Marynka11
9 Mar 2011
Love / Polish girls and traditions (esp. between mother in laws and daughter in laws) [45]
Neharika, I think you should just stick to your own tradition and food. I'm Polish married to a German. When I first went to visit his parents they prepared some Polish dishes, had all kinds of pictures handy from their Polish vacations, and all kinds of Polish this and Polish that. I really appreciated the effort, but I couldn't help but feel like with all this gestures they are saying you are not one of us, we need to accomodate you. I would be so much happier if they did everything their normal ways. I would fell more like I'm being "let in". Just my perspective...
Neharika, I think you should just stick to your own tradition and food. I'm Polish married to a German. When I first went to visit his parents they prepared some Polish dishes, had all kinds of pictures handy from their Polish vacations, and all kinds of Polish this and Polish that. I really appreciated the effort, but I couldn't help but feel like with all this gestures they are saying you are not one of us, we need to accomodate you. I would be so much happier if they did everything their normal ways. I would fell more like I'm being "let in". Just my perspective...