Arhh but would you give your phone number to a potential stalker?
I really hope he does not see me as as stalker... but then again, would you give your phonenmbr?
Maybe he's shy maybe he's gay
I think he really is shy, he is not very extravert...
and gay, well, I did not think about that possibility yet, but you never know do you?
It sounds like you have made it quite clear that you like him and he is either not getting the hint (we can be a bit dim in this respect) or more realistically (and painfully) he doesn't feel the same way about you.
well... did I make it clear enough?I don't know (I don't think I'm an expert at getting hints either...)
... and if he doesn't feel the same....
Well, if he didnt think you were pretty he certainly wouldnt have invited you out in the company of work colleagues
Well, maybe he was just being polite, you know, asking me for a drink because I wanted to, but avoiding getting too much involved.
in his mail he said he would not be able to stay long (but that his friends were nice...) , thats not really positive is it
A thought has just occured to me and it would be interesting to hear others views; do people ever change their minds about someone romantically?
well, i have friend who was playing in an orchestre with a girl he liked, she did not notice him for a few months, although he made a lot of effort to be noticed, to be sitting in her neighbourhoud etc, when she finaly noticed him it took another few months before they actually went out together, and now they are hapily married expecting their first baby...
so, it is possible...
but how long should you try huh?
men are realistic for relationship. I guess he does know you like him. but if you two cannt stay together in the near future, most men wouldnt like to have long distance relationship, unless they totally fall for somebody.
wel to be realistic, he is in poland for three weeks, then i will leave for my holidays, and he will end his stay here at the end of the year (to return back to poland look for another job) this actually is just a few months away
as time flies, there is really not a lot of time to take a lot of time...
one more thing, before he left after our drink he said to enjoy my holidays (which are only in august) and he is only away till mid july, which would give us a possibility to meet in between those... he did not mention this..
maybe you should have a clear and serious talk with him, it is a torture for you to guess all the possiblities and wait for something never happens.
true, but easier said that done....