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I fear to lose my polish boyfriend.. [44]
I once had to go through the same (but my girlfriend was American). We met on the "work and travel for international students" campus; she lived in the campus area (NY). Then I had to move to Chicago [it was easier for me to to arrange papers from there '] and since she was in a good college, she couldn't move with me (especially that I was a Polock without papers and decent job; I earned about $150 a week on the campus for 10-hr/a day/6 times a week job as maintenance / laundry / lifeguard / cleaning lad / dishwasher guy;). But we did meet a couple of times throughout the year; I was at her family on the turkey day, she was here for Christmas. But in the end, she's got a scholarship to study in Europe for two years and that's how our relationship ended. We still email each other once or twice a year to say "Merry Christmas" but that's about all. She's married now.
So, kitten, I don't know your age but if you're less than, let's say, 28, there's nothing to fear about. Even if you lose him, you'll find someone else quickly (3-5 years ;) -- just kidding; more like 3-5 months. If he truly loves you and you have "luck," everything will be fine and you'll be with him.