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Posts by Lenka  

Joined: 17 Nov 2009 / Female ♀
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Lenka   
4 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

I don't care if the word with get out of use- I said it already. What do irritate me is someone who tries to lecture me on my language. And talking bs along the way.

Murzyn is not racist. Period. If you want to live in your fantasy word then go ahead, it won't change anything.
Lenka   
4 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

No Jon, it only means that we won't buy it when some foreigner tells us the word is offensive when in fact it's not.

But hey, since you don't think that words that originally were neutral in tone offend, you Pollack Lenka, I'm sure you don't mind such words being used about you.

That word alone doesn't offend me, it's the way someone would use it. And besides- where the word Polack the original English word for a Polish person? Because the word murzyn was just that- a word to describe dark skinned person.
Lenka   
4 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

Jon, it's funny that yet more POLISH ppl told you the word is not racist yet you continue to argue
And as to your graffiti: someone used the word Żydzi - do you think that word is racist or offensive as well? Should we change that word as well?

You get funnier with every post.
BTW- I do live in Poland my whole life so the argument you shot at Magdalena won't work here
Lenka   
3 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

Thank you for that piece of information- I REALLY didn't know that :D

BTW Jon- actually they are both but that's a different topic...
Lenka   
3 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

One more thing- if I ever heard some scatter brain complain about the blacks it was either "Ci Czarni" or "Te czarnuchy" never ever "Ci murzyni". But I guess foreigners are right- Poland- rewrite your dictionaries!!! :D
Lenka   
3 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

If that's the case I will take an offence in the word "chair". I don't know the reason yet but I will find it :)

I'm not too attached to the word however I find ridiculous what I read here.
The word is getting out of use. True. It will probably disappear in 2 generations. It's natural. However suggesting it's a racist word is wrong, stupid and has no use.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

Sorry Jon, but I still don't buy it. If someone wants to make a big deal out of it cool, but it's really funny (as in looking at something so stupid that it's funny) that ppl will change a word (a good one, very often having better connotations than the word black) cos someone had some paranoia.

I use the word black because of logic, not because I find the word murzyn offensive. The same way I won't use Afro- American (considering black ppl from USA).
Lenka   
3 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

the word czarny has not very pleasant connotations

Oh yes, it can sound very unpleasant in certain sentences. I stick to it however very often I would use the word murzyn for better sound. Logic is logic though and I stick to black :)

btw it's as if urban educated people cannot be bigots

Good point.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

Probably from those Polish people who advised us not to use it in polite speech.

Then you had to talk to ppl that didn't get the fact that that word simply means a dark skinned person.

So Lenka, would you use it to a black person's face while visiting their home?

As I said I use the word "black" however if I did use it and they made a big deal out of it I would know what to think.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

Ok, so now two foreigners are trying to convince me they know the connotations of a word better than me. Splendid!
Listen ppl, from where did you get the idea it's a racist word, huh? Of course it can be used in a racist way but the word "black" or "Afro-American" can be as well.

It wasn't an offensive word and only sick minded ppl made it so.
As I said- I use the word "black" however suggesting that ppl using the word murzyn are racist is just dumb.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

Oh give it a rest. It's a perfectly normal word and it's not used in a bad way 99% of the time. I use the word black simply because it's logical- I'm white so black ppl are black.

I have enough of ppl telling Poles that some word is offensive (even if it isn't) just because they percive it this way. It's like me going to UK and saying that the word "to polish" is offensive cos it's the same spelling as Polish. Sick.
Lenka   
3 Apr 2014
Language / IS "MURZYN" word RACIST? [686]

It is only used perjoratively nowadays.

One of the biggest ******** I ever read here (I mean in the "normal" threads". Yes, young ppl use black more often but that's because of all the bad attention murzyn aquired (due to foreigners imo). Ppl over 40 will use the word murzyn naturally and without any bad connotations. Quite frankly I hear "black" being used in a pejorative way more often.
Lenka   
8 Feb 2014
Law / Prostitution in Poland, is it legal? [24]

Paying for sex as well as offering sex for money is completely legal. What's illegal is having profit from someone else prostitution. Very simple and very fair.
Lenka   
10 Dec 2013
USA, Canada / Why do you guys think that so much Polonia is fake? [51]

I have not seen cops even show up to a club or bar in Poland even once. Even in my hood in Dabrowa Gornicza in Limanowskiego in all my time there I have not seen any cops show up and saw plenty of fights and agression and threats and people getting beat up with bootles, etc.

