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Paulina   
14 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

I don't disregard it
and blame the brave journalists who bring this to the public's attention or label them anti-Semites!

I don't claim that there are no gold-diggers and prostitutes, or those who go after Western men, among Polish and Eastern European women and I don't disregard the fact that in the past some Polish women were treating Western men as a ticket to the West, that they were ending up as prostitutes in the West and that they were victims of human trafficking (and probably some still do and are). And I realise that this is where the stereotype about Polish women came from, as I already stated in this comment earlier in the thread:

https://polishforums.com/life/women-promiscuous-towards-foreigners-refugees-81405/#msg1916880

Nevertheless, it is a stereotype that has nothing to do with the majority of Polish women. I do wonder whether you understand that or not, Lyzko?

are or are Polish women NOT more promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees than other nationalities.

Well then...
Polish women in GENERAL are NOT more promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees than other nationalities (except for maybe Muslim women - no woman wants to get stoned to death or sth, after all).

endemic corruption

"Endemic corruption" is when corruption "is the norm and not the exception". I wouldn't say that corruption is somehow "the norm" in Poland. According to Wikipedia corruption in Poland is below the world average. Is corruption in Poland worse than in the US or the West in general? Yes, according to Corruption Perceptions Index it is. But there are also plenty of other countries where corruption is worse than in Poland, so I don't understand why you're obsessing so much about corruption among Poles of all people.

Also, the fact that there's more corruption in Poland than in the US, for example, doesn't mean it's connected to sex. Of course, I'm sure it happens too, but I am not aware of any data proving that it's more prevalent in Poland than, for example, in the US. I'm sure you realise that such stuff happens in the US too (Hollywood, Harvey Weinstein scandal, etc.).
Paulina   
12 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

She also violated the rule to never import what you can find where you are going.

They've been together for years. A guy is not a toy that you throw out when you move abroad o_O

That's why I would never go to Poland looking for a wife. Never...

But isn't your wife Polish? lol 🤔
Paulina   
12 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

and said: Please, leave my gf alone or you might get hurt.

He didn't even speak English. She translated for him at his job interview.

foreign language, foreign accent, no friends

That single Anglophile friend of mine who moved to the UK lived with female roommates and her English was great. I agree it isn't smart to be completely on your own in a foreign country if you don't have experience with living abroad and don't know the language. But it doesn't mean you have to necessarily have a Western/foreign boyfriend to move abroad.
Paulina   
12 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Or on the London tube.

Or at work. My best friend was sexually harassed by a son of her boss in the UK. She quit her job because of this. She wasn't single though - she moved for work to the UK with her Polish boyfriend. It didn't help her in any way that she wasn't single.
Paulina   
12 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

A man can walk into the bar

Or on the London tube. The woman I knew from work was harassed on regular basis by men there when she was coming back from work. The same would be happening if she had a boyfriend though. He wouldn't accompany her on her way from work, after all.

is a target or for sale.

You don't have to move abroad for that. In this sense life in general is less "fun" for women, than for men...
Paulina   
12 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Today, they still have a problem with entering the US, for example.

But the US isn't such a tempting destination anymore, especially considering that Poles can work and live all over the EU these days.

A single woman moving to Western Europe alone can be done but it sure isn't easy or fun.

Why? My best female friend from high school moved to Paris (she came back to Poland years later though). One of my friends from college moved to the UK - an Anglophile female. Another single woman I knew from work also worked in the UK. Of course, this is not for everybody and it is more dangerous than for a single guy, but it isn't some kind of impossible feat for a single woman and it isn't any less "fun" than for men.
Paulina   
12 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

have you any proof that what I've posted is in any way false?

lol
It's you who's making claims about Polish and Eastern European women, so you should be the one backing up those claims with some kind of evidence. So far you only stated that your basis for your claims are "conversations abroad with numerous Slavs" (I'm guessing men :)).

For example, you claimed that: "promiscuous sex (...) was usually a survival technique during Communist times". Where did you get this nonsense from? lol Also from "conversations abroad with numerous Slavs"? :))

If Polish women were ever hot for foreigners it was because a foreigner could be a ticket to the free and democratic West where prostitutes always made more than the Polish ones.

Maybe in the communist times, but later, when more foreigners were coming to Poland, Polish women were (and still are) getting into relationships with foreigners also for other reasons.

The truth is that the attractiveness of foreigners in general and refugees in particular has greatly diminished over the past decades.

That's also my impression. I'm guessing that the novelty of Polish women probably wore off too (?).
Paulina   
10 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Didn't Strzelec already explain why?

What do you mean?

Unless you enjoy being pissed and $hitted on.

I'm guessing very few women enjoy things like that (if any). That's why prostitutes exist.

As for my comment - I wrote it based on a book written by a Polish investigative journalist who based his book on evidence gathered by the Polish police in the so called "Dubai scandal". Polish title of this book is "Dziewczyny z Dubaju".

