Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one

Why go to the police? Why would he hurt her? He probably just wants to propose his perverted idea and see if she's up to it.

well, he can hurt her because she went to the police if she do not vanish right after seeing a cop...
and to be honest, i don't think the police will help her much... they walk away from the call when a wife is bitten by her hubby on regular basis and they say there is nothing they can do till something bad happens (for example he kills her or really hurt somebody else)... sad word...

woman, you did good... keep being strong and get out of this place before he comes back...

You guys have bad arguments. "I don't THINK the police will help" and "he PROBABLY doesnt want to hurt her" is not a reason not to go. Yeah it isnt perfect but better than nothing. Plus it establishes a record.

Go to the Police and file the report. It won't hurt you to do this.

Filios it wouldn't surprise me if you were the guy.

I think you're all overacting. What evidence do you have for this man being mentally unstable and actually willing to hurt her?

While I would always advise going to the police so that they are aware of the situation, I have to agree that the police in Poland would probably class this as a domestic bust-up and not really do much about it. They might speak to the guy involved and scare him up a little but I doubt they would do much more. It's sad to say but the Police in Poland will not take this too seriously at this point. It's much like the UK until recently, things classed as "domestic incidents" were treated with a lower level of priority than other crimes.

Telling her he will hurt her and put her in hospital. Banging on her door and demanding she respond. Telling her he will return and she better be there.

Filios you are an idiot. In a case like this better safe than sorry and he has already shown violent tendencies. The fact you could defend or dismiss that shows your character.

I can't believe all the dismissing posts. She is afraid. It wont hurt her to report it even if it doesn't help so why would you tell her not to. I can see none of you have ever dealt with these types of people or you would not be so cavalier about it.

we do not but we try to advice her best we can and it's based on what she's told us...

You know from first hand experience?
Before you got your treatment you were the same way I gather?

Woman ignore this idiot above and be safe.

shut up, preacher.

No thanks. Where did you get the silly idea you can demand anything of me?

You agree too I suppose. I am sure you guys are very noble men and would run away or ignore danger to someone to prove how brave you are....

There is no such thing as over reacting in these matters. The man is obviously unstable emotionally and he uttered a warning physical threat. It's their the cops or a bunch of .... ahem... good fellas to take care of the pyscho.

Please do this , and if you have a lawyer , see him too , and if there is such a thing in Poland , get a restraining order to prevent him coming near you...If you have a job , and he knows where you work you must inform your work friends about the situation so that they can warn you if he is hanging around the place....The fact that he has a girlfriend may make him slightly less inclined to stalk you , but don,t count on it...

I have no wish to scare you to death , but please do take this seriously , and don,t be talked out of doing whatever it takes to ensure your safety...Please understand , people like him do not change the way they are , they can,t , and the situation will only get worse....If its any consolation to you , the girl he is seeing will go through the same thing at some point in the future.....I have sent you a private mesage with my contact details on...if things get really sticky , call me , i will be there...take care...let us all know when you are safe....

I did the same...and yet I am told I am not helping. I guess the countless posts about "oh dont bother" are useful. People doing the right thing are given grief and the idiots are allowed to blather on unchecked. Nice.