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Posts by Lenka  

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Lenka   
23 Nov 2020
News / Thousands of Polish women attend Czarny Piątek rally in Warsaw [780]

this whole idea of the drunken f.cuk and the nasty whorish woman using abortion as birth control is, in relation to Poland,a myth.

Because it makes it easier. Kind of 'they brought it on themselves etc.

The best thing any Polish government can do for the church is to limit its activities...

Of course but there are some who still don't see it. In the end it will be the church that pays the price
Lenka   
21 Nov 2020
Life / To Poles: some food for thought [31]

You count only genetics. You forgot that t
,if alive, they would have been teachers, mentors, role models
Lenka   
21 Nov 2020
News / Thousands of Polish women attend Czarny Piątek rally in Warsaw [780]

The problem with abortion is that almost no one is consistent.

True but that is exactly why the compromise was so important (even if I didn't completely agree with it). It opened a Pandora box.

In my dream world there wouldn't be any abortions and in my a bit less than dream world a women facing such decisions would have available all sorts of helpful info: geneticists, hospice stuff, psychologists, financial advisor... That in panic abortion is not the only way she can see.
Lenka   
21 Nov 2020
News / Thousands of Polish women attend Czarny Piątek rally in Warsaw [780]

if a parent drops an unharmed newborn off and hands the child over to someone, that parent will be free to go.

One can either leave the baby in the hospital (after signing forms) or leave the baby in 'okno zycia' with nuns. Both are ok as far as the legal system is concerned. Later on one has to actually go to more 'trouble'.

early on few if any restrictions with restrictions kicking in around the time of natural viability.

To be fair I would like to cap it all at 12 weeks but sadly the medicine is just not there yet.

@Ironside
Maybe if you have spend that time writing your arguments instead of ranting about people you disagree with you could have any chance at getting your message through.

Why? Why can they take that decision away from another person?

Because to survive the fetus needs the women body and in the process can influence her health. As soon as the science will allow for the embryo to be extracted and grown outside of the women body we can say that it's only about the fetus. Up to then someone has to carry and give birth.
Lenka   
21 Nov 2020
News / Thousands of Polish women attend Czarny Piątek rally in Warsaw [780]

@kondzior

Wow, you dropped your suicide argument so quickly it might have broken the speed of light :D

do people with birth defects deserve to live?"

Of course they do.
Women also deserve the right to decide whether they want to carry and give birth to a child that will die right after birth or will know nothing but pain.
Lenka   
21 Nov 2020
Life / All Things Christmassy in Poland [332]

I'm not sure what a popular Christmas day meal is in Poland

In my home is basically repetition of Christmas Eve meal. In the oastmy grandma would do separate dinner but my sister and me convinced mom it's pointless as we all love the dishes from the day before most.
Lenka   
21 Nov 2020
News / Thousands of Polish women attend Czarny Piątek rally in Warsaw [780]

At the same time it it is true that people with such disability are capable of feeling happiness,

True, many can lead quite happy life but there are also those who seem to be unaware of any such thing, incapable of interaction...

Loving care makes all the difference and that's why parents of such kids often pray their kids go before them.

I think one of my worst nightmares was always pecherzyca (the disease that creates blisters on the gentlest touch that later break etc. It would be hard to handle to give your kid all that pain every day...

My mom's friend had a heavily disabled kid (dead now) that required physio. She couldn't do it. She couldn't stand the crying and screams of pain. Thankfully the husband stuck around and he did it.

Another one of family friend wasn't so lucky- the guy went to a younger model. She won't have a life
Lenka   
20 Nov 2020
News / Thousands of Polish women attend Czarny Piątek rally in Warsaw [780]

This one is quite funny to me:

Police visited a 14 year old because he passed info on Facebook about planned protest, threatened that if he goes there he will be charged as organizer and they passed the info to his school and family court

onet.pl/informacje/onetopole/krapkowice-14-latek-stanie-przed-sadem-za-udostepnienie-wpisu-strajku-kobiet/4hb176b,79cfc278

And it's funny (although in a sad way) that there are people that don't get teenagers that badly
Lenka   
19 Nov 2020
News / Thousands of Polish women attend Czarny Piątek rally in Warsaw [780]

Except while a fetus, but the concept is the same, isn't it?

That line of argument was already discussed. Come back when you find something new

Btw-there is a separate abortion discussion. This one is more about protests
Lenka   
19 Nov 2020
News / Thousands of Polish women attend Czarny Piątek rally in Warsaw [780]

somebody explain what the protesters wanted and what they got?

You could you know.. read the thread?

But generally the protests are against making the abortion law stricter and banning abortion due to fetal abnormalities
Lenka   
18 Nov 2020
Food / Is Społem popular in Poland [8]

In my hometown we still have a few including one in the square.

Plus:
-usually good/great localized
-local produce 99%. I even once saw.a farmer just delivering some leeks,lettuce etc in a small hand held wagon
-usually pretty good selection of goods considering space.

Cons:
-awful, and I mean AWFUL customer service. That takes like first 10 places
-no promotions etc. Flat, not so low, prices.
-outdated, not nice interior. unaesthetic
Lenka   
11 Nov 2020
Love / WHAT TRAITS DO POLISH MEN LOOK FOR IN A FEMALE? [34]

Wow, that's quite a list you've got there.

1. I hope you understand that most people don't give a damn about nobility? It doesn't cross their mind at all.

2. Are you willing to stay at home to look after the kids for few years? And how many is 'several' (I believe the word comes from the number 7... :) )

3. Will the age threshold increase with you getting older?

4. I hope you take into account the changes all those kids will do to her body...

6. Yeah, it is important to have similar worldviews/outlook on life. However judging by your posts your faith is the very center and 99.9% of people I know are not like that.

7. What is an intellectual show off?

11. What does 'pushy about sex' mean?

Generally I don't believe in lists like that. We meet someone and either we 'buy' the whole package or not. But good luck in sesrching