Jambo
21 Jan 2008
Jambo
21 Dec 2007
Love / My Polish guy - loves me he loves me not [73]
I wish you luck. But if he has not called you by now or made any other move then I think it is simply he does not want to. I rarely give a woman I do not know my telephone number but where I have and she does not call ot text I know she is not interested. You could just ask him right out for a date then you will know for sure.
I wish you luck. But if he has not called you by now or made any other move then I think it is simply he does not want to. I rarely give a woman I do not know my telephone number but where I have and she does not call ot text I know she is not interested. You could just ask him right out for a date then you will know for sure.
Jambo
7 Dec 2007
Love / What to buy my Polish girlfriend for Christmas? [9]
Show her that you care for her and love her.
Show her that you care for her and love her.
Jambo
5 Dec 2007
Love / What to buy my Polish girlfriend for Christmas? [9]
Make her feel she is the most wonderful woman in the world. A gift might be part of that but there are other more important actions you could take.
Make her feel she is the most wonderful woman in the world. A gift might be part of that but there are other more important actions you could take.
Jambo
4 Dec 2007
Jambo
4 Dec 2007
Love / how can i get him to fall in love with me again? [43]
I think that telling him that is how he makes you feel maybe a wake up call for him. But you must be prepared to find out this is really how he is, he is not going to change and you must end the realtionship. There are men who primarily enjoy the thrill of the chase and once they capture the woman's heart they move on to chase someone else and forget the woman they have successfully chased.
I think that telling him that is how he makes you feel maybe a wake up call for him. But you must be prepared to find out this is really how he is, he is not going to change and you must end the realtionship. There are men who primarily enjoy the thrill of the chase and once they capture the woman's heart they move on to chase someone else and forget the woman they have successfully chased.
Jambo
4 Dec 2007
Love / how can i get him to fall in love with me again? [43]
I think you must sit down and have a serious chat with him and tell him what you want from your relationshhip and why it is not working for you now. However be prepared for him not to commit to change or meeting you halfway. If that is the case you have no future together as a couple and you must stop seeing him and move on.
I think you must sit down and have a serious chat with him and tell him what you want from your relationshhip and why it is not working for you now. However be prepared for him not to commit to change or meeting you halfway. If that is the case you have no future together as a couple and you must stop seeing him and move on.
Jambo
29 Nov 2007
Love / Polish men rules!!!! Love at first sight?, Is it possible? [16]
I think you should contact him and then you either have closure or a new beginning.
I think you should contact him and then you either have closure or a new beginning.
Jambo
23 Nov 2007
Love / WILL HE OR WONT HE??? [24]
Top post above. It just worries me that you are going to get hurt. Friendships do not work if one person wants more than friendship and the other person does'nt.
Top post above. It just worries me that you are going to get hurt. Friendships do not work if one person wants more than friendship and the other person does'nt.
Jambo
23 Nov 2007
Jambo
23 Nov 2007
Love / WILL HE OR WONT HE??? [24]
But do you really want to do all these romantic things with someone who only wants to be your friend. A holiday in Paris should be romantic - walking hand in hand - having hugs and kisses - making passionate love. If he does not want to do any of that with you why are you bothering with him. Why not find a man who does want to be passionate with you than be with one who does'nt. Sorry but are you not just wasting your time with this guy?
But do you really want to do all these romantic things with someone who only wants to be your friend. A holiday in Paris should be romantic - walking hand in hand - having hugs and kisses - making passionate love. If he does not want to do any of that with you why are you bothering with him. Why not find a man who does want to be passionate with you than be with one who does'nt. Sorry but are you not just wasting your time with this guy?
Jambo
23 Nov 2007
Jambo
22 Nov 2007
Jambo
20 Nov 2007
Love / WILL HE OR WONT HE??? [24]
Seize the initiative - don't wait for him as you might wait forever if he is this shy - pick your moment to tell him how you really feel and ask him how he feels - before, during and after you have made love would be good times.
Stop waiting for him to say something you say it. And good luck.
Seize the initiative - don't wait for him as you might wait forever if he is this shy - pick your moment to tell him how you really feel and ask him how he feels - before, during and after you have made love would be good times.
Stop waiting for him to say something you say it. And good luck.
