Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one

but you are in your territory.. your friends, your family.. kick some arse girl!!
dont let this thick headed sob get the best of you.. hes using mental abuse to scare you so you will do what he wants.. when you get to your home in england, you get a nice big german shepard .. trust me, he wont bother with you if he sees a large set of teeth staring him down like a piece of meat..

You advise her into ...bestiality?

no into smart thinking.. this isnt time for jokes southern, this guy is a freak and nothing is funny about it.. hes also trying to land himself a polish girl, no doubts hes going to be abusive to her..

or any woman he comes in contact with.

Jeez , sounds like a real winner....get out of there now , and stay the hell away from him....if you bump into him again and he makes any threats i think a few people from this forum , including me and some of my friends from my bike club might have to come and take him for a walk in the forest....You must see by now that this guy is dangerous , and mentally unstable , please get out now before you get done over mentally and otherwise....If you don,t have a safe place to run to just say so , i can find a place for you...As for him making threats against your people in UK...well , we can arrange a welcome in UK for him too...just get out lady..please...!

please this is not a joke-he has never been able to stay with a woman for long-now i know why-he is a dangerous man

I am afraid of women's smartness.


Why all these generalizations?Then you will say,all men are like that etc.I mean if he has a certain behaviour towards one girl,it does not mean he will be the same with another girl.

Bullsh1t. I agree with you saying all men are like this is bad...but if a guy behaves this way at all he will repeat it. People do not change when it comes to these issues.

Plus he already HAS done it to at least two other women.

Yeah right....

Why do you say that?First of all you see that he does not follow a pattern.First girl was 12 years older than him,second was 13 years younger than him.Totally different cases.So I think he will act accordingly.

southern.. are you taking your meds today?

get with the program.. ok.. no one said anything general. I merely stated his ability to do harm to others as she did.. now your all up on a man kick.. when really we should all be kicking you for being such a stupid man right now!!


again , he wants her to help him do this. this means before he has even met the girl hes planning to keep her around for future sex excursions while hes with a innocent / unknowing polish girl and yes southern he is doing it to both of them!!

I thought you were a smart man, but you have thus proved otherwise over and over

shut up!! this is extremely important for her safety!!

shes asking for some very important help,. if you cannot provide this then get off the thread now!! because your only making yourself look bad ..

Ok..lets have some voluteers for a rescue mission....i am ready to set off to Gydinia...anyone else...?

A lot of people are here for their own ego and don't care in the least about anyone else. There are times to not screw around and this is one of them. But as you can see some people can't even respect that.

I think that would be a very noble thing to do wildrover.. this sounds serious, just like that freak who kept his daughter in the basement, maybe not the same, but what hes asking is so unbelieveable..

I already have given her advice.It is clear that he uses her as gigolo for her money and stability she provides.I also wrote that it is mistake to be in Poland where he could meet young polish girls.

I'm too far away.

I don't think she needs rescuing. She just has to be out of the house when he calls... unless he has a door key... then there might be a problem.

He is not going to travel a great distance and then sit up all night waiting. And if he does she can call the police and they will take care of it. The police will have to respond to the call, if it happens.

Let's get it right and not over react. It can be done legally.

how can i put him off coming tomorrow-what can i say to him? i cant leave until saturday at the earliest-if i can just put him of comimg tomorrow gives me time to organise money etc

sorry to hear about your troubles just remember this

I am afraid it is the same...its called being a sociopath , which means a person who does not see others as human beings with rights and feelings , and only does what is right for themselves regardless of what it does to others...This guy has all the signs...they can be dangerous people to ayone who rocks their boat....

Tell him that you would like him to enjoy the polish girl on Saturday night and then come to you on Sunday because you want to start a triangle.

Just don,t be there , or if you must be , then make sure you are not alone....If the Police can,t or won,t protect you , then you have to ask yourself if your belongings are more important than your life....

southern your a pathetic loser every inch of possible respect for you definately left the forum for you..

please go find a dam blow up doll and get your frustrations out while we help a true person in need. go on now..

You don't have to say anything, you don't have to open the door, you don't have to be at home.

Send him an e-mail telling him your sick/out of town/ whatever and that you will be able to sit down and discuss things on Sunday.

I have to be honest and say that I think he is all mouth, but could become a little awkward. Read that as you will.

What I suggested will actually work.You don't understand the male psychology.You have to comply with him in order to make him act predictably.

If you try to blackmail him,or tell him you are sick,he will start being suspicious and come to you on Saturday.But if you tell him you agree with his plans,he will come on Sunday as you told him but you will have left.Then he will try to call and threaten you but he will be confused because you will have the initiative.

give us some more info to work with here..

do you work there? tell him your boss wants you to work extra hours .. and this will help you to help him because you will have more money to use.. so you can turn the lights low. pack and get the f- Out!!

I am afraid i disagree....he sounds like the kind of guy who would do exactly that....I went through all this krap with a lady in UK who was being stalked by her ex , no stalking laws in those days...We had months of looney behavour , which i managed to capture on video , it only stopped when the guy went to prison for six months...

A clever mind in a position of power, maybe.

Woman is very worried and I suspect will have difficulty keeping it together.

Give her advice on how to avoid contact or how to control it. Without her having to read a book on psychology first.

change the locks

That's OK. and I understand your point.

It may well be that the guy is just full of hot air , and won,t do anything , but i would not want her to hang around to discover he really is dangerous...I am sure the Police will respond if he does do something bad , thats if she is able to call them...and they get there in time...?

He has not commited any crime yet.The police cannot arrest him.


She cannot avoid contact.She cannot control it because he is in the position of power.
I think the best she can do is to comply with him,making him feel comfortable and secure and then leave away while he has reduced his attention.He cannot be always stressed.He has already thought that she might leave and wants reassurances.