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Why are Poles always so miserable? Why do they never smile? [512]
This is mostly the younger ones and I too have noticed that those aged over 40 seem very different-very serious.As other people have mentioned this is probably due to their upbringing and experiences under the old communist system and the relative poverty.
truebrit hit the jackpot here. Some Poles make serious faces, but serious doesn’t mean miserable. Do we all feel the significant difference between these two words? I know I do.
As for Obnoxious T. Dumbass and Lara, they seem to see what they want to see. It’s pretty easy, if you put the idea in your head that Poles are a sad nation you will only see sad people on the streets of Poland, totally ignoring the rest. It’s called self-fulfilling prophecy.
In the place where I live people that don’t smile back are considered rude. I don’t think it’s any different in the rest of the country.
PS: My friend recently told me about a situation that happened to her few months ago, on the streets of London. She smiled back at some black guy, and instantly regretted that move, because she spent next 15 minutes trying to convince him that it was just a pure sign of politeness, and not an invitation to flirt.
So as you see kidos, it doesn't always pay to smile back at people. :)