Return PolishForums LIVE
  PolishForums Archive :
Archives - 2005-2009 / Love  % width 50

Do Polish guys have a different approach to dating than others guys?


VAN  
10 Aug 2006 /  #1
DO They tend to stay just friends for a long time? , i really like this polish guy , he says he likes me .WE HAVE AROUND 4 MONTHS KNOWING EACH OTHER .

but he doesnt ask me out. are they more lay back ?. AND IS THAT TRUTH THAT THEY DON'T HAVE SEX BEFORE GET MARRIED??
Shelley  
11 Aug 2006 /  #2
From my experience if a Polish guy likes you he will ask you out, they're gentlemen and he'll probably ask if you want to go to the pictures or bowling or something similar, maybe this guy likes you as a friend? I dont know it's difficult to know what the circumstances are, at the end of the day guys are guys - the only difference being guys from some countries are gentlement.

I think they're a little bit more relaxed on the sex before marriage now.
rocki  
12 Aug 2006 /  #3
Some of the Polish guys are too shy and don't want to be too forward. Yes, many of them don't have sex before marriage (don't think it's something wrong, do you?)
Matyjasz 2 | 1,544  
13 Aug 2006 /  #4
Yes, many of them don't have sex before marriage (don't think it's something wrong, do you?)

Who told you that??

People who say in public, that there are going to wait with their sex life after their get marriage are usually being labeled as some kind of Christian wackos.
bossie 1 | 123  
13 Aug 2006 /  #5
There are some people who claim they'll stay virgins until they get married, but thst species is in extinction, and most of those left are women anyway.

Why don't you ask him out? Send out a clear message and see his reaction, with no witnesses and in a clearer situation. He may surprise you... :)
singh  
13 Aug 2006 /  #6
maybe hes just a dork thats too afraid to try, or one of them homos
krysia 23 | 3,057  
13 Aug 2006 /  #7
Guys in America are sick and corrupt. Some keep notebooks with the names of all the women they've been with. The more they have, the more "proud" they are of themselves. Which in turn turns into more spread of diseases. Polish Guys are more intelligent than that. They are like this "precious jewel", they devote themselves and seek this "one true love" thay want to spend the rest of their life with and that's why they don't go out with anybody, until they are sure this is the "one".

And they're only humans. They make mistakes also.
Tlum  
13 Aug 2006 /  #8
Some keep notebooks with the names of all the women they've been with.

Many times that would be: mom and sister :)
Shelley  
14 Aug 2006 /  #9
Many times that would be: mom and sister

they'd be the ones from Alabama!

Who told you that??

an urban myth I think
krysia 23 | 3,057  
14 Aug 2006 /  #10
Americans are obsessed with their dicks. First they get circumcised by their stupid parents, then when they're old enough, they get neutered. Not for health reasons, but only to screw around. I know this. I was married to one of those. He neutered himself without telling me. And yes, some of you will say it's his body, he can do whatever he wants. And that's fine. But when you're in a marriage, I call this cheating.

I prefer a guy who has never been with a woman before. And who's not circumcised or neutered. Like a dog.
Shelley  
14 Aug 2006 /  #11
Well, I dont particularly like yanks, but they dont sound so different to a lot of men - as the neutering thing - it's quite common practice in england - only for the reason that women have the burden of birth control and many women ask their husbands to have the snip after they have had their desired amount of kids.

As for finding a bloke who's a virgin....hmmm I dont think I'd be too comfortable with that.....thats not saying I want a guy who has had lots of previous partners, I just prefer a man who knows what he's doing...
JustinDT  
14 Aug 2006 /  #12
Massively stupid posts, Krysia. If "lef" made anything close to that everyone would have crucified him.

Entirely ignorant blanket statements.
Wujek_Dobra_Rada  
14 Aug 2006 /  #13
AND IS THAT TRUTH THAT THEY DON'T HAVE SEX BEFORE GET MARRIED??

Lol - who told you such nonsense ?

Or is this trolling again...
Shelley  
14 Aug 2006 /  #14
There are some people who claim they'll stay virgins until they get married,

i would imagine they're the ugly ones who are not getting any regardless!

Massively stupid posts, Krysia. If "lef" made anything close to that everyone would have crucified him.

I think she's upset at her husband honey and didnt really mean it
krysia 23 | 3,057  
14 Aug 2006 /  #15
My "X" husband. And you are exactly right, Shelly. And when I think about it some more, ya, it would be better to be with a guy who's "done it" before, because then you don't have to sit there and explain to him step be step what he should do next. That would take all the fun out of it. And as for Justin, you can call it stupid. But I still prefer a guy who is unaltered in any way.
iwona 12 | 542  
14 Aug 2006 /  #16
I would imagine they're the ugly ones who are not getting any regardless!

