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I can't trust Polish women any longer - where to meet a foreign girl?


Wroclaw Boy  
11 Apr 2009 /  #31
If Polish girls dont go for him what chance does he have with a westernised chick. Do you live with your parents?
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
11 Apr 2009 /  #32
Polish guys tend to do pretty well for themselves in Ireland. There seems to be some level of compatibility there.
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
11 Apr 2009 /  #33
Sorry, but what's going on? Am I so stupid or is my English so poor? I wrote explicitly that my foreign girlfriend would be allowed to 'visit her family and friends residing in her old country', that means: I'm not going to snatch her and control every dimension of her life, limiting her freedom in any way - I want her to stay in Poland because I also HAVE TO stay at home, NOT because I'm selfish and enjoy increasing my list of requirements over and over again! Excuse me mira, I'm ready to believe you [as well as your friends] are just one of a few exceptions. But in general, the vast majority of Polish females is often B-tchy. Well, everyone is ethically allowed to reject someone in order to prevent herself/himself [and the admirer] from being hurt in the long run - but only the Polish B-tches are able to hurt in a really low-down way so that a man is forced to visit a head doctor [like me and my close friend who has been medically treated due to F 23.0 (ICD-10) - acute polymorphic psychotic disorder without symptoms of schizophrenia. I must agree that Wrocław is not the only city in Poland but I can't move to another town, period.

And to the rest of you: everyone has the right to disagree with me - but wiping the floor with [or laughing at] any person suffering from major depressive disorder is just below the belt.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
11 Apr 2009 /  #34
Don't be so hard on yourself. If they are *****y (LOL) and irritating then that is not your failing, it's theirs. It's just the way you come across to some people, e.g "would be allowed to visit her family and friends". Eh, in the absence of a restraining order, this is her right.

Taking on the twists and turns of females is a full-time undertaking. It's not always the measure of a man what woman he has. That's superficial stuff really.
northrop 1 | 30  
11 Apr 2009 /  #35
but only the Polish B-tches are able to hurt in a really low-down way

just out of curiosity, have you ever been anywhere outside of Wroclaw? how about outside of Poland? and not just for a day or two... i'm talking about actually spending time with people from different country, and actually GETTING TO KNOW THEM.

dude... you're a control freak. maybe i'm wrong, and perhaps you're just coming across like a total douche bag, which Seanus has pointed out already. take a chill pill. you're only 22!!! you're barely passed puberty. enjoy your single life while you can.
Rafal_1981  
11 Apr 2009 /  #36
trismegistos, get a grip, grow some guts and then start looking for a g-f, man.

OK, I am an insensitive bastard. So what? ;-]
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
11 Apr 2009 /  #37
Well, I didn't call him a douchebag but more of a control freak. You don't allow people that which they already have.

Anyway, there are years ahead of him as you said. He may be doing himself a favour by staying away from those princesses that he seems to encounter.
pgtx 30 | 3,157  
11 Apr 2009 /  #38
trismegistos's posts look uninviting, scary and unstable...
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
11 Apr 2009 /  #39
Could he be another fireif, PGTX?
pgtx 30 | 3,157  
11 Apr 2009 /  #40
you never know... PF is crazies magnet...
;)
hfm - | 27  
11 Apr 2009 /  #41
Dude chill out, get a few travels, save money star a new business, you are 22 years old, you have the life just in front of you, what you want to get huge commitment in your shortly age, man relax, you see like you have very small world, dude make it bigger, stop to live with you parents, open your world, mind, soul
Mystic 2 | 48  
12 Apr 2009 /  #42
Although I'm a female, I can completely relate to the foreign companion thing. I'm 17 and I'm currently dating a 20 year old Russian immigrant. He was born in Siberia. I don't know, but American boys tend to be complete morons.

And I know quite a few Americans go for foreign men. And I live in the USA, by the way.

Oh, and just to make things sound less absurd...

We've been dating for over a year now. And despite being a 16 year old dating a 19 year old, I had parental consent. I just find foreigners much less materialistic than American boys..

And on the subject of the weight of American women... there are quite a few that are obese and it's disgusting. Atleast, that is my opinion. And I've lived in the US my entire life in both the North & South. :) I guess it just depends. Evidently my great grandmother was 100% Polish and very heavy. But I've heard she was the sweetest woman around and a great cook.

I think there is obesity in many countries nowadays because people sit around and do nothing, but I will admit that a good percentage of America is overweight. They have cars to take them places, etc. I for one would much prefer riding my horses everywhere.
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
12 Apr 2009 /  #43
Thank you Mystic for a serious answer. Why the hell most of the posters treat me like a junk deprived of the right to love and be loved? Oh, I see... I would be esteemed far more if I was a hard-hearted lowlife who abuses all women he meets... and Polish B-tches often fall in love with such the bastards...
Mystic 2 | 48  
12 Apr 2009 /  #44
Thank you Mystic for a serious answer.