Jambo
18 Nov 2007
Love / The number of men seeking a Polish woman [85]
I think it is quite correct to say that women are generally more concerned about things in addition to appearance such as kindness and sincerity whearas men tend to concentrate on the visual.
I think it is quite correct to say that women are generally more concerned about things in addition to appearance such as kindness and sincerity whearas men tend to concentrate on the visual.
Jambo
16 Nov 2007
Jambo
14 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]
This is top advice. But if she ignores it and you feel uncomfortable with how she is leading her life you must ask her to find somewhere else to live.
If she's really your friend and you really care about her like you say you do, you'll do the right thing and give her the benefit of the doubt by talking to her. Don't assume anything, because you know what happens when you do that... :)
This is top advice. But if she ignores it and you feel uncomfortable with how she is leading her life you must ask her to find somewhere else to live.
Jambo
14 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]
He is not her protector she is old enough to make her own decisions bad or good.
Maybe he's worried about her being raped or murdered....
He is not her protector she is old enough to make her own decisions bad or good.
Jambo
14 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]
I do not understand why you think what she is doing is wrong. She is 20 there is nothing wrong with her meeting all sorts of different men. Why not she is young free and single
I do not understand why you think what she is doing is wrong. She is 20 there is nothing wrong with her meeting all sorts of different men. Why not she is young free and single
Jambo
14 Nov 2007
Love / Are men more unhappy about being single than women [47]
If this is right for you at the moment the that is great there is nothing wrong with being single it can be great fun. Jealous boyfriends are bad.
If this is right for you at the moment the that is great there is nothing wrong with being single it can be great fun. Jealous boyfriends are bad.
Jambo
12 Nov 2007
Love / My ex from last year and this coming weekend [22]
Glad you are okay Sunflower I saw The Alarm in London Saturday night who were great.
Glad you are okay Sunflower I saw The Alarm in London Saturday night who were great.
Jambo
12 Nov 2007
Love / friendhship with polish girl [63]
I have some sympathy for you as I had a simliar situation. I suggest you ask her to leave your house. You helped her that help is now over. She is moving forward in her life which is good so she should also move out your house as you are clearly uncomfortable with her being there.
I have some sympathy for you as I had a simliar situation. I suggest you ask her to leave your house. You helped her that help is now over. She is moving forward in her life which is good so she should also move out your house as you are clearly uncomfortable with her being there.
Jambo
6 Nov 2007
Love / My ex from last year and this coming weekend [22]
Best of luck Sunflower. I know it is easy to say but you should never not do what you want to do because you might bump into your ex. It may be awkward for both of you I know but don't let that dictate whether you go or not. If it arises be cool. I know you are a cool woman. He will be feeling just as awkward.
Who are you going to see anyway ( I am a big gig goer)?
Best of luck Sunflower. I know it is easy to say but you should never not do what you want to do because you might bump into your ex. It may be awkward for both of you I know but don't let that dictate whether you go or not. If it arises be cool. I know you are a cool woman. He will be feeling just as awkward.
Who are you going to see anyway ( I am a big gig goer)?
Jambo
5 Nov 2007
Love / My girlfriend thinks she's pregnant! Pomocy!! [75]
I agree with the above. He is a complete idiot.
I agree with the above. He is a complete idiot.
Jambo
2 Nov 2007
Jambo
2 Nov 2007
Jambo
2 Nov 2007
Love / My girlfriend thinks she's pregnant! Pomocy!! [75]
The guy who started this thread is a complete numptie. Grow up.
What another ridiculous thread is this for real?
The guy who started this thread is a complete numptie. Grow up.
What another ridiculous thread is this for real?
Jambo
2 Nov 2007
Jambo
31 Oct 2007
Love / In love with a Polish teacher... [83]
I think you should get this guy out of your head and move on. Sorry.
I think you should get this guy out of your head and move on. Sorry.
Jambo
31 Oct 2007
Love / Advice from the guys? English met a Polish guy. [40]
I would not say that men are turned off if the woman makes the advances but as it is unusual it tends to put you on the defensive. I guess it depends on how the advance is made subtlety is the key.
I would not say that men are turned off if the woman makes the advances but as it is unusual it tends to put you on the defensive. I guess it depends on how the advance is made subtlety is the key.