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Joined: 11 Jun 2007 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 21 Jan 2008
Threads: Total: 2 / In This Archive: 2
Posts: Total: 106 / In This Archive: 106 		From: London
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Jambo   
23 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

Yes top post.

I have said before I do not consider all Polish women are the same. However there is no doubt there are a number of Eastern European women out there who come to the west befriend a man or men to get themselves established then move on. Nothing wrong with that in principle provided they make it clear at the outset they only want a friendship. Of course they say and do much more than that, the man then gets involved, everthing is great then one day the women says of course you are just my friend!

I took some photographs of my ex Polish girlfriend when we had a day out visting an historic castle. She took one of me. I gave her copies of all the photographs including mine.I noticed a couple of nights ago when I was clearing out the bedside table she had left behind her copy of the photograph of me which she said she really liked and had taken the others. She knew I would find the photo. That action said everthing about her, cold and heartless.
Jambo   
24 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

Thanks that is so kind of you I very much appreciate your post.

And I return your hug. I very much sympathise with your post. I guess at least you found out before he moved in to your house. Friends say to me well you are much better off now she has gone. But you know despite everthing I still think about her a lot. I suspect Sunflower although you know you are better off without him you still think of him and it hurts. It hurts to know the truth.

Have a good weekend and have fun!
Jambo   
27 Aug 2007
Love / A Polish Girl Without Heart!! [54]

Yeah Sunflower it has been really a good weekend and sunny in the UK at last! I am feeling pretty good really. I know how you are feeling because I am feeling it myself. It hurts and it is not easy to move on as that person was a very special person and to find out they do not care for you as you do for them is hard to take. She phoned me Saturday out of the blue and of course that got me thinking about her which I am trying not to do. Yes you are right about putting a brave face on it but you and know this is not easy. At the moment my friends and neighbours ask about her and I have to go through an explanation.

Take Care.

David (aka Jambo)
Jambo   
27 Aug 2007
Love / Are men more unhappy about being single than women [47]

I am not unhappy at currently being single because that is where I am right now.It is better to be in a loving relationship though. As for sex I think that sex is best in a loving relationship as Gavin79 says but having said it can still be really good outside of a relationship.
Jambo   
27 Aug 2007
Love / Are men more unhappy about being single than women [47]

Falling in love is not an emotion you can control. After my last experience of love for my Polish ex girlfriend I wish I had not fallen for her but I could not stop myself.
Jambo   
1 Oct 2007
Love / My friend and a married man [17]

The significant thing is he is married and not available. The fact is he only wants her for sex nothing else. If she has sex with him he will have got what he wanted and will move on to the next girl in the office. If she is okay with having sex in such circumstances as a boost to her self esteem then fine as they are both using each other. but she should not delude herself into thinking it is anything more than a quick fumble now and then when he he is not banging his wife. I have to say guys like him make me sick they are so false and the tragedy is women adore them.
Jambo   
17 Oct 2007
Love / i love you -why say it if you dont mean it [56]

This is exactly the reason why I broke up with my last boyfriend. He would become upset, because I never told him I love him. I can't lie about and fake an emotion like love. He wouldn't accept the fact, he couldn't force me to fall in love with him.

I understand that but why stay with him as his girlfriend if you did not love him.
Jambo   
17 Oct 2007
Love / i love you -why say it if you dont mean it [56]

This is so true. It is not what you say but how you act that counts. A man can say he loves you but is his behaviour consistent with that statement. That is the test. Also some people say it to test the reaction of the person they are saying it to.
Jambo   
22 Oct 2007
Love / i love you -why say it if you dont mean it [56]

For me love is when that person is always on your mind and you miss that person desperately and you have so much care and concern for that person and your spirits are lifted as soon as you meet or some contact like a text message happens. Sex does not come into it other than it is so much better when it is with a person you love it is then making love not sex. There is a huge difference.

I have been in love once and now maybe twice. It is difficult to tell whether you are in love as you can have strong feelings for someone without being in love with that person.
Jambo   
22 Oct 2007
Love / I reckon I've met a right plonker here - your thoughts please [44]

Aren't you already in a relationship with a woman

It was not really a serious comment the bit about phoning me. Well I am not in a relationship at present I hope to be though. I met a very wonderful Russian woman by chance when she was in the UK on holiday in August we have kept in very regular contact by phone/text/ messenger and I have just spent five days with her in St Petersburg where she lives. We had a most wonderful time. She is lovely. We now need to decide whether to move on to the next stage and build a relationship. Natalia says she is serious about that but really needs to think about everything which is absolutely right whereas I am more than ready to try. Her ex boyfriend is desperate for her back being one of the issues. She is an english teacher and is keen to move to the UK. I guess we will see. If she does not want to try to build a relationship to be honest I will be devestated as we got on so fantatically well much better than we both imagined. I speak with her every day.
Jambo   
31 Oct 2007
Love / Advice from the guys? English met a Polish guy. [40]

I would not say that men are turned off if the woman makes the advances but as it is unusual it tends to put you on the defensive. I guess it depends on how the advance is made subtlety is the key.
Jambo   
6 Nov 2007
Love / My ex from last year and this coming weekend [22]

Best of luck Sunflower. I know it is easy to say but you should never not do what you want to do because you might bump into your ex. It may be awkward for both of you I know but don't let that dictate whether you go or not. If it arises be cool. I know you are a cool woman. He will be feeling just as awkward.

Who are you going to see anyway ( I am a big gig goer)?
Jambo   
12 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]

I have some sympathy for you as I had a simliar situation. I suggest you ask her to leave your house. You helped her that help is now over. She is moving forward in her life which is good so she should also move out your house as you are clearly uncomfortable with her being there.
Jambo   
14 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]

I do not understand why you think what she is doing is wrong. She is 20 there is nothing wrong with her meeting all sorts of different men. Why not she is young free and single