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Posts by Lenka  

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Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Now the brainwashing is against the family

Or maybe simply people realise that raising kids is a hard, never ending work that is extremely expensive?
It's rewarding but not all people want to go through it and definitely nit 3 or 4 times.

Can be done but it's stupid as it adds another challenge without anything good on the plus side.

Noone said that these women have to live in Poland (most don't probably) and even in Poland it gets much more common
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Selfish because no thought is given to the future of the mixed-race, fatherless child.

And how many couples of the same race give thought to the future of their not mixed-race, fatherless child?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

I doubt it. And even if that is the case it won't be some silly campaign telling them they should suddenly want that.

Btw, I don't think decreasing birth rate is only due to women. I think man also choose to lower the number of kids.

I actually read a book of ex-orthodox Jew and one of the things was how stressful it was economically

As to the thread topic - who cares what others think? If I happened to fall in love with a black person I wouldn't care in the slightest. Aggression of course would be different matter
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

I told her to tell the teacher that if the kid was allergic to something she wouldn't let her have it just so she is not sad, would she?

And the kid is 7, she is big enough to understand!
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

It's in UK. I was actually quite surprised she wasn't listened to.
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Doubt it. The mothernal instinct, sexual drive and not-always-thought-of contraception will take care of that.

But any dreams of returning to the past and the sex decided life roles are going to fail.
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

From what she said she spoke to the class teacher. After one conversation she picked up the kid early next day (doctors appointment)and the girl run out with a piece of brownie in her hand.

I will suggest the principal then
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

onourterms.barnard.edu/article/womens-declining-happiness/

Not a very good source. But I can find one that states single, childless women are the happiest:
Zadowolone singielki. Niezamężne i bezdzietne kobiety są szczęśliwsze kobieta.wp.pl/zadowolone-singielki-niezamezne-i-bezdzietne-kobiety-sa-szczesliwsze-6472147679823489a

"support themselves and their kids" courtesy of a lot of assistance programs from big daddy Government.

In Poland?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Food / British food products in Poland? [334]

Thank you Atch, I may try that but sounds like a lot of hassle compared to just turning them on :)
I never have that problem with Charlotte ones

By now I know on the peeling stage whether I will like them. Even raw they are different

Btw, I had a question in School meals thread if you could help :)
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Start differentiating present and past tense.

That 'carer' is about times when women weren't considered capable of making their own decisions and required a male guardian.

I would like to see these studies. And it still won't make me any less happy that I'm not dependant on a man. Double happy if we consider certain type of man from this forum.

And divorce don't bother me. Please don't mix marriage with family
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Some man couldn't, some weren't encouraged against being legally forbidden...Grow up.
Raped man are to me exactly the same victims as women . I'm more than willing to encourage and support a campaign and programs addressing it. The difference is that rape in a relationship wasn't recognised by law.

Most divorces are finished without a man having any responsibility for the women.
As to sexually abusing kids,care to give us any data as the general agreement is that man are quite ahead in that?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Why should it give anything to man if they already had all those things? But of course if you want we can strip man off all those and then after many years give it back to them. How is that for equality?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

Feminism gave me the right to vote, go to school and be independent of a male 'carer' . It gave me the right to look for justice if I get raped, even if it's my partner/husband that did it and much more. It also didn't stop me having the family I want (where I choose what I want and not fate)

What do you offer if?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Study / School meals in Poland [145]

Anyone but mostly Atch:
My friend has a problem. Her kid has rotten teeth (and it went also on her few adult teeth). The kid has
School meals and every day something sweet. The mother asked multiple times but the only response was that she will feel bad if she is the only kid without something sweet. What can she do?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Food / British food products in Poland? [334]

Why does mashing them help?

It doesn't help, it's just the only option as they have problem keeping shape when cooking.

I do like Charlotte potatoes but they are sometimes hard to get (Tesco stopped stocking them completely in my area)
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

would not be so difficult to propagandise Europeans to have big families again, just do the right marketing.

Sure, but who would be stupid enough to plan their life and their family because of some campaign?
Lenka   
5 Feb 2021
Food / British food products in Poland? [334]

There does seem to be a preference for what we in Ireland call 'soapy' potatoes, or as Jon says, 'waxy

I have the opposite problem. I hate British potatoes. To find ones you could eat without mashing is a miracle.

I guess it's a matter of taste and being used to certain type
Lenka   
4 Feb 2021
History / What makes you feel Polish? [167]

Lyzko, I beg of you, if you want to repeatedly use a word please check the spelling. It's ''polskość".

I have difficulty manipulating this tiny keyboard. Merely a typo, teacher!
Lenka   
4 Feb 2021
Life / Poles turn their backs on organised religion. [148]

Because of my upbringing, I would not rape, murder, or steal - even if those were not in the American penal code.

And funny how I wouldn't rape, murder or steal even if it wasn't in the ten commandments.
Lenka   
4 Feb 2021
Life / Poles turn their backs on organised religion. [148]

starting with fatherless kids, aberrations like homosexuality, infidelity, crime, drug addiction, kids having kids...

Hmm, and what country doesn't have that?
Lenka   
30 Jan 2021
Language / Short Polish<->English translations [1049]

Psiakrew is definitely getting out of fashion. Cholera still holds strong but I may be blinded as I like to use it :)
Lenka   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

Man is the provider, he is expected to bring food and provide shelter.

Oh sorry, I didn't realise I'm talking with someone from the middle ages
Lenka   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

Well then all the people who have kids from earlier relationship should stay single forever? Is that what you are saying?
Btw, could I see that data?