because i feel like i was a temporary thing
Sorry to be a bit negative on this , but you would not be the first one to be used to amuse somebody while they were stuck in another country , seen many similar stories on this very forum....However , only you know if its the real thing , and if its worth fighting for...
If you love each other , then you can overcome this situation , if one of you doesn,t love the other , then its doomed whatever effort you want to make...
Talking is the first step , but if as you say , he won,t do this , then its going to be difficult to say the least....