Judging by what was written in that book the sex those women had with that "Arab prince" and his friends was normal, there was no pissing or shi*ting. Apparently those men were so handsome that some of those women would be ready to pay themselves for having sex with them lol

There was only one case of a guy shi*ting on one of them - a Polish guy in Poland.

Paulina is obviously living in the clouds.

What are you talking about?
Paulina   
10 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

He's an old guy and this has been a US fantasy for a long time... let him have his daydreams about Eastern European women throwing themselves at his feet and begging to be used....

lol
That's my guess too, he generally has a weird attitude towards Polish women and draws strange conclusions from having conversations with them in real life, from what I've noticed.
Paulina   
10 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Devil's Advocate without acknowledging the (albeit remote!) possibility that there might be just some credence to what I'm saying.

Lyzko, what you're saying is basically that Polish women are prostitues. How can we possibly "acknowledge" the "possibility" that there might be "some credence" to that if we know it's not true? Are you sick in the head? There are prostitues in every country. In the US prostitution and sex trafficking is thriving even though prostitution is illegal in your country and prostitutes can get arrested, unlike in Poland. Imagine if it was legal in the US lol And apparently there's no shortage of so called "sugar babes" - young uni students selling themselves to older men for money for their uni tuition or health care and expensive gifts, etc. I read a blog of an American married man with kids who was using their services. He could pay for his kids' education and new furniture for his entire house for all the money he spent on them, as he himself admitted. One of his favourite "sugar babes" was, btw, a Jewish girl, a uni student from a "good family".

There are even sites where you can find yourself a "sugar babe" or "sugar daddy":

chicagoreader.com/reader-partners/sugar-baby/

So, how is that better, for example, than a Polish woman having sex for money with some filthy rich, 30-something, handsome and well-built Arab prince on some super yacht or in a villa in Courchevel? :D (I've just finished reading "Girls from Dubai" lol)

Btw, I don't know if you realise this, but there are also male prostitutes in this world, including in Poland and in the US :))
Paulina   
10 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

women in Communist Europe (including the former Eastern Germany) were forced to exchange sexual favors in order save their own skins.

Under what "circumstances" women in Communist Europe were forced to exchange sexual favors in order to "save their own skins"? lol I don't know, maybe during the Stalinist period there were such cases, but later? It's hard to even tell what you're talking about. What do you mean by "save their own skins"? To save their lives? To not be sent to prison? In Poland it would have to be really rare, because I've never even heard about anything like that and I've never read a single article about it. Obviously, there were all kinds of shortages and life was poorer in communist states and totalitarian regime encouraged by it's nature corruption and bribery. But that can be said about any totalitarian and authoritarian regime. And, of course, if men were coming from rich West to a poor, communist country there would always be some women willing to exchange money or luxury items for sex, but that can be said about any poor or poorer country, not only about communist states. In some really poor countries people even sell their kids to peadophiles.
Paulina   
10 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

"Prostitutes"??! You mean "kurwy"?

Here, among others:

All this lead to a far more in-your-face attitude towards foreign men than is customary in Western Europe on the whole, save of course for the Red Light District of world class cities such as Amsterdam.

Paulina   
7 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

There was a class(?) of women in Poland and other countries in the region who more or less threw themselves at westerners in hopes of improving their material condition

Yes, that's where this stereotype about women from former Eastern Bloc came from (+prostitution due to poverty and human trafficking). But times change and Lyzko doesn't seem to be up to date.

but they weren't the norm even in the toughest times of the early 90s much less now....

Exactly. That's my point...
Paulina   
7 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Poland in general has far fewer hang-ups about sex than the US. Mostly that's a very healthy thing.

But that's true about Europe in general, not only about Poland. Lyzko was comparing Eastern European women to Westerners, not just to Americans.
Paulina   
7 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

Many Eastern European women in general often appear more sexually forward than most Westerners are used to from their own societies!

In case of Polish women that's a stereotype that doesn't have a confirmation in reality in Poland.

However in this respect, Polish women are no different from Czech, Ukrainian or Russian females whom I've encountered abroad.

My impression is that people in general get more "promiscuous" when abroad - that goes both for men and women. And there are differences between Polish, Czech, Ukrainian and RuSSian women. For example, the attitudes towards sex are more liberal in the Czech Republic. Poland is more conservative in this respect (as it is a more conservative country in general).

save of course for the Red Light District of world class cities such as Amsterdam or Copenhagen.

You're such a "charmer", Lyzko lol You must be "all the rage" among Eastern European women ;O🤦
Paulina   
7 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

@mafketis, it's not "splitting hairs". I actually think men are more attracted to novelty than women, because they're the ones who want to have sex with many different women. In case of women it's more about rarity. If a woman has a preference towards certain type of look in a man, then it won't "wear off" even if she moves to a country where such look is common (unlike in her own country). That's why I'm saying it has nothing to do with novelty.
Paulina   
7 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

women are (more) attracted to novelty precisely to help guarantee diversity in the gene pool

They're attracted to diversity/rarity, not to "novelty" then. This is why blonde people with blue eyes are often considered the most "attractive" - because they're very rare. Not so much in Europe, obviously, but in the world in general - very much so. Only 2% of people in the world are natural blondes and only 8% to 10% of the global population has blue eyes.

