the verifiable evidence
I'm ignoring anything before September 2015, because that changed things too much. I've personally seen the number of students learning German (in an insitution devoted to teaching many languages) fall by 90% or so over the last 10 years.
And again, how many popular German authors are there in the EU? Or movies or tv shows? Denmark and Sweden have bigger cultural footprints at present. All Germany has is economic force.
Economic influence is for me part of soft power, whereas military capabiillities are hard power
To me Economics are the hardest power going in the modern world.
The only time a country acted blunt and rash recently was when Poland tried to prevent the reelection of Tusk against the wishes of all other member states.
Not sure if that counts because it went against Polish public wishes as well (it was a disaster for PiS domestically).
It is Greek austerity
Demanded and enforced by Germany (which de facto overturned the results of two elections, which is as hard as power gets).
Greece lost 30 % of its GDP with not real prospect for recovery ever because the Euro is not a currency*, it's a loan shark scheme that benefits manufacturing and tax haven economies. It can never work in a service economy. Anyone who knew anything about economics knew that Greece (and Portugal and Spain and Italy did not belong in the Euro).
*and wont' be until there is a common fiscal policy (which no one wants) or monetary transfers from north to south (which Germany doesn't want).