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Posts by Lyzko  

Joined: 12 Jul 2013 / Male ♂
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From: New York, USA
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Lyzko   
8 Jun 2016
Love / Woman 28 single, too late for a relationship with a Polish man? [67]

Right on!

I think that it's culturally myopic, regardless of the culture, to "blame" either a woman or a man for not being "hitched" by the time they're necessarily in their late twenties:-)

All people develop differently, furthermore, times are quite different from those of the immediate post-1945 generation. Sure, our parents, especially grandparents, typically married early, if for no other reason than noone was quite sure in those days how long one might be alive!!!

To errantly stigmatize any young woman for not being married by the random age of 28, thereby putting a sort of evil eye on the poor soul ever finding a decent partner is in my opinion, not only mean spirited, it's primitive and downright medaeval.
Lyzko   
8 Jun 2016
Love / Woman 28 single, too late for a relationship with a Polish man? [67]

In many societies as well, small minds will wonder and idle tongues will wag.

Sadly yes, all too often the unenlightened judge those around them without sufficiently knowing the other person's situation.
If as a 28 year-old in Poland or wherever, someone actually believes you are too "OLD", then it is they who have the problem, and not you:-)
Lyzko   
7 Jun 2016
Life / Do you think that Polish people are rude? [951]

Folks are gettin' awful tired of eternal gratitude there, Johnny! Wouldn't you?:-)

Can't say as I much blame 'em, constantly being reminded that THEY were the ones WE saved long ago.
Put yourself in their position for a change.
Lyzko   
5 Jun 2016
Real Estate / Finding rent in Poland without speaking Polish? [12]

Best use a trusted interpreter/confidant or bilingual friend to assist in even a seemingly straightforward transaction as renting a flat.

Poles can be a tricky bunch!
Lyzko   
3 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

Gumishu, Poles in my experience ALWAYS help each other with jobs aka finding work through Black Market connections, intrigue and favor trading!

What worked during Communism also works today:-)
Lyzko   
1 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

Back to the thread topic, it seems to me that stupidity vs. intelligence is again largely culture based, indeed a learned phenomenon. As Poland, compared, say, with Germany, England, France, or the United States, industrialized more slowly (owing to among other factors her severe losses during various wars, therefore a considerable financial deficit in her national coffers!), the perception abroad had often been that Poland aka Poles were a backwater lot, sluggish, lazy, loutish and drunken, lacking the native intelligence to perfect an infrastructure as in the above countries heretofore mentioned.

Interestingly, many Western Europeans in particular had frequently voiced the same observations concerning Africa, as a primitive continent which could never prosper, e.g. according to European standards.

Poland developed an inferiority complex, since the common shibboleth was that the only way she could progress would necessarily be through outside help, as he was allegedly incapable of providing for herself.

Well, Copernicus, Łobaczewski, Madame Curie, Kazimir Funk and a host of other talented scientists proved the naysayers dead wrong!!
Lyzko   
1 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

"I think I undersTOOd you WELL enough......"

Thinking is not knowing!:-))

"....you're an American and have no clue."

But you have I suppose, Mr. Wiech the Brilliant??!

"You have MY E-mail ADDRESS."

Yes, I have.

Sorry to correct your English. It's a messy job, by someone's got to do itLOL
Lyzko   
1 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

As I mailed you shortly ago, you clearly misunderstood (either unintentionally or on purpose) my post! By definition, helping someone through whatever means necessary entails some sort of pull or bribery, face it!

If Poles, Russians and others in the Black Market didn't work slightly less than kosher deal making, they wouldn't have survived! Honest?
Of course there are honest and trustworthy Poles, Russians etc., only during the Cold War, honesty didn't get you very far:-)

This doesn't mean that being crooked is somehow part of the Polish DNA any more than murderous anti-semitism and slavish devotion to order is intrinsically German (although many have tried to prove that it is!), does it?

Possibly, as with certain others on PF, your English skills might not be up to the job, so kindly admit to a communication glitch and I'd be happy to write more simply next time.
Lyzko   
1 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

Oh, you're very much mistaken, Panie Wiechu!

Poles, as with the rest of those from formerly Communists aka Black Market countries, do indeed help one another through bribery (łapówki) and favor trading, just like those from the Old Silk Road:-)

Please, don't insult our intelligence.
Lyzko   
1 Jun 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

...the fastest RECORDED human....
:-)

Statistically, there are no fewer non-Jewish chess grandmasters than Jewish:-)
Some chess mavens, both Jewish and gentile, have contended that in sheer number of games won vs. number of new strategies invented, Alexander Alekhine (a Russian non-Jew!!) may have been the most successful chess player of all time.

In short, stereotypes are based upon according to which yardstick we measure such perception, and nothing else.
Lyzko   
31 May 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

What group doesn't help the other, Mr. Wiech? Germans help Germans, Poles help Poles etc..

While to a large extent it is true that Eastern Europeans for instance tend to use more black-market
trickery aka bribery to get jobs than perhaps the average Swede or Brit, don't forget that before the Sicilian mob in America, it was the Irish (Boss Tweed etc.) who taught the US the meaning of pull:-)

What do you mean "worry" about stereotypes? It's not only that some Americans can't find their own country on a map of the world, most couldn't even identify POLAND on a world map at first glance without at least some coaching:

Newscaster: As you can see, (using a pointer)....
Assistant: Ahemm. you're pointing to Finland,....now you're in Russia,...THERE!!
Now you're in Poland!

LOL
Lyzko   
31 May 2016
Life / Stereotypes about Polish people being stupid? [281]

@Polonius et al, the Jews are no more astute in business per se than Negroes are excellent in sports simply because they're Negroes, and necessarily poor in math and science simply because of same!

If you've studied the history of the Jews, you'd realize that they were forbidden from entering any field aka professional guilds as were the Christians. They were even forbidden from serving their country in the military!

As they were forced to become money lenders, tax collectors and enter other "unpopular" fields, off limits to gentiles because money changing was considered sinful and therefore forbidden, they simply were forced to hone certain skills, possibly anathema to them under more normal circumstances.

As you grow older, you'll find that there are usually as many exceptions to the rule as examples of it:-)
Lyzko   
17 May 2016
Work / South African wants to move to Poland, please provide some input? [59]

Oh, yes RubasznyRumcajs! I know basically fluent Dutch and can meander a bit through Afrikaans, despite the legion false friends between the two languages:-) In most of Scandinavia, English is so widespread, I've even experienced Swedes and Danes chatting together in English, blissfully unaware of how ridiculous it sounds or even how their mistakes aren't picked up by the other, unless really egregious.

Afrikaans reminds me of 'baby Dutch', sort of in arrested development since the Southern Dutch first emigrated to South Africa in the early 1800's.
Lyzko   
16 May 2016
Work / South African wants to move to Poland, please provide some input? [59]

Afrikaans, much as Dutch itself, is yet another language with a relatively low speaker percentage world wide. "Nice" as she may sound, Poles would probably benefit far more from competent English instruction from a truly BILINGUAL South African with both Afrikaans and English as a mother tongue:-)

While as a linguist myself by trade, I'm scarcely discouraging you from offering Afrikaans to Poles, you're most likely not going to find all too many takers, I fear.
Lyzko   
12 May 2016
Work / South African wants to move to Poland, please provide some input? [59]

@Adrian,

Turkish has become a semi- (un-)official "second" language in Berlin for nearly two decades now:-) It's status throughout many of the larger German cities is a lot similar to Spanish here in the States (especially in New York and LA)!

:-)