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POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS? DISCUSS.


Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535
1 Feb 2009 #31
Try getting out more and meeting people in future

I have studied religious doctrines since a good lot of time.

Plus... dont really bother if you are not serious on the Baha'i Faith. Its a world religion with adherents in every country. The most progressive of religions. How long have you been here anyways?...

And what the frick would you know about what Jesus said?

You completed highschool? (oh wait...ur gonna brag about your Phd. perhaps... )

Anyways... good night!
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
1 Feb 2009 #32
Lodz no i am not shocked about the existence of people who don't approve of sex before marriage, my friend is a Jehovah's witness, so is all her family, they have very strong feelings about this issue and i think they respect it and stick to it much better than catholics do, but that was not my point.

I'm not some ship with no steer, since you like talking about boats so much, i personally am not sleeping around - never have, i can't quite treat sex as a sport or a sudden urge i need to fulfill with just about anyone i meet in one of 'my clubs'. I have my standards ;). Some people are weak, some people can't control themselves or worse - don't want to control themselves and i never said it was good - i said it was their choice and it's not for you to condemn them just because they're different than you are. You would be quite surprised to find out what sorts of people practice this sexual freedom experience - would you reject them and condemn them just because of that? It's people from all walks of life, we all make our mistakes, i'm sure many people had a one night stand and they always regreted it. There are many people who choose to only have one night stands because it's easier for them to get what they want without the hassle of a realtionship. At the end of the day it's understandable, as long as they don't go round spreading STD's and making babies i don't rally have a problem with that, it's none of my business - and none of your business either. If it's safe and consented.

What to you is so unacceptable and immoral, to me is just what i hear about and see everyday. And i never bloody said it was good! I'm not saying i wouldn't be capable of waiting till my wedding night but it doesn't quite work that way these days. Without getting any deeper into my personal stuff i can assure you i have more morals and self respect than many girls my age do. I made my share of mistakes but i learnt from those and i'm well in control of this boat of mine thank you very much! I'm just a realist and i'm known for saying things as they are.
cjjc 29 | 408
1 Feb 2009 #33
Oh I know you wont sir. You cant feel guilty... everyone got a point on thier deeds...whether they are on any scale of the misdeed meter.... e.g. even osama dont feel guilty of what he does I guess.

That was preposterous! Are you putting me in the same sentence as mass murder Osama Bin Laden???

I can't feel guilty? No I can not on this topic. Your view is blinded by your own beliefs, please try to be more objective.

But I dont have a problem with you personal life...

Obviously you do!

And I prefer people who dont....neither respect nor disrespect people who do.

Don't play with words, you are quite good at it. I hate people who think they are above me because they believe they have a higher moral standpoint, or do I?

I make sure that people know, what a true kiss to your true love for the first time means

What? It means something different to you than it does to me. You like metaphors: Get off your high horse.

I have belief in my belief... and this strength in enormous.

Good for you. I respect your view however...

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bahai.org

I have no need for religion I have morals to a high degree, I know which is right and which is wrong, which is good and which is evil.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535
1 Feb 2009 #34
Are you putting me in the same sentence as mass murder Osama Bin Laden???

It means that everyone who dont find any guilt or regret in what they did, justify their deeds. Even Osama justifies himself.

Your view is blinded by your own beliefs

Not blinded. Its not biased. I believe we as human's are different than animals...we are to control our behaviours properly. Control, direct, educate our approach to life... and strengthen the society. This is very important... and its not repressing... Its a constructive approach...and human's are built for it.

I hate people who think they are above me because they believe they have a higher moral standpoint, or do I?

Its not a higer status... perfection is an endless journey....and perfection of man lies progressing in this path...not completing it. It cannot be completed.

You have gone forward a greater distance than many....i am also behind many who have been further....but we should walk forward...not backward....succumbing to our material lust and incompentancies.

Obviously you do!

Nope...its not personal. I've never been personal here...but misunderstood, by those who dont try to get that this is a place where we cross...

You like metaphors

Men make metaphors... and not become their slaves.

Good for you. I respect your view however...

I love all humans....i am against the weakness....not those who went a phase through it.

I am not against you. If I met you stressed somewhere....believe you me, if no one would...i would stop and give you water...

I know it might anger you now...and I stand firmly on one ground. But I hope you really could see the validity of this stance.

Have a happy life.
cjjc 29 | 408
1 Feb 2009 #35
more like creepy talk lol

I give up. Far too complex for me! I have morals! I don't go around having sex with anyone! I practice safe sex and do right by people. Yet I am somehow immoral!

