My opinion is that you can talk girls into doing bad things, and that you can talk them into doing good things as well. (Of course the same goes for boys!) For the record: Most girls and boys are alright, and you can be serious your whole life, so do whatever the hell you want to do when you're young, and don't let *any* of these bitter old folks tell you how life works..
a lot of aspects need to be taken into consideration, such as where you met, what made you take interest in one another...
I'd like to see more people who are *willing* to believe in each other, because only with belief in each other will we ever achieve anything. The way I see it, there are no ''good'' or ''bad'' people, but only actions and consequences. Consider this: Maybe love is like a flower which actually *needs* water to grow and blossom, so maybe it doesn't need any judgement calls, any fingers or any lectures, and maybe all you need to do is to show a little love and belief in someone who got his or her heart torn to pieces a little too often. See, I can hope for a flower to grow, but I can also choose to give it some of my time and actually *give* it some water.
;)I've never met any trash!