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I can't trust Polish women any longer - where to meet a foreign girl?


trismegistos 1 | 14  
10 Apr 2009 /  #1
Hello everyone,

I am a 22-years-old Polish philosophy student [living in Wrocław] who has never had a girlfriend. After multiple yet extremely painful rejections experienced from Polish girls I'm no longer unable to confide them. As a consequence of this negative experience, I've fallen into avoidant personality disorder and a major depressive disorder because of which I have to be medically treated by a psychiatrist (it's somewhat humiliating since I'm a good, open-minded and extremely sensitive man who would do literally everything to make a woman happy and I would NEVER give her a reason to cry). That's why I'm going to meet a foreign [USA, UK, Canada or Australia] female for long-term relationship. There is just one condition: she should be ready to stay in Poland forever. I also except her to be an intellectual [in any sense]. Well, females from countries I mentioned above are really cute and nice [even the fact they speak English as their native language is just sweet, no matter how foolish does it sound], in opposite to Polish B-tches [sorry for the expression - there are a few exceptions, though] which tend to be unthankful, ill-natured, stolid, too submissive [I'm not a type of dominant male] and dependent. They often pay too much attention on money instead of men's individual features, while I'm a romantic who could have even a very poverty-stricken girlfriend if she was arousing. I would be greatful for a hint where can I quickly meet a foreign [preferably 24-30 but if she was really interesting, then even 17-18 would do], without searching the whole internet just to be told that she already found a boyfriend before we even meet in the reality.
Daisy 3 | 1,227  
10 Apr 2009 /  #2
Bloody hell, you're not asking for much are you? I can't see many girls being tempted by your portfolio to be honest. You left out good sense of humour and loving a girl for just being herself, that usually goes a long way.
Wroclaw Boy  
10 Apr 2009 /  #3
you best get back to the physchologist mate.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Apr 2009 /  #4
If you believe that other countries' girls are less materialistic, you may be disappointed. Yeah, there is rampant materialism in parts here but you get that all over. Take the plunge, everything will be ok.
time means 5 | 1,310  
10 Apr 2009 /  #5
trismegistos perhaps wroclaw boy can take you under his wing, watch you in action and give you a couple of pointers where you are going wrong?

how about it WB?
Nathan 18 | 1,363  
10 Apr 2009 /  #6
you best get back to the physchologist mate.

I have to agree with you , Wroclaw. Tresmi, you are too wired. Take it easy. I was rejected too - so what? But the ladies that rejected you were, probably, stricken by your controlly and demanding personality even though you say you are not. Yes, you are. Fight your emotions a bit and you will find true love.

while I'm a romantic who could have even a very poverty-stricken girlfriend if she was arousing

Wow, you are deep!
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Apr 2009 /  #7
You are better off without that nonsense. Roll with the punches and use your instincts. There are nice Polish women out there, you just have to look around to find them.
pgtx 29 | 3,159  
10 Apr 2009 /  #8
good.... find some other chick, don't make Polish women miserable...

;)
Wahldo  
10 Apr 2009 /  #9
Per usual, some guy writes something like this and gets slammed by every clown on PF. What the hell? Give him a break.

That's why I'm going to meet a foreign [USA, UK, Canada or Australia]

There are a posters on here from LA named LAGirl and Becksi on here. They're always swooning over Polish guys. They probably have friends or something. American / Canadian women usually like European men and contrary to popular European belief, not all American women weigh a metric ton.

My own experience, European women are often gorgeous but can be incredibly bit/chy. The Dutch are the worse imo. However, a couple of friends of mine have German fraus and they seem extremely happy with them. Anyway, good luck, ya' live only once.
HatefulBunch397 - | 658  
10 Apr 2009 /  #10
My own experience, European women are often gorgeous but can be incredibly bit/chy.

If you ever watch commercials on television in America you will see lots of skinny good looking American girls.
Wahldo  
10 Apr 2009 /  #11
Well, who uses fat chicks to sell beer? What do you expect? Please don't give me some Oprah moment.
HatefulBunch397 - | 658  
10 Apr 2009 /  #12
Well, who uses fat chicks to sell beer?

Beer's one of those drinks that makes a big fat belly so they don't want fat people selling it.
But you right, fifty percent or more of Americans need to go on a big fat diet, lol.
Wahldo  
10 Apr 2009 /  #13
fifty percent or more of Americans need to go on a big fat diet, lol.

No, no.. I was arguing most Amer women aren't fat, (that's just European perception). Maybe a 25% of US women are really fat.
HatefulBunch397 - | 658  
10 Apr 2009 /  #14
It depends on where you live. I heard the poorer the people the fatter they tend to be because cheap food has the fattening ingredients, little nutrients and "empty calories".
Wahldo  
10 Apr 2009 /  #15
heard the poorer the people the fatter they tend to be because cheap food has the fattening ingredients, little nutrients and "empty calories".

Not to be a complete dick but that's usually black chicks.
HatefulBunch397 - | 658  
10 Apr 2009 /  #16
It can be anyone who eats food made from refined ingredients that are mostly starch and fat with little nutritional value.
bluebird - | 36  
10 Apr 2009 /  #17
I suggest David Deangelo.

Buy yourself a Fedora and some pimp shoes, pimp cane, and grow a moustache.

Plato would approve.
espana 17 | 910  
10 Apr 2009 /  #18
trismegistos

if you buy a blowupdoll probably she will leave
UKGUY 3 | 87  
10 Apr 2009 /  #19
I would consider Romanian women. I know a number of Romanian girls and they are absolutely lovely people. Kind, caring, not gold digging (in this case), smart and not stuck up like Polish girls and some English girls. Sure you have to be really careful. Don't give them anything at first e.g money, but get to know them and when you will know for a number of years you will find they are genuine.
Wahldo  
10 Apr 2009 /  #20
I know a number of Romanian girls and they are absolutely lovely people.