<bezradny>

;)
ladykangaroo - | 165
1 Feb 2009 #36
but we should walk forward...not backward....succumbing to our material lust and incompentancies

You can learn a lot from material lust and the dark temptations. Putting them into some kind of dark chamber of your mind, to watch them suffer in chains of rules is like watching your children wither. It's part of you, worth to be accepted, embraced, experienced. The desire to hide them and curb them is usually the result of fear and diffidence. And fear is the mind killer, Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.

Men make metaphors... and not become their slaves

I recommend Lakoff & Mark on that. Our minds have been shaped - or rather mutilated - by metaphors ever since the day we were born. They determine the way we think in creepy, because almost uncounscioss and unnoticeable, way.

those stupid little Polish girls going abroad and sleeping with any guy who isn't white give us a really good reputation

And again I read this kind of generalization. I am abroad. I've been here a while. I knew one girl back in Poland who was sleeping with a guy who was not white (they've been together for about a year, did not work out) and I've met one here (they are getting married in March). Out of curiousity: how many of this "stupid Polish girls" have you met and where? I assume I must have been in wrong places all the time if I hadn't met any yet.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
1 Feb 2009 #37
Out of curiousity: how many of this "stupid Polish girls" have you met and where? I assume I must have been in wrong places all the time if I hadn't met any yet.

i met a couple and my friend who lived in London for quite some time met loads of silly PL girls like that.
OP rychlik 41 | 373
1 Feb 2009 #38
Arabs have a view that every Polish lady is a slut. I think this is because of the large tourist groups that vacation in Tunisia, Morocco, Egypt. The trips are cheap from PL, lots of college aged girls go, and think "whatever happens there, stays there", and create a nice opininon for the rest of the Polish nationality.

That's the part that bugs me. It's no excuse. It doesn't change the fact that they act like sl*ts abroad. Then they bring AIDs back to Poland.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
1 Feb 2009 #39
That's the part that bugs me. It's no excuse. It doesn't change the fact that they act like sl*ts abroad.

apparently British women do just the same, read about it in a paper. are British women considered promiscuous?
OP rychlik 41 | 373
1 Feb 2009 #40
I dunno what to think anymore lol. But I've actually heard Polish women complain that British guys expect a lot quite fast because of their easy British "competition", if you know what I mean. Anyways, I'm glad my sis is going steady with her Croatian boyfriend. My parents keep an eye on her :)
cjjc 29 | 408
1 Feb 2009 #41
apparently British women do just the same, read about it in a paper. are British women considered promiscuous?

More so.

I dunno what to think anymore lol. But I've actually heard Polish women complain that British guys expect a lot quite fast because of their easy British "competition", if you know what I mean.

I'm not surprised you heard that, it's a sad fact that many English people nowadays lose their virginity aged 13 - 16.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
1 Feb 2009 #42
dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-475669/Sun-sea-sex-bitter-regrets--middle-class-girls-holiday-secrets.html

British girls' holidays

independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-who-travel-for-sex-sun-sea-and-gigolos-407202.html

Female sex tourism

that enough? lol

had this problem with guys over here myself, getting angry and impatient with me, saying they are not mucking around anymore etc... i was like off you go then! :D
OP rychlik 41 | 373
1 Feb 2009 #43
I don’t agree. Personal freedom ends when somebody else’s pain begins. It's not ok to sleep with married man or woman under any circumstances. If they are both free it's another story.

Great point. People are naturally selfish sometimes. Every action you take has a consequence. But don't be surprised if your life turns to hell afterwards.

Anyways, I'm glad that people can discuss this topic in a mature fashion.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535
1 Feb 2009 #44
Really ridiculous that Polish girls are labelled like this in here. There are the way much many more wonderful Polish girls who work hard for a living... And if they find themselves suited with a non-white boyfriend, why so much ignorance and animosity towards them? ----------I feel that this is the thoughts of the stone age.

Its so unmanly to label the girl a slut just because she loves someone else and not you. I feel that this thread was not started by someone concerned about the accused promiscuosity of Polish females....but a deeper wound created by one who probably went off happily with some other human of a different skin tone.

This thread does not do justice to:

1. The white men who are not just white...but more important men, and even more importantly good human beings.

2. The Polish woman's integrity

3. The non-white man's respect and integrity.

At the end of the day... its a thread where I guess I posted too many...

Go ahead, criticize...but its living miserable and primitive to think the way most people here are involved in thinking.
OP rychlik 41 | 373
1 Feb 2009 #45
but a deeper wound created by one who probably went off happily with some other human of a different skin tone

You think too much. In Toronto I've been heard this "promiscuous" claim from Chinese and Middle Eastern guys. Sue me for wanting some answers. Like I said, Polish chicks seem like relationship types to me personally (positive trait). So you can imagine my surprise when I hear the "sl*t" claims. Who knows, maybe they give themselves up to exotic guys faster- I dunno. Maybe this is how it starts. If this is true than that would be a shame. A lot of the Eastern Euro chicks are seen as "easy" actually- Russians and Czechs too. Ain't that interesting? I hear the prn biz is huge in Prague- the biggest in Europe.

