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WILL HE OR WONT HE???


orlandobelle 11 | 29  
20 Nov 2007 /  #1
........Tell me how he feels?? ..Some of you may remember that I was totally in love with my Polish friend - he has moved back to Poland now but still hasn't said how he feels about me to my face (although he has to other people) - well, we are going on holiday together to Paris and London - I just can't wait - Paris is one of the most romantic places in the world!! Here's hoping????
Polson 5 | 1,767  
20 Nov 2007 /  #2
Hei Orlandobelle, have a nice trip to Paris (where i was born, LoL)

still hasn't said how he feels about me to my face (although he has to other people)

What did he say to other people ?...feelings he has about you, or about them ?...

we are going on holiday together to Paris and London - I just can't wait - Paris is one of the most romantic places in the world!! Here's hoping????

It would be quite weird if he had no feelings for you AND at the same time he travels with you to Paris and London...

;)
OP orlandobelle 11 | 29  
20 Nov 2007 /  #3
Quoting: orlandobelle
still hasn't said how he feels about me to my face (although he has to other people)

Well, he's told our mutual friends that he really likes me and 'has plans for my heart' (this sounds very romantic), but this seems to have gone on for ages!! He is extremely shy but I really wish he would say something.

It would be quite weird if he had no feelings for you AND at the same time he travels with you to Paris and London...

Very true - if I didn't have feelings for someone, I don't think I would travel with someone either.

We were going to New York but he was finding it soooooo hard to get a Visa, so we decided on London and Paris instead - if he doesn't say something to me then, well I will just give up :.)
z_darius 14 | 3,960  
20 Nov 2007 /  #5
Paris is one of the most romantic places in the world!!

While in Paris, just be careful where you step ;)
Have fun and good luck!
szarlotka 8 | 2,205  
20 Nov 2007 /  #6
While in Paris, just be careful where you step ;)

The mayor has launched a major offensive against dogs and their owners I believe. The offensive also covers the stopping of Parisien males relieving themsleves in the streets. Apparently there is a new type of wall on trial that guarantees you weeing on yourself if you try to use it.

So Paris will be romantic again OB so enjoy your time there.
OP orlandobelle 11 | 29  
20 Nov 2007 /  #7
So Paris will be romantic again OB so enjoy your time there

I really hope it will be - we are sharing a room (separate beds of course ;.) ) - just hope he opens up to me!!!!!!!!! If he doesn't say it there I suppose he never will xx
szarlotka 8 | 2,205  
20 Nov 2007 /  #8
just hope he opens up to me!!!!!!!!!

Good luck
Jambo 2 | 106  
20 Nov 2007 /  #9
Seize the initiative - don't wait for him as you might wait forever if he is this shy - pick your moment to tell him how you really feel and ask him how he feels - before, during and after you have made love would be good times.

Stop waiting for him to say something you say it. And good luck.
marek s - | 269  
20 Nov 2007 /  #10
if this would be a LDR, give up while your ahead
OP orlandobelle 11 | 29  
22 Nov 2007 /  #11
It's not really a relationship - it a friendship (more to the pity) xx
sledz 23 | 2,248  
22 Nov 2007 /  #12
It's not really a relationship - it a friendship

why go on a romantic trip then???
OP orlandobelle 11 | 29  
22 Nov 2007 /  #13
As far as I'm concerned - it isn't a romantic trip - he's never been to London and neither of us has been to Paris - and we both love to travel. It's just a holiday :.( - I wish it was a romantic trip!!!
Jambo 2 | 106  
22 Nov 2007 /  #14
Well make it romantic then. Seize the initiative.
sunnywolf - | 6  
22 Nov 2007 /  #15
wow...congratulations for you guys! have a nice trip..
well,,if you like ,Come to China, here have many beautiful place for relax!!!
OP orlandobelle 11 | 29  
23 Nov 2007 /  #16
We originally wanted to go to New York but he was having a lot of trouble and expense getting a visa - so as I live in the UK and flights from Poland are so cheap, he is flying here and then we are going to London on the train and then the Eurostar to Paris - that is after my two weeks visit to him in Poznan :.) x
Jambo 2 | 106  
23 Nov 2007 /  #17
And you are just friends! Makes no sense.
OP orlandobelle 11 | 29  
23 Nov 2007 /  #18
Jambo - I really wish we were more than friends. I told him how I feel so he knows. So, we are just friends - but, as my pals say, if it was just friends, he probably wouldn't go on holiday jwith just ust me and him :.)
Jambo 2 | 106  
23 Nov 2007 /  #19
But do you really want to do all these romantic things with someone who only wants to be your friend. A holiday in Paris should be romantic - walking hand in hand - having hugs and kisses - making passionate love. If he does not want to do any of that with you why are you bothering with him. Why not find a man who does want to be passionate with you than be with one who does'nt. Sorry but are you not just wasting your time with this guy?
OP orlandobelle 11 | 29  
23 Nov 2007 /  #20
Jambo, I ask myself this all the time - but I would rather have him as a friend than nothing at all - I have tried dating other guys but I still keep wishing I was with him. I'll just enjoy our holiday for what it is - A NICE HOLIDAY IN LONDON AND FRANCE :.) xx
Jambo 2 | 106  
23 Nov 2007 /  #21
Okay good luck.
marek s - | 269  
23 Nov 2007 /  #22
Jambo, I ask myself this all the time - but I would rather have him as a friend than nothing at all

but you want more than just friendship and there lies the problem.
if nothing comes about it past friendship on holiday, move on and find another guy.
pamlarouge 3 | 56  
23 Nov 2007 /  #23
move on and find another guy.

ditto-there's definitely a guy out there who wants to have the type of holiday with you described by Jambo :) go and find THAT guy...
Jambo 2 | 106  
23 Nov 2007 /  #24
Top post above. It just worries me that you are going to get hurt. Friendships do not work if one person wants more than friendship and the other person does'nt.

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