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Posts by Lenka  

Joined: 17 Nov 2009 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 13 Dec 2025
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Lenka   
9 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

If the guy makes 100 gees rather than 30, she can get out of the house, get into her own car,

I'm more of the type of mixing business with pleasure so I prefer to go out AND earn money, do something instead of just hunging around.

In 1969, 10% of women were below the poverty line. In 2012 - 15%

40% of workforce was female by then...
Lenka   
9 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

Oh for Pete's sake, if it was so great you should have stayed at home when kids were little. As it is me, and a lot of other women choose earning money and getting out of the house at least for few hours
Lenka   
8 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

fakt.pl/wydarzenia/polska/dawidka-z-zamordowal-ojciec-znamy-wyniki-sekcji/x88g7h0
Sorry, he didn't use the word yours specifically 'you won't see the son' would be the literal translation
Lenka   
8 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

One case from Australia

Quite recently there was that case in Poland where father killed his 3 yo and then committed suicide for the same reason. He even texted the mother 'you'll never see your son again' as if he wasn't killing his own kid too.
Lenka   
8 Jan 2021
News / Poles say a big YES to our European Union [996]

Except that King wants to preserve his kingdom for his kingly son

And he didn't give a fu*k about the people and their standard of living. Somehow the most prosperous times fall during democracy
Lenka   
8 Jan 2021
News / Poles say a big YES to our European Union [996]

Rzeczpospolita Szlachecka may be also example to look up to.

Ok...

Once elected, one loser decides everything, including dragging a nation into wars

King does the same just without being elected...
Lenka   
7 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

standing by a cash register is such a challenging and stimulating occupation.

I would definitely take it over staying at home after let's say maximum the kid's second birthday
Lenka   
7 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

"Out of wedlock" is an old term and means that the sperm donor is gone from the kid's life.

No, it means parents aren't married. Not the same thing. If you used it that way fine but it's misleading

because he felt bad that day

He does it without a reason.

How else would we explain a single woman who has four kids - each from a different sperm donor?

Probably the same way as we will explain a guy having kids with different women...
Lenka   
7 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

In the racist fifties, 5% of black kids were out of wedlock. Today it's 70%! Whites - not much better at 35%. "Liberated" single women

Work on your logic again. Out of wedlock doesn't necessarily mean single

halo away from women.

No halo. Women can be awful. But statistically man are awful more often and to a bigger degree when it comes to violence
Lenka   
7 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

Findings often indicate that the main or a primary motive for female-on-male intimate partner violence (IPV) is self-defense

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence

Add to that all those man biting babies to death and the image of a man protecting his family goes out of the window.

I can do such bickering too so how far do you want to take it?
Lenka   
7 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

Which is exactly my point. Man brings it, she blows it and when he says don't, she blows up and screams abuse.

Considering that women work it's not very good argument. The workforce, at least in Poland, is close to 50-50.

problem is that men don't report it

Not reporting domestic violence by men is a problem and we should fight against it. I'm curious though what is your basis for the claim that women are the more violent ones?
Lenka   
7 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

No woman married to a rich guy would ever give up her tennis club and insist on a 9-5 as a receptionist or a teacher.

Trump's wife was apparently wary good business women. And there are others.

A different aspect is that :
-it seems a lot of wealthy guys like to have trophy wifes and independence doesn't seem to be high on their priority list
-with their life styles their women has to be free. Business dinner without your wife because she is grading papers?

I asked twice or three times

Why it's society's problem and not just personal? Less new, stable relationships, old ones breaking up, further decline of birthrate...
Lenka   
7 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

Working for the devil!!

Oh my, that hurts...

i ask specific you won't answer cause you cannot be bothered

You never asked specifics. You only asked for something that was already said and I refuse to repeat myself cos you are lazy
Lenka   
7 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

Yeah I know, official statements were fake for you too.

In the end it doesn't matter as those things are out of our control. I can see the changes in the society and if you wan't to believe it's nothing it's up to you.

For the last time I'm not ashamed so you can save us both some time.
Lenka   
7 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

Beside that is your claim, I'm asking you to elaborate on that.

It was explained before. That's why I said you can't be assed to read yet you comment and try to make me repeat myself.
Lenka   
6 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

Traditional gender roles in a household cut short:

I do know what the traditional roles are but I'm at a loss of why you mention them...
If it's to show you can give more while women give less then straight away you sink as women were earning money and paying bills long before man knew what a housework even is :)

And what about carpets, windows, spring cleaning? Scrubbing the toilet and kitchen top to bottom? If you can take your half of that on yourself than you are not one of the man we were talking about and you are prepared for true partnership :)

All the points are a credit for you besides that kids part. Awful misconception and a pretty surprising in someone who, as I remember, would like to have quite a lot of them. That is of course unless you want to send them full time into nursery since they are 3 months old.
Lenka   
6 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

And great. That is exactly what those young women are doing too.

demanding more while self bringing less to the table

Why do you think they bring less?

I myself demand more of myself

You are doing more around the house or doing it more thoroughly?
Lenka   
6 Jan 2021
Love / How do Polish men feel about gender equality? [780]

soon as you see a man asserting his "authority",

The point me and Pawian are trying to make is that young women are actually getting more assertive and picky and man are getting annoyed because they can't find a gf as they don't meet their standards.

And it's not personal as Iron is trying to make it, it affects society