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I can't trust Polish women any longer - where to meet a foreign girl?


freebird 3 | 532  
12 Apr 2009 /  #61
I can't trust Polish women any longer - where to meet a foreign girl?

try your luck with guys then, lol.
Castanea - | 75  
13 Apr 2009 /  #62
Stop thinking so much and just go out and talk to people. Just talk, no pick up lines, just talk. Talk about anything.

Don't obsess over dating foreign. There are many idiots/players of both genders in the states and everywhere else.

By the way, I'm 20 and I've never had a serious girlfriend. Its no big deal. You are so young. Keep getting help learn to love yourself.
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
13 Apr 2009 /  #63
Even if dating a foreign female isn't my last resort, it would certainly be an interesting experience. Polish women have always perceived me as a conehead to be imposed over and over again without any excuse: secondary school certificates, numerous exams at the university, foreign languages help, MA dissertations [even those which cover other majors as people believe I'm an universal intellectual first aid able to cope with everything]. OK, I realize that literally all females think I'm far too worthless to be anyone's boyfriend - but am I really that hopeless that I have absolutely no chance to meet someone at least for a simple and short conversation? It's only a conjunction of two basic circumstances: just an English-speaking woman, just residing in Wrocław.
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
13 Apr 2009 /  #64
where to meet a foreign girl?

Have you tried abroad?
Nothing?
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
13 Apr 2009 /  #65
I can't take the liberty of going abroad - I wouldn't start the thread otherwise.
northrop 1 | 30  
13 Apr 2009 /  #66
^have you tried mail order brides?
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
13 Apr 2009 /  #67
am I really that hopeless that I have absolutely no chance to meet someone at least for a simple and short conversation?

Try MacDonalds?

I can't take the liberty of going abroad - I wouldn't start the thread otherwise.

These are likely made in China, so they are foreign. You could probably order online.

secondary school certificates, numerous exams at the university, foreign languages help, MA dissertations [even those which cover other majors as people believe I'm an universal intellectual first aid able to cope with everything]. OK, I realize that literally all females think I'm far too worthless to be anyone's boyfriend - but am I really that hopeless

Yes, I think you are hopeless, or as Joseph Conrad would have said: "The horror. The horror".
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
13 Apr 2009 /  #68
Excuse me for violating the PF rules a bit, but I feel forced to do it now. You apparently are one of those M-O-T-H-F-ers who are so blissfully happy with their girlfriends that they love to humiliate anyone who has never been able to succed in that area.
HatefulBunch397 - | 658  
13 Apr 2009 /  #69
I think you should go out and meet lots of people. You will find someone really cool for you if they see your fabulous personality and know how sweet and charming you can be :)
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
13 Apr 2009 /  #70
I'm sure you will find someone that feels right sooner or later. Maybe you should try to open your mind a little bit more. All relationships are about compromising. People don't always get exactly what they want. You seem very "pre-determined", it's nothing wrong with that, but usually it's necessary to "adjust" one's mind when interacting with other people.

Good Luck! :)
pgtx 30 | 3,157  
13 Apr 2009 /  #71
try to open your mind a little bit more

do you suggest a brain surgery?
;)
theblueenigma 3 | 188  
13 Apr 2009 /  #72
Yourself and another poster here seem to be well matched.....'Joland'

You have similar personalities and the same mentality when it comes to finding a woman, or in Jolands case anything with a heartbeat....I suggest you both hook up, take turns being the 'lady' and forget about girls.

To be honest if I was a girl, I wouldnt hop up on you to get over a ditch :|

Sorry if I seem harsh, but I soncerely hope no woman is unlucky enough to ever come near you, oh wait they are all b*itches in your world

:(
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
13 Apr 2009 /  #73
I'm ready to start from meeting as many girls as possible, as some of you suggest - but I'd like her to be a foreign one, and they are relatively hard to meet. That's why I asked for some hints.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
13 Apr 2009 /  #74
Are you fireif in disguise, are you fireif in disguise? ;)

How do you think everyone else does it?
joland 4 | 86  
13 Apr 2009 /  #75
^have you tried mail order brides?

you mean mail order scams and guaranteeed ripoffs ? ;)
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
14 Apr 2009 /  #76
do you suggest a brain surgery?