The point is that these stereotypes begin somewhere and if these girls wanna live up to that than so be it. But don't cry about it later.
Patrycja19 63 | 2,700
1 Feb 2009 #46
Really ridiculous that Polish girls are labelled like this in here.

I agree. but people will form their own opinions of the people they meet in their '
life, this is media, we all know truth.. its not limited to just polish.
as I said before , the one they have to face is the person they look at in the mirror
each day.

hopefully the men who visit this site will not believe that all Polish women are like this
and still continue to be gentlemen when in the presence of a lady whether they are
out or at a friends and not get the wrong idea and act upon it in the wrong way over
something someone said or thought and form their own opinion.
childwithin 8 | 136
1 Feb 2009 #47
gentlemen

lady

so far i havn't seen any people like that here, there's a lot of generalizing and labelling of other people going on here, not much class, experience, dedication, real knowledge how things work etc, however i don't want to condemn anyone here, even though some people insulted me here because they have a label for me in their little minds

you should keep posting whatever think seems right for you, it is interesting to know how other people think, it is peculiar
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535
1 Feb 2009 #48
claim from Chinese and Middle Eastern guys

I know some Chinese and I think they have a great respect for themselves, and they really are wonderful people.

I will be honest that I did not mix with middle-eastern guys that much....but I have some of the most wonderful and dignified Indian and Bangladeshi friends in Poland, and married to some of my most Polish friends. Even my friends in other European countries are living such wonderful lives. Through I know that their (indian, bangladeshi, srilanka..etc) culture is far different from that of the Middle-eastern... but still I think that these kind of accusations are products of an impotent attitude towards life.

Why do you need to behave in this frail and weak manner? There are middle eastern people who are good. And there are WHITE MALES throughout the world who behave much much more irresponsible and boast on their most creepy and disrespectful acts. They make innocent people look like a slut because their EGO was attacked... often only because a girl they FANTASIZED to get on bed went with a gentleman (and a coincidence that he was from ANOTHER RACE).

Russians and Czechs too. Ain't that interesting? I hear the pûrn biz is huge in Prague- the biggest in Europe.

First: Most pûrn Industries are run by WHITE MEN. Now calling white men WHORE KEEPERS... you would be accusing ME, YOURSELF and ALL the RESPECTFUL White men of this crime? perhaps no... because you are WHITE yourself!!

Russian women are sought by American and West European OLD WHITE MEN generally. Paying prices for them....labelling them as catalogue girls. And its undeniable rychlik.

Women of Czech are much much respectable...just like the respectable women of Russia. And actually I respect their courage, how they take that great stride towards compassion and love. How the powerful act of respect by these women have made Europe seem like a compassionate nation. If it was not for these women who break the fists of hate and ego and blind accusations... Europe would look like a country full of low mentalities and fanatics.

stereotypes begin somewhere and if these girls wanna live up to that than so be it.

These stereotypes begin in the minds of the impotent man. A man who lost the image of manhood in himself. Frail, weak, lost, feeling impotent and unmoved in his decaying approach to life... the last this he have is his EGO which he tries to protect by any means. To do this he cries and shouts and becomes violent....goes to the extent to put TAR on his own kind...the very women one of whom was his own mother.

The white men who are MEN and HUMANs...when read this...know how unwanted and shameful these activities are. White men are not all of this lowly kind rychlik. We DO NOT stand between lovers...and dont stop our daughters and sisters and friends to do something which is a human greatness. To Love... To Marry... To have a family, with someone they feel happy/joy/energised to be with. Its not our work to spread rumours on the basis of some unfortunate and unhealthy activities by UNHEALTHY men and women (Polish, middleeastern... martian or any other thing you can think of).

But don't cry about it later.

huh...

will not believe that all Polish women are like

Like what Patty?

Sis... thats why I tell you, comes visit UK, Poland once. Then u'll know what actually goes around in here.

If some Polish girl is seen sitting with a boy ... incidentally of some other race... she is going to be labelled as a slut by a sick headed man of this kind. Even attacked verbally...accused. Why she must feel that she just must not listen to her heart, otherwise these wolves will get her? Why in her mind the white men must be a fatal tribe who are out to control her life?