Yeah ditto. There's quite a few in Chicago and they are good to go. Everybody on PF puts them one level above a sewer rat. Not me.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
10 Apr 2009 /  #21
I also don't. They have poverty but so does the US and the UK. Many are sexy and are less superficial. Yeah, a Romanian would be loyal and easy/low maintenance
frd 7 | 1,399  
10 Apr 2009 /  #22
Saying that she would have to stay in Poland ( or wherever for that matter ) sounds to me like a control freak.. and come on.. looking for 17 year old girls? That's what will lead you to more and more pain, 17 year old girls dunno what they want in life, and although they might be fascinated by maturity on the beginning, that feeling may cease pretty quickly. Look for older women if you have such problems, and don't be a control freak that just scares girls away..
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
11 Apr 2009 /  #23
Why the hell most of you claim that I'm a controlling and too demanding person? It's exactly inversely - when it comes to male-female relations, I'm an especially submissive man [due to my main principle: a woman who would be able to appreciate my feelings as the FIRST one should be rewarded to the maximum extent and and can expect literally EVERYTHING as long as her expectations don't violate commonly-approved moral rules, don't involve anyone's detriment and are NOT connected with utilizing me like a toy].

I would like to thank anyone who took my personal troubles seriously, even if her/he perceives me as a wood-headed idiot. But special thanks go to Wahldo for concrete advice. And now a word adressed to all these bastards who slam me eagerly with explicit satisfaction: don't think that you can conquer the whole world and are allowed to foul others just because you have a girlfriend - remember that you may always loose her and suffer from deep depression in the future, like me at the moment.

I definitely prefer older women but I clearly wrote that in some cases a female can be only 17-18 years old. I have just wanted to leave a sort of backdoor in order to avoid instant discualification of a valuable person just because of her age.

Let's wake up: Wrocław is the capital of Lower Silesia and one of the most significant cities in Poland. I can't believe that it's so hard to meet a foreign female. And I don't even mean a date at the moment - I think merely about a plain conversation (even very short one) with someone from an English-speaking country, who won't return home within two months and forget me completely.

Well, I said that a girl should be ready to stay at Poland forever because I just can't (and won't be able in the future because of a few severe causes) migrate anywhere. But she will absolutely be allowed and endorsed to visit - even frequently - her family and friends residing in her old country. I'd just like her to acquire Polish citizenship and reside in Poland just to avoid a long-distance relationship.
Nathan 18 | 1,363  
11 Apr 2009 /  #24
a big fat diet

I would rather say - big-BS-in-food-preventive diet

because cheap food has the fattening ingredients, little nutrients and "empty calories".

It just depends how lazy you are in the kitchen. I make my own food every day which is healthy, delicious and nourishing and is cheap. But when you eat out, it is a whole new story. To eat healthy, you would have to pay a bit (for rich that's exactly why they are in shape), otherwise, McDonalds and family will make you "super size".
freebird 3 | 532  
11 Apr 2009 /  #25
you best get back to the physchologist mate.

lets don't forget another solution and this will be to suicide to avoid all this terrible pain :-)
joland 4 | 86  
11 Apr 2009 /  #26
stay at Poland forever because I just can't (and won't be able in the future because of a few severe causes) migrate anywhere. But she will absolutely be allowed and endorsed to visit - even frequently - her family and friends residing in her old country

and what are these few severa causes? i mean, if you ask so much from her, what are you giving to her, from affective and emotional point of view?
northrop 1 | 30  
11 Apr 2009 /  #27
who would do literally everything to make a woman happy

that's your problem right there...

That's why I'm going to meet a foreign [USA, UK, Canada or Australia] female for long-term relationship.

do you really think that's going to make a difference?

I'm not a type of dominant male

this one is quite obvious

preferably 24-30 but if she was really interesting, then even 17-18 would do

lol... in my experience girls under 25 are predominantly immature. there are few exceptions to the rule, obviously... but don't get your hopes up. with that in mind.. if you're considering someone at the age of 30, you shouldn't be considering 17 year old kids to be your perfect match.

without searching the whole internet

dude.. go out, and have some fun. you have better chances of meeting some great people in Wroclaw then you do on this or any other web site.
Wroclaw Boy  
11 Apr 2009 /  #28
I'd just like her to acquire Polish citizenship and reside in Poland just to avoid a long-distance relationship.

Thats the kind of comment that gets you into trouble, youre running before youre even out of the pram.

My advice is chill the hell out, it will happen in time dont push it. If you meet a girl you like just talk dont imply a god damn thing. At the end of the day we dont choose women they choose us. Keep that in mind and play it cool.
mira - | 115  
11 Apr 2009 /  #29
I'm reading...and reading and I can't believe what I'm seeing with my eyes. Polish girls are stuck-up and date only for money?

Excuse me,I'm Polish and it's not the money that counts for me. neither for my girlfriends.
Dear trismegistos, how can you be so sure that a foreign girl will be different?
Maybe you should just try and find a girl in Poland? Believe me, we are all not the same(as u'e even mentioned) and Wrocław is not the only city in Poland.
miranda  
11 Apr 2009 /  #30
But she will absolutely be allowed and endorsed to visit - even frequently - her family and friends residing in her old country.

that is what I think gets you in trouble, so bossy. LOL.

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