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Posts by Lenka  

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Lenka   
16 Oct 2023
News / Referendum to decide about exotic immigrants in Poland [549]

sorry I don't understand what you mean

How a citizen X is supposed to vote if he wants the retirement age for women to be raised to 65 but he doesn't want the retirement age raised above 65?

Should such citizen answer yes or no to the referendum question?
Lenka   
16 Oct 2023
News / Referendum to decide about exotic immigrants in Poland [549]

and if the referendum was valid and people voted NO the government would be legally bound not to ever raise the retirement age in any form

But in my scenario you want the women age to be raised. If you answer NO it won't show your true thoughts.
Lenka   
16 Oct 2023
News / Referendum to decide about exotic immigrants in Poland [549]

Strange

Exactly.

if you want to know my opinion

And in my opinion it's enough to read the questions to figure out why people would oppose it.
Forget even the party lines, at least 2 questions are so vague that no sensible person can answer yes or no.

how about that?

It's the same thing so why ask? It's exactly why people call this referendum pathetic.
Lenka   
16 Oct 2023
News / Referendum to decide about exotic immigrants in Poland [549]

still acknowledge the democratic value of a referendum, any referendum!

Referendum being used as a political tool to adventage the ruling party is undemocratic in the essence and that is why the voters showed it by not voting.

It was also bending the rules of voting secrecy as if you didn't want to vote in it you had to say that to the commission and around other voters.
Lenka   
16 Oct 2023
News / Polish Parliamentary Elections 2023 [933]

I must say that beside PiS my cherry on top is Konfederacja result. I'm just so happy about that 😀
Lenka   
3 Oct 2023
Love / Question about Polish dating/women [42]

I don't think women usually think about men's age in such terms

I know but it annoys me like he'll when it's yet another guy talking about women that way and acting as if they themselves didn't get older. And then a surprise a 20 yo would rather date guys 20- 30 then those hitting 40.
Lenka   
3 Oct 2023
Love / Question about Polish dating/women [42]

I am only really interested in women in their 20s for many reasons, one being I can't have a kid with a woman my age.

Hmm, why do you think a women in her 20's should overlook, unlike you, your probably dropping fertility and increased chances of genetic problems?
Lenka   
25 Sep 2023
Travel / Photos from Poland [258]

Romantic side of Poles:


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Lenka   
20 Sep 2023
Life / Why is women-hatred and stereotyping so popular in Poland? [181]

I don't care about those guys; they sound like a bunch of mythomans, sociopaths or - in the best case scenario - dirty old men (JKM).

You should do as your daughter's life may be influenced by men like that. It might be her teacher or partner etc.

But it's good you call it as it is.

Why is it like that?

I would say that generally woken are more adaptable
Lenka   
19 Sep 2023
History / What should Russia and Poland do to become if not friends, then at least not enemies? [945]

believe then when I say it's not difficult for me to find women interested in me.

No-one is interesting/attractive to everyone. Thus so e of those women meeting your criteria simply wouldn't want you.

my own persons which I molded after my own image, like some toy soldiers out of clay or pewter.

Hmm, I don't think that's the healthiest outlook on having kids...

For people who want kids not having them creates a big wound. If this is really your dream you have to work on it sooner rather than later.

Few more years and the only option may be being a step dad
Lenka   
19 Sep 2023
History / What should Russia and Poland do to become if not friends, then at least not enemies? [945]

Reading your description, I see how it is difficult.

And that is before the last, most difficult part- she must find you interesting/attractive too.

less and less of your friends want to spend time with you.

Part of it is simply can't. Work and small kids don't go together with big social life with single friends.
Part of it - they have less and less in common with you.
Lenka   
19 Sep 2023
History / What should Russia and Poland do to become if not friends, then at least not enemies? [945]

2) Was she married previously, does she have kids?

Sorry, thought that is an issue.

and both happened to last seven years

From what I heard/read that is roughly when usually the first bigger crisis hits.

Your dad criteria is not very sensible in my opinion as in our generation and geographical location there have been a fair share of dad's that were so bad it would have been better if he wasn't there. But I guess your 'good family' covers that.

What makes them amazing?

Young, pretty, intelligent and educated, multilingual from good family and good financial standing...
Lenka   
19 Sep 2023
History / What should Russia and Poland do to become if not friends, then at least not enemies? [945]

Virtually all the women worth being around, after 30, have been married and have at least one kid.

While I can understand not wanting to be a step dad (it is a huge responsibility right from the start) why would her being divorced matter?

And to be honest, why would such an amazing women be with you when, by your own admission, you can't even really love her?
Lenka   
16 Sep 2023
News / Poland Sports News [1080]

You are saying so coz

I see it the same way. I don't think he has the disposition of a leader.