Advice from the guys? English met a Polish guy.

miranda

24 Oct 2007 / #31

regardless, sending a hug of peace ;)

oh, that's so sweet:D, sure

Hantsie 1 | 6

25 Oct 2007 / #32

I'm going to call him Friday and see if he'd like to meet for a drink Sunday, but coffee this time, ;-)
I want to wait as I have a rotten cold and don't imagine that would sound very nice on the phone, :-(

0Adam0 - | 14

25 Oct 2007 / #33

Good idea.
lol
less drink more coffee....oooo AND CAKE! hehe. just thought of that on the hop. :P

Yeah probably best to show off your good side. less taking care more sexy sultress :D

starchild 2 | 120

25 Oct 2007 / #34

Good luck Hantsie!

Let us know how you get on :-)

Hantsie 1 | 6

25 Oct 2007 / #35

Well I rang him tonight, as my gut instinct was telling me it felt right. He answered and sounded pleased to hear from me.

I havent killed him off with my cake, or his family and friends that he gave it to, :-)

We had a bit of a miscommunication in our conversation, my fault (my phone is rubbish so I couldnt hear him properly), but then we figured out what we'd misunderstood. I asked him about meeting for a coffee on sunday and i think we are, :-)

Thank you to all you guys for the extra push i'd maybe not have taken, :-)

jareck8

26 Oct 2007 / #36

nicwe to hear it.. best wishes and i hope you have a long, successful and comited relatinship.. less booze more talk more love

Hantsie 1 | 6

29 Oct 2007 / #37

Well we met for coffee and decided we're going to try to be friends, which I'm happier with as I'm not ready to get involved with someone.

Our only concern is the fact we have a mutual physical attraction, but at the end of the day we're both adults so I'm hoping we'll be able to overcome that and develop a lasting friendship. So no big romance but i feel I'll have a better end result, :-)

moonmustang 2 | 46

29 Oct 2007 / #38

One of my girlfriends contends that ALL men are turned off when a women makes the first move - is that accurate guys? Honest opinions please...

Told the Polish guy I'm interested in that I want to get to know him better - he thanked me for my sweet words and said I made him feel "uneasy" with a smile at the end of his statement. Why wouldn't he just come out and say - sorry not interested?

finT 12 | 167

30 Oct 2007 / #39

more cake less vodka!

Best quote on the forums so far! Thanks R!

Jambo 2 | 106

31 Oct 2007 / #40

I would not say that men are turned off if the woman makes the advances but as it is unusual it tends to put you on the defensive. I guess it depends on how the advance is made subtlety is the key.