Then you must have been blind. I live in quite safe town and still I saw cops in a pub few times. In what Poland have you been?
Lenka   
29 Oct 2013
Language / Should I learn Polish or she learn English? [83]

At the beggining? I don't think so. For now she needs encouragement not correcting. It's too early for that. If anything it will put her off. Giving an example by speaking clearly and correctly- sure but correcting (too much correcting that is) can slow down the process and make her feel stupid.
Lenka   
29 Oct 2013
Language / Should I learn Polish or she learn English? [83]

Reading but not understanding is ok for now. Let's do it that way- when we are born we do not comprehend any language yet we learn it by listening and so on. Just remember- let her ask for directions, buy stuff and things like that. Even if she's going to have some problems it will bebefit her. Classes are a must

When I started learning Russian after a month of classes I decided I don't improve enough so I watched some stupid soap opera (they are the best for easy language :) ). Even though I understood only singular words I kept doing it- after 3 months I was the best in my class in vocabulary and comprehension. Classes were giving me the basic skills and the series developed it.
Lenka   
28 Oct 2013
Language / Should I learn Polish or she learn English? [83]

Hm, as a Pole that had to learn English- the classes are a must but also TV, music, talking to you and so on. Just let her "bath" in the language at every opportunity (which won't be too hard since you are in UK) and DON't make it easy on her not to communicate in English- don't do stuff for her.
Lenka   
29 Aug 2013
Life / Bad Polish mothers [35]

Wow, I thank you very much- I did need that laugh.

I do know bad things happen but somehow I managed to live in Poland for 27 years without being trafficed, raped, drugged or anything like that. My friends escaped such fate as well. I repeat- Poland is not some haven without any bad things happening here but it's not hell either.
Lenka   
29 Aug 2013
Life / Bad Polish mothers [35]

Well, I live here for 27 years and although some bad things do happen I wouldn't say it's as bad as you describe. As to google search- type anything and you will get many results- not necessarily accurate or true.
Lenka   
15 Aug 2013
Life / What do Poles really think about cats? [470]

Well, she wants to make you proud. My mother once, after moving to my father's home, walked out barefoot in the morning and stood on dead rat my father's cat brought home. The cat waited to be rewarded for bringing this treassure and instead was suprised by my mother screaming her lungs out :)
Lenka   
22 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

In my opinion beating takes the cake- if we make sure things like that (both men and women) are not neglected and victims are helped we can move on to another, more subtle points. Thankfully in Poland if someone is hurt for more than 7 days (broken legs, arms and so on) the government starts investigation by itself.

And yeah, I will be crying because feminist showed women that it doesn't have to be that way. That if you are abused you can kick the abusers ass.

And one question- since feinists are so men hating how comes they are the one that invite singe fathers into their marches? I can't see other organisations fighting for their rights
Lenka   
22 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Iron- if it was unbiased and serious I would agree. As I said- I hate the idea of men being ashamed of the fact that they are abused by a women and that when if some of them do report it they are often laughed at by police officers and told that thay should be able to handle their own women. This situations should be treated with the same stern approach but don't tell me that anything presented in that movie was even remotely ok.
Lenka   
22 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Oh no Iron, I'm not. In the movie are parts like that women have bruises simply because when men defends himself he is simply stronger so sorry winetou. No Iron. I never lauged or ridiculed any victim of domestic violence. Men included. If something escalates to the point of hitting there is nothing understandable about it. One side or the other. And thanks to that "crazy" feminists victims of such violence are getting help more often every year
Lenka   
22 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

In the early ninties my mother worked with four other women in a office. And only two of them all didn't have to regularily put on a violet make up to cover the brusies their husbands gave them One of them in the end ended up in hospital with broken ribs, jaw pulled teeth and other things. Do you want to know why? Because her husband jumped on her and banged her head against the wall. So don't ask me Polonius to calmly watch a movie in which part of the blame for things like that is put on the victim. Most of my friends' mums were hit at least once by their husbands. Now at least women know they have other option and don't have to put up with men like that.

And I don't say men are not abused- but funnily enough it's female groups that tell hem it's no shame to go to the police. It's feminist circles that welcome single fathers that want equal rights with single mothers.
Lenka   
22 Jun 2013
Life / Professional feminists' of Poland meet-up [631]

Because women have different physique than men.

Hm, it would be interesting seing for example men competing with women in artistic gynastics :) Of course we are different and joining sports would be just stupid.