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How do I approach or meet Polish women


bmauler  
4 Feb 2007 /  #1
Hi,

I'm a single 27 year old American living in Germany. I visited Krakow, Poland recently and love the women there. They're very beautiful and Poland seems to have strong family and religious values. I'm Catholic and attend church every week so I want to find someone who has simiilar values. I think Poland would be a great place to find someone for a long term relationship and I can visit there very easily using Ryanair.

My problem is how to approach or meet Polish women. Some of them seem to be wary of tourist although most are very friendly. I don't know if there are any good websites but I've been looking. Any help you could give me would be greatly appreciated.
Huegel 1 | 296  
4 Feb 2007 /  #2
Verdammt nochmal. Wenn du fortgehst, und du bemerkst a schönes deutsches Mädel. Was machst du? Normalerweise man sagt ,,Hallo, ich bin blah blah" und das schöne Mädel antwortet, gö?

Wenn Ja. Glückwunsch, hast du ne Konversation erfolgreich geführt.

Jetzt geht's richtig los. Hor mal zu, hier kommt die Zauberei. :)

Fliege nach Krakow und sprich mit ihnen... hast du das verstanden? SPRICH MIT IHNEN
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,510  
4 Feb 2007 /  #3
solid advice huegel :)
Kowalski 7 | 621  
4 Feb 2007 /  #4
Hallo, ich bin blah blah

Might not work. :)
Huegel 1 | 296  
4 Feb 2007 /  #5
So that's what I've been doing wrong. Gosh darn it to hell. :) Do you think it'd be better to say my name?
Kowalski 7 | 621  
4 Feb 2007 /  #6
^
definitely! :)
From my experience you start with controlled honesty. You shoot strait but leave yourself a gate to withdraw into playing games. This way you find your answer if she likes you or not.

Like Goethe once said to his girl (more or less)

Do you want to play?
First, let's be serious and then
Oh! Let's play (babe*)
:)
*not from Goethe
Huegel 1 | 296  
4 Feb 2007 /  #7
Thank Mr. K. I'm taking notes. I hope our Ami chum is too. :)

re Goethe. If he'd used babe more, he'd have had a profound effect on society. :) Less Sturm und Drang, more Bling. :)
Kowalski 7 | 621  
4 Feb 2007 /  #8
Yeah, but with Bling he would be extinct by now, with Strum und Drang he is eternal, they say, ... and still touching. :)
miranda  
4 Feb 2007 /  #9
From my experience you start with controlled honesty.

what the h..... is that?

You shoot strait

and this?
miranda  
4 Feb 2007 /  #11
It's hard for them because they don't want to feel the pain of being rejected. They often would pretend that their interest is not serious or that you are one of the many they are caring about in the same time desiring you most of all walking createures on Eart.

I think the same goes for women:)
Kowalski 7 | 621  
4 Feb 2007 /  #12
Yeah, but it's a man risking rejection in reality. Women say yes or no. You are deciders, we are to make first move and you can stay tempting and flirting or signaling.
Enialedam  
10 Feb 2007 /  #13
Coming from a girl ...

I wait for the guy to approach me, personally. Call me old-fashioned. Start a conversation, sit next to her on the bus, be yourself, be honest; comment her, but don't make-up stuff just to win her approval. If you get the sense that she's feeling comfortable, ask if she'd like to meet you ... if she says "No," there could be other things outside of rejection/"I dont' like the way you look" ... I'm really anxious about giving out my phone/E-mail to guys, because you really never know what they'll do with it ... And I'm taller than most men!
bolo 2 | 304  
10 Feb 2007 /  #14
I'm really anxious about giving out my phone/E-mail to guys, because you really never know what they'll do with it ...

Wait - if you afraid to give an email or phone number to a guy... how long would it take for you to be alone with him in one room...
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
10 Feb 2007 /  #15
how long would it take for you to be alone with him in one room...

How long does it take for you to be alone with a woman in one room? :)
krysia 23 | 3,057  
10 Feb 2007 /  #16
how long would it take for you to be alone with him in one room...

If you were that guy, I'm sure not fast enough.:)
bolo 2 | 304  
10 Feb 2007 /  #17
How long does it take for you to be alone with a woman in one room?

Still don't know - still testing it.. Removing doors in my apartment didn't help.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
10 Feb 2007 /  #18
I don't believe you.
bolo 2 | 304  
10 Feb 2007 /  #19
Forgot to add I couldn't remove the bars as easily as the doors so that was probably the reason a girl won't stay with me in one room/apartment.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
10 Feb 2007 /  #20
I still don't believe you. I'll bet they have their hands all over you.
bolo 2 | 304  
10 Feb 2007 /  #21
If you're afraid of women, bars and double doors are the least you could install..
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
10 Feb 2007 /  #22
But women are harmless. You can't really be afraid of them.
bolo 2 | 304  
10 Feb 2007 /  #23
One may be harmless, but when three women meet, they start to fight.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
10 Feb 2007 /  #24
So you have women fighting over you? I knew it.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
10 Feb 2007 /  #25
because they fight over you.:)

I knew it too!!!
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
10 Feb 2007 /  #26
We found him out.
bolo 2 | 304  
10 Feb 2007 /  #27
because they fight over you.

If I pay them, they surely do... Otherwise, they don't like me.

Anyway, maybe Krysia could portait my barred apartment and women :) It's always funny to see it from another, brighter perspective...
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
10 Feb 2007 /  #28
If I pay them, they surely do...

I'll fight over you for free. :)
sledz 23 | 2,250  
10 Feb 2007 /  #29
I perfer a cage....:)
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
10 Feb 2007 /  #30
You like trapping women in a cage?

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