bmauler 4 Feb 2007 / #1Hi,I'm a single 27 year old American living in Germany. I visited Krakow, Poland recently and love the women there. They're very beautiful and Poland seems to have strong family and religious values. I'm Catholic and attend church every week so I want to find someone who has simiilar values. I think Poland would be a great place to find someone for a long term relationship and I can visit there very easily using Ryanair.My problem is how to approach or meet Polish women. Some of them seem to be wary of tourist although most are very friendly. I don't know if there are any good websites but I've been looking. Any help you could give me would be greatly appreciated.
Huegel 1 | 296 4 Feb 2007 / #2Verdammt nochmal. Wenn du fortgehst, und du bemerkst a schönes deutsches Mädel. Was machst du? Normalerweise man sagt ,,Hallo, ich bin blah blah" und das schöne Mädel antwortet, gö?Wenn Ja. Glückwunsch, hast du ne Konversation erfolgreich geführt.Jetzt geht's richtig los. Hor mal zu, hier kommt die Zauberei. :)Fliege nach Krakow und sprich mit ihnen... hast du das verstanden? SPRICH MIT IHNEN
Huegel 1 | 296 4 Feb 2007 / #5So that's what I've been doing wrong. Gosh darn it to hell. :) Do you think it'd be better to say my name?
Kowalski 7 | 621 4 Feb 2007 / #6^definitely! :)From my experience you start with controlled honesty. You shoot strait but leave yourself a gate to withdraw into playing games. This way you find your answer if she likes you or not.Like Goethe once said to his girl (more or less)Do you want to play?First, let's be serious and thenOh! Let's play (babe*):)*not from Goethe
Huegel 1 | 296 4 Feb 2007 / #7Thank Mr. K. I'm taking notes. I hope our Ami chum is too. :)re Goethe. If he'd used babe more, he'd have had a profound effect on society. :) Less Sturm und Drang, more Bling. :)
Kowalski 7 | 621 4 Feb 2007 / #8Yeah, but with Bling he would be extinct by now, with Strum und Drang he is eternal, they say, ... and still touching. :)
miranda 4 Feb 2007 / #9From my experience you start with controlled honesty.what the h..... is that?You shoot straitand this?
Kowalski 7 | 621 4 Feb 2007 / #10u got me! but see this: https://polishforums.com/archives/2005-2009/love/guys-date-woman-5795/
miranda 4 Feb 2007 / #11It's hard for them because they don't want to feel the pain of being rejected. They often would pretend that their interest is not serious or that you are one of the many they are caring about in the same time desiring you most of all walking createures on Eart.I think the same goes for women:)
Kowalski 7 | 621 4 Feb 2007 / #12Yeah, but it's a man risking rejection in reality. Women say yes or no. You are deciders, we are to make first move and you can stay tempting and flirting or signaling.
Enialedam 10 Feb 2007 / #13Coming from a girl ...I wait for the guy to approach me, personally. Call me old-fashioned. Start a conversation, sit next to her on the bus, be yourself, be honest; comment her, but don't make-up stuff just to win her approval. If you get the sense that she's feeling comfortable, ask if she'd like to meet you ... if she says "No," there could be other things outside of rejection/"I dont' like the way you look" ... I'm really anxious about giving out my phone/E-mail to guys, because you really never know what they'll do with it ... And I'm taller than most men!
bolo 2 | 304 10 Feb 2007 / #14I'm really anxious about giving out my phone/E-mail to guys, because you really never know what they'll do with it ...Wait - if you afraid to give an email or phone number to a guy... how long would it take for you to be alone with him in one room...
shewolf 5 | 1,077 10 Feb 2007 / #15how long would it take for you to be alone with him in one room...How long does it take for you to be alone with a woman in one room? :)
krysia 23 | 3,058 10 Feb 2007 / #16how long would it take for you to be alone with him in one room...If you were that guy, I'm sure not fast enough.:)
bolo 2 | 304 10 Feb 2007 / #17How long does it take for you to be alone with a woman in one room?Still don't know - still testing it.. Removing doors in my apartment didn't help.
bolo 2 | 304 10 Feb 2007 / #19Forgot to add I couldn't remove the bars as easily as the doors so that was probably the reason a girl won't stay with me in one room/apartment.
shewolf 5 | 1,077 10 Feb 2007 / #20I still don't believe you. I'll bet they have their hands all over you.
bolo 2 | 304 10 Feb 2007 / #21If you're afraid of women, bars and double doors are the least you could install..
bolo 2 | 304 10 Feb 2007 / #27because they fight over you.If I pay them, they surely do... Otherwise, they don't like me.Anyway, maybe Krysia could portait my barred apartment and women :) It's always funny to see it from another, brighter perspective...