There are white men in UK and Poland who are much better than these ones. They have a better outlook to life. The problem is...those who are good mind their own business...and some of the EGOIST have it as their business to be wolves....CALL ME A WOLF SLAYER :D... but I aint lettin them go empty handed...
Patrycja19 63 | 2,700
2 Feb 2009 #49
CALL ME A WOLF SLAYER :D...

k :) WOlf Slayer!! grrrrrrrrrr..

its nice to see this, but you cant protect the whole population, even though I
know you try :)

If some Polish girl is seen sitting with a boy ... incidentally of some other race... she is going to be labelled as a slut by a sick headed man of this kind. Even attacked verbally...

well, I dont know about that, if its true, someone needs to do some heavy cleaning
up in the UK..I believe a select few who think its ok to verbally abuse dont just limit
it to polish women though, they prob do it all the time because they are jerks
and because they think its cool to treat women badly or maybe have been brought up
in that type of environment, but dont worry lodz, I think theres enough Wolf Slayers
out there ( just like you) who dont take this crap when they are with their lady and
of course karma has its revenge!!

;)
Frania32 - | 3
2 Feb 2009 #50
A Hoe is a Hoe, regardless of her nationality. At least the Polish girls have teeth.
Cardno85 31 | 976
2 Feb 2009 #51
I have actually found girls in Poland, and Polish girls I have worked with in the UK to be quite conservative. But then I am comparing them to the orange hordes that parade themselves in miniscule, ill-fitting clothes every saturday night in Glasgow so I have a tainted view.
LAGirl 9 | 496
3 Feb 2009 #52
Well most women are not slutty but I know a few slutty women here in the states I think might be more virgins in Poland then here my opinion.
southern 75 | 7,096
4 Feb 2009 #53
POLISH WOMEN ARE PROMISCUOUS?

Yes.Basically they want to make good impression and have children soon,that is why.
I am bored to analyze.
fred_chopin
4 Feb 2009 #54
I think French women are kinky.
k98_man
15 Feb 2009 #55
I know two Polish girls. One was born in Poland, but has lived in the US for most of her life and is not promiscuous at all - in fact almost the opposite of it.

The other lives in Switzerland and dresses EXTREMELY promiscuously, but I know her quite well and her acts/way she speaks and thinks are not promiscuous in nature.

I don't think you can say an entire race of women are or are not promiscuous; it's just a generalization that is not very logical. In general you could say they (as well as the rest of the west) are a bit more liberal, though. Maybe I'm making generalizations too....
Arien 3 | 721
15 Feb 2009 #56
men always have been worse sluts than women but for a guy having many girls - white or not - is something to be proud of. a woman should be ashamed and called names.

So far, I've had one girlfriend. I never called anyone names before, but I will admit I started cussing them down for no good reason because they started cussing me down for no good reason. (Rumors blah blah..)

We're all different people, some guys and girls just aren't the relationship type. So what? If we could for once and for all just be honest about that without getting ourselves stoned to death or judged by our environment then that would save us all a lot of cheating, hurting and lying..

I would be proud if I ever found a girl who just really does love me for being me, and honestly, I wouldn't care if she was an ex-prostitute or a former nun.. It's all about today, and well, people change.

:)
jcharles106 - | 4
15 Feb 2009 #57
Are Polish girls more Promiscuous than Lithuanian girls...yes or no??? Opinions =))
kitkat1963 - | 17
15 Feb 2009 #58
For what it's worth, here is my 2 penceworth. I don't think Polish girls are any more promiscuous than any other nationality. There are sluts in ANY country, just as there are proper, decent and well brought up young ladies. Just because a girl dresses in micro miniskirts and skimpy tops, that doesn't make her a whore, any more so than a lady who dresses in a business suit as a power hungry go-getter.
k98_man
15 Feb 2009 #59
kitkat, I agree. That is exactly how my lady friend is. Dresses in micro miniskirts and skimpy tops, but is not overally interested in sex as one might think at first glance. It's a bit disturbing for guys to see this (it looks good and we want it, but can't have it) so I think that is why you get the rude response to it.
santosh - | 11
15 Feb 2009 #60
Most Polish women are NOT promiscous. They dont subscribe to the formula" take me out on 3 dates,3 dinners,give me flowers,I will sleep with you afterwards". They are straightforward women who if they like what they see will open their hearts. They hate hypocrisy,materialism and are very down to earth and romantic. They go the extra mile to ensure their men are happy. If anyone have a problem that they go for non white men why not agree that most non polish women dont have the balls to take on society by going for men they like rather than men who they find will be good socially to be with. I agree that there are bad apples too but the frequency of bad apples in the polish basket is far less than in the asian/british basket.

conflict of interest-Non White non polish man (PS I have no intention of writing what I beleieve in order to hook up with some polish women who happens to read this post. I write this as I believe it to be true).


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