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This is probably going to be silly but.. I really want a Polish boyfriend


melanieebby 1 | 13  
6 Aug 2008 /  #1
I REALLY want a Polish boyfriend...and eventually a husband. The problem is that I am not 100% polish, only about 75%. I also can't speak the language, but I'm trying very hard to learn! Do you think him and his family would still accept me? Or am i completely hopeless...? I'm willing to change for him. I know i sound silly, what do you guys think? Thanks for reading, Take care (:
wildrover 98 | 4,451  
6 Aug 2008 /  #2
If you meet the right guy , with a decent family , it isn,t going to matter where you come from or how much Polish you are....Love can take care of everything.......
Sophia - | 99  
6 Aug 2008 /  #3
Get out there and meet someone Polish then and just be yourself. If the chemistry is there, it could lead to all you want. Many people are in Polish/Non-Polish relationships, no saying you aren't going to be too. One thing at a time though...don't scare him with talk of marriage haha.
OP melanieebby 1 | 13  
6 Aug 2008 /  #4
Your absolutly right wildrover
and i'll remember to not scare him Sophia (:
Thank you both! <3
southern 75 | 7,096  
6 Aug 2008 /  #5
is that I am not 100% polish, only about 75%

The rest is ...european?
PolskaDoll 28 | 2,105  
6 Aug 2008 /  #6
I REALLY want a Polish boyfriend...and eventually a husband

That's fine but make sure you give all the guys who are interested in you a fair chance, don't refuse to give them the time of day just because they are not Polish, you may be letting your one true love slip away all for the sake of nationality... ;)
OP melanieebby 1 | 13  
6 Aug 2008 /  #7
Im 75% Polish and 25% ukranian. And i never looked at it that way PolskaDoll. Thank you very much. (:
southern 75 | 7,096  
6 Aug 2008 /  #8
Im 75% Polish and 25% ukranian.

This is hot combination.I regard this as an upgrade.
lowfunk99 10 | 397  
6 Aug 2008 /  #9
Don't try and change who you are. Be who you truly are, that is the way to attract the right person.
LAGirl 9 | 496  
7 Aug 2008 /  #10
Good Luck.
OP melanieebby 1 | 13  
7 Aug 2008 /  #11
Lol thank you southern.
You're totally right lowfunk.
And thank you LAGirl
wildrover 98 | 4,451  
9 Aug 2008 /  #12
We all have our ideas about what kind of person we would consider our ideal partner , but in my experiance you often fall in love with somebody that is nothing like the person you thought would be perfect....Love is blind they say.....very true...
aussie_expat 5 | 41  
10 Aug 2008 /  #13
You should be fine...

Im Australian and I dont really speak the language but my Polish boyfriend and his family accept me even though we can barely communicate

Polish boyfriends are great..best guys ever I have decided..really swet and caring from my experience
And be sure to be yourself...dont ever change

Good Luck
bramkaz 1 | 24  
10 Aug 2008 /  #14
Polish boyfriends are great..best guys ever I have decided..really swet and caring from my experience
And be sure to be yourself...dont ever change

You are right. Totally agree. Thanks aussie_expat
krysia 23 | 3,057  
10 Aug 2008 /  #15
Polish boyfriends are great

Your generalizing.
The Polish boyfriend I had was great in Poland, but once I got him to the US, he completely changed. Must have been the culture shock. Hehe
ndrew - | 12  
10 Aug 2008 /  #16
If you are willing to change for him, then he should be willing to change for you too and if he doesn't then well u ought to be with someone else simple as that.
OP melanieebby 1 | 13  
10 Aug 2008 /  #17
thanks for all the advice you guys!
Wahldo  
10 Aug 2008 /  #18
I REALLY want a Polish boyfriend

You should compare notes with Constantine in the political section.. don't pet any white dogs in there.
Sarah Catherine - | 2  
22 Aug 2008 /  #19
That's funny, I had the complete opposite problem. My Polish boyfriend was great in Canada and once we moved to Poland he was a complete dick.

Don't worry about not speaking the language. I can barely speak a word, the vodka makes it easier, and as long as you try the family will appreciate it ;)
markiewan - | 3  
23 Aug 2008 /  #20
mel its not daft that you want a polish boyfriend just make sure that you find the right guy and all the rest will drop into place and if it was daft id be in the same groupfor wanting a polish girlfriend lol
Sweetpea1779 3 | 14  
23 Aug 2008 /  #21
Polish boyfriends are great..best guys ever

What makes them so great?
Eurola 4 | 1,906  
23 Aug 2008 /  #22
They can fix the dripping faucet!
Arise_St_George 9 | 419  
24 Aug 2008 /  #23
I REALLY want a Polish boyfriend...and eventually a husband. The problem is that I am not 100% polish, only about 75%. I also can't speak the language, but I'm trying very hard to learn! Do you think him and his family would still accept me? Or am i completely hopeless...? I'm willing to change for him. I know i sound silly, what do you guys think? Thanks for reading, Take care (:

Nope I'm sorry but he won't accept you. You'll have to settle for a black man...!
OP melanieebby 1 | 13  
24 Aug 2008 /  #24
Sarah Catherine

Awe sorry to hear about your boyfriend, but thanks for the vodka tip (;

Nope I'm sorry but he won't accept you. You'll have to settle for a black man...!

ha ha very funny. :|
aussie_expat 5 | 41  
26 Aug 2008 /  #25
well from my experience with mine, he is pretty sweet and dont know if its a polish thing, but they seem to get into their relationships and dont treat gf/bf like its a short term thing..thats just been my experience with the poles ive met

and whats with polish people absolutelly loving babies..its almost embarrassing watching my bf cooing over a baby

thought i was suppose to be the clucky one..
welshguyinpola 23 | 463  
26 Aug 2008 /  #26
I just cant work out how somone can be 75% Polish. Please enlighten me???
polishgirltx  
26 Aug 2008 /  #27
75% Polish = from the neck down... head is another 25% of a different nationality...
welshguyinpola 23 | 463  
26 Aug 2008 /  #29
I lived on the east coast of America for over a year and noticed that noone ever calls themself american - they are either Irish, Italian or some other nationality besides American. I wish the 3rd and 4th generations would wake up and realise that they are actually Americans.
umm_hottie 2 | 75  
26 Aug 2008 /  #30
i was born in America in Texas and i came too England when i was 3 i consider my self more british as i spent practically my whole life here

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