Novelty is something that wears off. Rarity doesn't "wear off".
Paulina   
6 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

@pawian, I was wondering if he's trying to lure you back to PF lol

men's taste tends to be a bit more predictable

If you mean that they'll have sex with anything that's alive, then I guess you're right ;D But I'd say that men are also attracted to what's "exotic" to them. When I was in Italy my female friend, who's a blue-eyed blonde, was very popular among Italian males, even though she isn't really that pretty. But they were crazy about her eyes and hair - they were saying that she has a laser-blue eyes lol In her company I was pretty much invisible to them :)

and not related to novelty so much...

I don't think it's about novelty. I'm guessing it's about diversity in gene pool. Women have to be more picky about that, because they're the ones ending up pregnant and bringing children to this world.
Paulina   
6 Jul 2023
Life / Are Polish Women very promiscuous towards foreigners and refugees? [197]

@Alien, is there a reason why you're digging up such old threads? Are you so bored that you decided to become another PF troll?

while Latin American women melt at the sight of blonde men...

And men from countries with darker complexion melt at the sight of blonde, blue-eyed women, no matter whether those men are from Italy, Arabic countries or India.
Paulina   
5 Jul 2023
Off-Topic / Benefits to Poland of being annexed by Russia [17]

America is a good example of a country where cultural hate has eclipsed racial hatred.

1. What are you talking about?
2. What does it have to do with the topic of this thread?

If you really want to hate - then you don't need much reason at all.

So what you're saying is that RuSSians want to hate other people? o_O Or what is your point?
Paulina   
5 Jul 2023
Off-Topic / Benefits to Poland of being annexed by Russia [17]

Poland if it decides to rejoin the Russian sphere

"Decides"? Is that some kind of a RuSSian euphemism? LMAO

Would have been funny if not for the Ukranian situation.

Even without the Ukrainian situation Bobko's post would be sick. But what can you expect from a RuSSist...
Paulina   
2 Jul 2023
Travel / The tick in Poland are very dangerous is it true? [27]

@susa82, ticks can be found in parks too, but as long as you don't walk on the grass you should be OK. You could also wear light-coloured leggins and socks (so your legs would be covered - make sure there's no naked skin between the socks and leggins) if you want to walk on the grass during summer and late spring/early autumn. (light-coloured clothes - so you could see the ticks on your legs)

Btw, formic acid is apparently a good natural repellent against ticks. It's because ants are the natural enemy of ticks and this acid produced by their bodies scares ticks away. You can buy it in pharmacies in this form:

doz.pl/apteka/p8021-Spirytus_mrowczany_plyn_50_g_Amara
Paulina   
2 Jul 2023
Travel / The tick in Poland are very dangerous is it true? [27]

@Alien, I remember watching a documentary on this and Poland and surrounding areas were the region with the biggest number of ticks in Europe (I'm guessing that it's due to having a lot of forests).

The biggest number of ticks infected with Lyme disease is in Central and Eastern Poland (60-70% of ticks infected).

Lyme disease is treatable

Not really. Not entirely.
Paulina   
30 Jun 2023
Off-Topic / Russian Views On Poland and Vice Versa [414]

by installing quicksand traps on the road....

Maf, thanks for that - I had a genuine laugh ;D No wonder people in Rostov welcomed Wagner Group and Prigozhin with open arms - RuSSia under Putin can't even fix roads lol
Paulina   
24 Jun 2023
Love / Cheating from spouses. Is cheating very common in Poland ? [116]

While local girls get nervous around me for no reason just because I have been doing more proper push ups lately.

I doubt it has anything to do with your push ups/body-build. Unless you really look like some thug or a low life kibol.

Even a daughter of a millionaire is beneath me.

Oh wow... "Beneath you"... ;D ;D ;D You got some overblown ego. I rest my case - whatever hits you, you clearly deserve it, so I don't care anymore :) Good riddance, "princeling" ;D

...or in Kashubian interior. :)

Now that would be fitting - a Kashubian wife for Kashub1410 :)) But, nah, it's probably going to be better if Polish women are spared the "honour" of having to deal with Grunni's big muscles and his even bigger ego :P He's clearly too much for them ;D
Paulina   
24 Jun 2023
Love / Cheating from spouses. Is cheating very common in Poland ? [116]

Realistic? I would suggest prejudiced. I would say it works more often than not.

I would guess that it depends on circumstances. If someone lives and works in the country, knows the language and culture, the woman's family... But if a guy "orders" a mail-order bride on the internet that can barely communicate with him... then, well... :)

Also, I wonder where such a staunch Catholic like Kashub1410 would find a wife for himself that would be conservative enough for him? In Philippines? He probably might as well just find himself a wife in the Polish countryside in Podkarpacie, for example. I think he's being too dramatic :)