Hehe... I think we all could use that from time to time. :)
northrop 1 | 30  
14 Apr 2009 /  #77
you mean mail order scams and guaranteeed ripoffs ? ;)

they can't all be ripoffs. my sister used to work for this weird light-bulb company, where the CEO did in fact was married to a bride he ordered online. it was about 7 or 8 years ago, so i'm sketchy on the details, but from what i recall he was happy because "she cleans, cooks, waits for him in bed every night, and doesn't speak english". but to each his own.

either way, i hope no poor soul ends up with OP until he grows a pair, and gets his act straighten out.
OP trismegistos 1 | 14  
14 Apr 2009 /  #78
There are so many foreign women unhappy with Polish males out there. But no female PF user is likely to give ME a chance, while i have NEVER been married, NEVER betrayed (how the hell could I cheat on anyone if I have always been single due to endless rejections?) and I would accept virtually every valuable girl who is interested in something more than just solarium or whispering with her friends.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
14 Apr 2009 /  #79
I'll give you fireif's GG number. It could be like talking to a mirror in an echo chamber :0
panienka 1 | 205  
14 Apr 2009 /  #80
A romantic soul always suffers...

As a consequence of this negative experience, I've fallen into avoidant personality disorder and a major depressive disorder because of which I have to be medically treated by a psychiatrist

life is brutal, maybe don't take it all so seriously... you are looking for a real treasure... but if you are determined, you should persist in the searching...

Polish B-tches [sorry for the expression

no problem, I'm used to it
Wyspianska  
14 Apr 2009 /  #81
this is pathetic.
panienka 1 | 205  
14 Apr 2009 /  #82
I would accept virtually every valuable girl who is interested in something more than just solarium

maybe check uglier girls.

this is pathetic.

i agree,
but maybe he needs our help...
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
14 Apr 2009 /  #83
You sound as if you are gonna go over there and, eh, lighten the load :)

Panienka, I remember you now. You were the one whose avatar was that of a man with a 6 pack, right?

Tris, she is Polish and she always seemed to be very nice on PF. You need your faith restored fellow.
panienka 1 | 205  
14 Apr 2009 /  #84
seemed to be very nice

you are gonna go over there and, eh, lighten the load

Is it coherent? hehe

Panienka, I remember you now. You were the one whose avatar was that of a man with a 6 pack, right?

ahh how nice :) right, unfortunately I'm not sure if I find this avatar again
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
14 Apr 2009 /  #85
You can always find another cool one. There are plenty to go around. You had a pic of yourself once, that was nice ;)
panienka 1 | 205  
14 Apr 2009 /  #86
yes, thanks, I'll consider it :) now I'm going sleep, goodnight :)
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
14 Apr 2009 /  #87
OK, dobranoc panienka
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
14 Apr 2009 /  #88
Maybe try and take some classes where foreign students are, try the pubs on the main square, Im sure there will be lots of foreign females. Try social networking sites that expats use.

As for somone having to be willing to stay in Poland, this is something you have to be quite frank about from the start, females in general, will always find it easier to be close to their families, in which case you have to be a very very special person for her to want to stay.

Good luck x

Just a word of warning, women are women no matter their nationality, there are good ones and bad ones, it's all down to the luck of the draw.
dnz 17 | 710  
15 Apr 2009 /  #89
First rule of sales! don't list the bad points about yourself, when selling a car you don't introduce it by saying, the engines knackered, the body is rusty, its been in several high speed accidents and people have died in it previously,

Your above post was in all honesty pathetic, grow some balls man and concentrate on your positive aspects and not the negative all the time, confidence is the key. Talking about psychological problems probably isn't the best way forward either.
theblueenigma 3 | 188  
15 Apr 2009 /  #90
People this thread is a wind up

Obviously

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