are you trying to get on my nerves or just trying to be funny
That was an honest question. No need to get antsy.
I am speaking from dating men: they like to be in charge, especially at the beginning
Being a man all my life I'd never try to be in charge, but rather create an aura of partnership form the start. I know I am not unique in that approach.
I think that my experiance is valid
I'm sure it is. But does it make a rule for all men?
I'd still call for various reasons:
1. pragmatism - why should she torture herself for longer than necessary? Make things clear and then, if it doesn't work, move on sooner rather than later.
2. There may be a lot of "good" reasons he didn't get in touch. Years ago I was late on a date. She moved on. I was late (by 5 days) because I was in hospital after a car accident.
Your take on things actually shows that you might want to be in control - "my way or the highway". My approach is a little more inquisitive. Don't draw conclusions before you are absolutely sure you have grounds to do so.