No problem. :)

I know how difficult relationships can be. My current boyfriend is my first. I was tempted by quite a few American boys, but they all turned out to be jerks. Foreigners are different than what I'm used to and that's why I like them.

Just keep your chin up. I'm sure you'll find the right girl soon enough! And in regards to your last sentence... tell me about it. At my school, 90% of the girls are trashy drug-addicts that drink underage. And they date boys that are exactly like them. You know, the guys that cheat on their girlfriends, etc. Then again, I'm one of the few "good girls." I've never tried a drug, I don't drink, and I actually have morals!

Good luck, though. Foreigners are so much better. :D
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
12 Apr 2009 /  #45
'And in regards to your last sentence... I'm about to tell you about it': you seem to be an absolute proof! So it's no wonder you have already been dating someone!
Mystic 2 | 48  
12 Apr 2009 /  #46
Hahah, actually most people around here have boyfriends or girlfriends at age 13 now. So I was a bit late finding my first boyfriend at 16. But then again, I don't see a point in dating unless you're serious about it... but everyone thinks it's just "fun."
polishcanuck 7 | 462  
12 Apr 2009 /  #47
But in general, the vast majority of Polish females is often B-tchy.

No, not ****** - money hungry is more appropriate here. When i go to poland to visit family every so often, i avoid polish women like the plague. Once they hear you are a foreigner (this word means wealthy in polish) they cling to you like leaches. I feel much more comfortable with canadian women - more attractive too.

Your problem is that you are trying to hard. You need to relax, don't be pushy or aggressive, and don't expect to score with every girl you meet. Work on developing a friendship first. Pretend like you're not interested in dating her. Use some reverse psychology. Get her to come to you.

If you want to meet foreign girls, that's great, but all i can say is that it will probably be more difficult than meeting a polish girl. Also I doubt many women will want to stay in poland permanently.
Wroclaw Boy  
12 Apr 2009 /  #48
Pretend like you're not interested in dating her. Use some reverse psychology. Get her to come to you.

Thats the ticket, basically what i was saying earlier. Try that.
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
12 Apr 2009 /  #49
Above all, I'd like to start at least a plain coversation with a foreign female without leaving Wrocław - so I'm waiting for suggestions on how could I meet one as quickly and painlessly as possible. After that I'll start thinking how to date her if she gives me a reason to try it.
Wroclaw 44 | 5,386  
12 Apr 2009 /  #50
philosophy student

A bit too much thinking and not enough doing.

Get out into the real world.
frd 7 | 1,399  
12 Apr 2009 /  #51
Thinking that foreign girls are somehow different from local girls is a big mistake. Besides, you take only answers that you want to hear as serious answers which is just bollocks, why comming to a board asking those questions in the first place if you don't want any criticism, you just wanted wanking not advice..
joland 4 | 86  
12 Apr 2009 /  #52
and Polish B-tches often fall in love with such the bastards...

This quite says everything about how you think about women... and it should definitely be the reason why you are all ALONE :)
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
12 Apr 2009 /  #53
There is a significant difference between a real woman and a Polish B-tch, period.
Wroclaw Boy  
12 Apr 2009 /  #54
Indeed but you havent managed to figure that out yet and from what youve written here it will probably be a while before you do.
frd 7 | 1,399  
12 Apr 2009 /  #55
There is a significant difference between a real woman and a Polish B-tch, period.

Actually every woman has a period from time to time... pun intended..
freebird 3 | 532  
12 Apr 2009 /  #56
Do you live with your parents?

LMAO, good1
southern 75 | 7,096  
12 Apr 2009 /  #57
which tend to be unthankful, ill-natured, stolid, too submissive [I'm not a type of dominant male] and dependent.

Yes.And the main problem I have encountered with polish women is that you may fall in love with them.
Daisy 3 | 1,227  
12 Apr 2009 /  #58
I thought your main problem was one of them wanted an engagement ring out of you ;)
southern 75 | 7,096  
12 Apr 2009 /  #59
I changed her to another one who wanted investment portfolio and then to the next one who has a lot of attractive features.The last one makes me want to be with her,so I have to do sth to break the attraction.
Daisy 3 | 1,227  
12 Apr 2009 /  #60
The last one makes me want to be with her,so I have to do sth to break the attraction.

you'll regret that when you're old and lonely....you'll remember my words when the day comes that you offer to buy a girl a drink and her reply will be "If I wanted to bring me granddad I would have done"..don't say I didn't warn you

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