natural for twenty five year old girls to marry eighty five year old men who can't even be active anymore.)

It was my other example when i was sayin that sometimes people marry even if they know they wont be together for long.

I'm going to die next year. I'm poor aswell. Will you marry me? Anyone? No? Thanks for illustrating my point!

;P

I dont know why - maybe one of reasons is that if you have money you can socialize and then u can meet more different people, even younger than urself?

You can meet and socialize with people without having much money aswell you know, especially when you're a student.

;)

Arien had written dziwka above and we were both tongue-in-cheek.

Always!

;P

But i find it sad that people always think a person is worthless if she or he did something different. That's all.

I never said she was worthless. (If you've read all my posts, you would've seen I've defended prostitutes very often!)

;)

Maybe the girl likes sitting on his lap and hearing fireside stories all day long ;)

Maybe his love really is blind when he takes off his glasses? Maybe she just thinks it's cute to change his diapers? Or maybe she thinks his dentures sound funny when he talks? Maybe she thinks it's cool to tell her friends that her boyfriend used to know famous actresses like Beata Tyszkiewicz? Alright, alright, I'll admit that's too far fetched! It must be his awesome, god-like sexdrive! Right?
Arien   
26 Apr 2010
Genealogy / Polish person's average height? [210]

1. For Dutch 60% of women over 170 cm

The average height for Dutch women would be 170,2 cm (5 feet and 7 inches.) between the ages of 25 to 34. (Fully grown adults.) I'm 176 cm, but I see many Dutch girls who are about the same height, or slightly taller than me. (With heels on most of them will be taller though!) So if I had to guess I'd say that 60% could come close to the truth.
Arien   
26 Apr 2010
Love / English Men vs Polish Men [207]

Women don't scare men. Women can put men off though. (I think it's better to use the word disappoint though!) Women can break or make a gentleman, just like men can make or break a lady. Men are men, and women are women, regardless of nationality. We all make mistakes. We all read things. We all think. We all form opinions based on the input we recieve. To a certain extent, we create our own reality, because once we are convinced something really is as it has been presented to us, there's a fat chance that we will change our opinions, behaviour or expectations, and unfortunately, not always for the best. (Meaning this will affect other people around you because of your behaviour.) Some people also behave like sheep, and follow all the latest trends because they don't want to be different, do they? Well, here's a newsflash for you: We're all different from eachother. We always will be.

You've got sensitive guys, insensitive guys, macho guys, soft guys, old guys, young guys, gentlemen, bad boys, open-minded guys, old-fashioned guys, religious guys, non-religious guys, handsome guys, less handsome guys, strong guys, weak guys, brave guys, insecure guys, sweet guys, hard guys, wise guys, immature guys, boring guys, exciting guys, materialistic guys, spiritual guys, simple guys, complicated guys, oversexed guys, cold guys, warm guys, funny guys, smart guys, dumb guys, serious guys, rich guys, poor guys, clumsy guys, handy guys, manly guys, girly guys, loyal guys, unloyal guys, hard-working guys, lazy guys, decent guys, classy guys, rough guys, cheap guys, experienced guys, inexperienced guys, cheating guys, lying guys, honest guys, family guys, adventurous guys, caring guys, careless guys, humble guys, arrogant guys, succesful guys, less succesful guys, you name it!

And guess what? The exact same goes for women. So don't tell anyone to man up, or whatever! Allow someone to be someone in his or her own unique way. The only real men are the men who know they should be themselves. We can't please everyone, and we shouldn't want to please everyone either. Same goes for all the women out there. There is no such thing as ''the'' real man, and there is no such thing as ''the'' real lady either. If you don't want guys to make generalizations about girls, then why make generalizations about guys in this thread?

Dare to be honest, and you'll see that most people will be honest with you aswell. Some people might disapprove of such honesty, but you'll find out that the few people who don't will be the people who will really understand you. So don't be ashamed of yourself, or constantly compare yourself to others. Ever. You'll find him eventually, and he'll find you. He won't find you if you pretend to be someone you're not, just like you won't find him if he pretends to be someone he's not.

I can assure you a lot of people pretend. Both men and women think they should be something society expects of them. Too much pressure if you ask me. I think it's a shame, because I can see how many people aren't genuinely smiling anymore, and I'm sure you can see it too. You don't have to be perfect, and you don't have to be a saint. Just be yourself girls. Okay? (It's okay, you can barf, puke and throw up now!)

I thought I'd say something on behalf of all the guys who deep down, still mean well with you!
Arien   
28 Apr 2010
Love / I'm from Argentina, but I want to meet this Polish Girl.. [20]

I think there are many girls who seem nice on the internet, and a few really might be nice if you get to know them, but I think it's much better to meet someone in real life. There's always something you don't really know about eachother..

Sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear!
Arien   
28 Apr 2010
Love / English Men vs Polish Men [207]

In all honesty I dont think Polish men are as popular with English women as Polish women are with British men.

That's pretty weird, because from what I'm reading here British men don't always seem to be popular with British women either?

