Doesn't matter whether or not it's you. I don't think it is but that's not the point really.
Go with the heart love, and see where it takes you.
WTF kind of Advice is that?!
Next time you are alone with her..
If she was dating/married.
And a friend told her.. That her Guy was seeing another Woman.
How would she feel about it...?
Unless she doesnt care. Im sure the point will sink in.
It's time to be a lil more Subtle..
MUCH better advice.
This girl's lonely and getting some attention - the fact that she asked you is good enough to know that she doens't want to ruin the marriage.
Tell her that if she wants your advice she's got to take on board what you acctually say, and not just look for condoning.
Tell her she CANNOT get into a relatinship with this guy, She knows this and that's good.
If this guy will cheat on his wife, he'll cheat on her too.
How would she feel if she was married and her husband was having an affair and the other woman knew it was an affair.
Then tell her their are many guys out there that are decent blokes, she just has to find them. But Love rarely comes when you look. It usually comes from where you aren't looking lol. She's just got to be patient and she'll be ok :)