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What do you think of Polish girls? [40]
Easy. No radars. Ask directly what you want to know.
See what he drives, where he lives, and if he rents or owns both. If he passes that one, hire a PI to check the rest: criminal record, marital status, assets vs debt, and any judgment if he was sued. This will be the best investment you ever made.
Show stoppers: more than two drinks per day, illegal drugs, smoking, bad weight, and how he reacts to animals and kids. Before you get him into bed, demand an AIDS test.
Invent a fake crisis where he would have to choose sides. If he goes with his mother, run.
Above all: assume that everything he says is a lie until proven otherwise.