Just wondering!
Arien   
28 Apr 2010
Love / I'm from Argentina, but I want to meet this Polish Girl.. [20]

I'm just saying you shouldn't expect too much untill you can say for certain that you two really like eachother after you've met a few times, and before any of that happens, you shouldn't invest or even risk everything for someone who might not turn out to be the one for you. Just ask yourself a few questions. Do you want to live in Poland? Will you be able to obtain a Visa? Will you be able to find a job in Poland? Are you learning Polish already?

If you can answer those questions with a yes, then you should meet her a couple of times when you have the money, and see how it goes. If you're not certain about your answers however, then you might aswell find a girl closer to home. I'm not going to tell you what you should do though, because she could be the love of your life.

Good luck!
Arien   
28 Apr 2010
Love / I'm from Argentina, but I want to meet this Polish Girl.. [20]

Well, first things first? Go ahead and see what happens when you meet her!

In the meanwhile, you should already do some research for yourself to see if she'll able to obtain a Visa. (It might depend on what you earn aswell?) For example; What kind of qualifications does she have? What kind of courses could she do in Argentina to learn the language, or courses to improve her chances of finding a job?

If everything works out between you two on your first meeting, you should keep in touch and see about a second time, and if she really thinks she wants to move to Argentina for you, then atleast make sure you have some answers for her.

You can't expect people to throw themselves into the deep. You should really ask yourself if you would mind to live in Poland, because family seems to be really important to some Polish girls, and you never know if she might get homesick after a while. (Hey, such things happen!) Don't let me discourage you or anything, just make sure you're really certain about all of this. It'll be better for yourself, and for the girl aswell if you're prepared for anything.

Just stay positive, and see what happens when you meet her!
Arien   
28 Apr 2010
Love / I'm from Argentina, but I want to meet this Polish Girl.. [20]

Lesson: don't trust people on the internet.

True, you should always be careful, but he's talking about a girl who showed him her parents while they were talking to eachother on the webcam, which means she already informed her family of the possibility of a foreign boyfriend, which means she could be serious about him.

Just saying!
Arien   
28 Apr 2010
News / Nuclear Power in Poland? Yes, please! Absolutely nobody disagrees! [73]

How much Uranium can be found worldwide? Barely enough for sixty to eighty years of energy production.

Even when they know where they can delve Uranium, it's still going to be impossible to actually reach some of these deposits. It takes eight years to build a fully functional, and fully productive nuclear reactor, and will cost a lot of money. In those wasted eight years, and for the same amount of money, you could've built many more water-turbines, solar panels and windmills, which all have an 100% effectiveness, without needing any other additional resources than the materials needed to produce them.

How much time, effort and energy does it cost to enrich Uranium? Much and much more than a water-turbine, a solar panel or a windmill, because these have an infinite supply of free energy, which makes them 100% effective.

Is coal sexy? No, it's not sexy. People who are afraid to lose their jobs shouldn't have to worry about that, if the government together with business people co-operate to make a smooth transition happen. People should simply be offered an education, so they can simply switch jobs from mine workers to electricians, engineers or become a part of the technical maintenance teams you will need to keep everything working. More jobs, more production, more money, and an infinite amount of cheap and clean energy for an infinite amount of time aswell.

Bring it on!
Arien   
28 Apr 2010
News / Nuclear Power in Poland? Yes, please! Absolutely nobody disagrees! [73]

Which is great when you've got sunlight and wind, not too great for base load.

Check out the Hoover Dam please.

Yawn, breeder reactors?

Oh really? Well, answer this question then; How much time, money, effort and energy will it cost to actually create Uranium? And even with breeder reactors, you'll still need a certain amount of raw, natural Uranium! (U 235.)

Green technology looks more promising and you know it.
Arien   
28 Apr 2010
News / Nuclear Power in Poland? Yes, please! Absolutely nobody disagrees! [73]

Yea, hydro is awesome, but also very expensive.

Less expensive than all the nuclear reactors, factories and personel you're going to need to achieve the same results. (Energy wise.)

Or Thorium. Anyway, for the uranium argument, there is plenty. Little thing called reprocessing helps too...

You'll need to repeat the whole splitting process again, which means you're going to create even more nuclear waste than you did before. (Ever thought about that?) There are four billion kilos of natural Uranium which we could delve if we wanted to. (Unless technological miracles happen, the rest would be impossible to reach!) There are two types of variants. Only U 235 would be suitable material. With our current energy usage, this means that we're talking about sixty to eighty years of supply. (But ofcourse we're going to use more energy as the population is still growing.)

Again, no answer for base load. Would you suggest replacing all base load in a country the size of Germany with hydro? It's no feasible for the long term. Coal, nuclear, or gas, take your pick.

No? I think I've already answered your question, because it's going to cost you much more to build nuclear reactors and factories to achieve the same results. (And it's going to cost you even more to actually delve, transport, reprocess or even create Uranium.) How often does a nuclear reactor needs maintenance? (Every month?) What is the lifespan of a nuclear reactor? (70 years?) Thorium? How much of this material do you think you'll need? That's even worse than Uranium if we're going to talk about effectivity!

Windmills, water-turbines or solar panels. Take your pick. (Actually, take them all at the same time!) No waste, no transport, a less work-intensive process, a hundred percent effectiveness, no risks. More jobs, an endless supply of energy resources and more money in your pockets.

Give me a real argument please.