I met few people who didn't have sex before marriage. They were not ugly or weird. I think that it is just someone's principle.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
14 Aug 2006 /  #17
I myself never had sex before marriage and I'm proud of it. But that was my personal preference. I chose it that way.But I do not see anything wrong with doing it before marriage, if you know the person you're with is Mr. Right. And a lot has to do with your beliefs. I just dislike it when a person runs around with everybody they meet to satisfy their desire. That's where the spread of AIDS came from. But then again, if someone really has the urge to do it and can't find a woman, then they get a doll or enjoy the company of another man. It's a tough world, isn't it?
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
14 Aug 2006 /  #18
Guys in America are sick and corrupt

Maybe just the losers you're meeting. Losers are everywhere...pretty childish remark. Are you 12?

Guys in America are sick and corrupt. Some keep notebooks with the names of all the women they've been with

Where are these guy's from? I don't know one person that does this. maybe you're looking near High Schools.

Americans are obsessed with their dicks

Another pithy comment. Obviously..... You don't know sh!t :)

They are like this "precious jewel", they devote themselves and seek..................

Gag

Really. It's pretty obvious that you were mistreated. Maybe you can go to another country to meet a man...get mistreated again(cause it seems you attract this type) and talk shit about them too :)
krysia 23 | 3,057  
14 Aug 2006 /  #19
Yes Fisz. You are right. I was mistreated. By an American guy.
Shelley  
15 Aug 2006 /  #20
krysia

You really need to start moving on - your x is a total arsehole, but the only way to win is to start living your own life and stop judging men all the same, they're not, trust me I have some wonderful male friends who are respectful towards women - you married the wrong man end of storey - his time will come dont worry! Being happy takes a lot less engery than being unhappy
krysia 23 | 3,057  
15 Aug 2006 /  #21
Fisz. Did I offend you?
Shelley  
15 Aug 2006 /  #22
dont worry - he'll get over it
krysia 23 | 3,057  
15 Aug 2006 /  #23
I have met the most Beautiful, Handsome, Gorgeous, Wonderful Angel from Poland. I was married to the ugliest, deviest, meanest, evilest, greediest devil from America. Therefore, that's where my opinions come from.
Shelley  
15 Aug 2006 /  #24
I have met the most Beautiful, Handsome, Gorgeous, Wonderful Angel from Poland

well thats good and cause to be happy and forget the yank
krysia 23 | 3,057  
15 Aug 2006 /  #25
Once you get bitten and scarred for life by a doberman pinscher, you will hate that breed of dogs forever. You could then either hate all dogs or only that one breed.
koziol  
15 Aug 2006 /  #26
I think krysia has some personal problems she sounds so narcissistic
Please stay in Poland and dont immigrate to the U.S. we dont want or need you
There are many fine Polish women here, maybe you are the one that is sick and corrupted dont blame every American because you had a bad experience.

they'd be the ones from Alabama!

have you ever been to alabama? racist brit dont talk about what you dont know
Ive been to England and wasnt very impressed by the oral hygine either
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
16 Aug 2006 /  #27
I was pissed because you were generalizing. You can't take it out on everyone beacuse of a few people. We're a large country and we have many different views on life. I'm over it though. I realize there are bitter people out there.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
16 Aug 2006 /  #28
Ya, I knew you would.
iwona 12 | 542  
16 Aug 2006 /  #29
I was pissed because you were generalizing. You can't take it out on everyone beacuse of a few people. We're a large country and we have many different views on life. I'm over it though. I realize there are bitter people out there.

I think that bitterness is temporary.
If you have bad time you blame everyone. When I moved to England and started my second job ( first was about 7 month) I met quite unfriendly peoplei n my team . And I felt qite bad there- It is like 8 hours everyday to spend with people you don't like. I was moaning Briitish are awful, unfriendly. That is not true- it is just generalization when we feel bad. Since then I have met lots of nice, warm ,funny people here.

I think that in USA there are lots great men. It is so big country full of people from all over the world.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
16 Aug 2006 /  #30
Koziol
I am in America. I was born here.

Are you generalizing the British? There are people with oral hygene problems all over the world. No need to call someone a racist Brit. Mellow out.

Maybe Shelly was in Alabama. Did you ask her?

Archives - 2005-2009 / Love / Do Polish guys have a different approach to dating than others guys?Archived