a girl dresses in micro miniskirts and skimpy tops, that doesn't make her a whore, any more so than a lady who dresses in a business suit as a power hungry go-getter
I second that. Though we could use less of both of theese. It's terrible to see girls on industrial fairies like in Poznan whoe wear sexual offensive clothing to attact customers. But I know many girls most of you would give your left hand for them, but they won't even give you a look. It's not that we lack cultural aware female beeings within our female stock. But we have to envision that many of theese girls were dating native Poles who earned 1.33 € an hour before... With raising living standards these problems will disapear. In like 20-30 years all Polish poeple will be mongroels like in any western/scandinavian/mediteran country - thank you zognwo.
Just because a girl dresses in micro miniskirts and skimpy tops, that doesn't make her a whore
i can agree with that, i used to dress a bit more provocatively when i was younger (and single) but i also tried to keep it decent and cute, people knew what i was like so just because i wore a mini skirt or some skimpy top didn't make them judge me. my sister is the same, she likes to show off her body but seriously, who can blame her, she's a very pretty girl (she takes from her big sis ha ha). a woman just wants to show what she's got every now and again, be it just for her lover or for everyone else, makes you feel good if you get guys stopping on the street to admire the view and other girls giving you evil looks lol. but there is always a line between being a bit provocative and basically screaming for attention and sex, which in a way is pathetic because if one is attractive and a nice person they don't need to expose themselves for people to notice and appreciate them, or be jealous of them. i tend to dress up more rather than dress down, i even tend to overdress sometimes but it's a woman's priviledge lol, we can dress pretty and noone will think we're gay or something ha ha...
Having sex with someone you like or with someone you find attractive doesn't make you a slut. It does make you a human being with desires, feelings and emotions.
Yes, but....a woman might like hundreds of people and be attracted to hundreds more. Now technically the term "slut" wouldn't apply, I'd agree (considering payment is not being given), but even if they knew/liked everyone that they sleep with, it's still "sleeping around" quite a bit.
That's not really relevant though as this thread is discussing how promiscuous Polish girls are...which really isnt much of a relevant question either because it's a generalization that is rather absurd. Either way...
You won't hear me deny that it's sleeping around, but if there is no lying and cheating involved, and it's kept between adults who know of the consequences then I can't see anything wrong with that?
I sometimes watch her vlogs, I don't always agree with her, but she's really honest about herself, her vieuws and her opinions, which make her vlogs interesting and useful in terms of trying to create a mutual understanding. So if you do have some time, you should really watch this particular vlog, and see if you still think that people like her should be qualified as sluts.
I thought it was relevant because of the generalizations which are being made here by some people. I really don't think Polish girls differ that much from any other nationality, and ofcourse the same goes for all the boys out there. We'll always be different from one another, so what should give anyone the right to discard something, or someone as being wrong just because of a different vieuw on life? Or even worse, judge someone else for having desires, emotions and feelings that all of us have?
I agree with you about the issue that you cannot say Polish women are "sluts" and I don't really see anything that wrong with sleeping around if they so desire. It's none of my business what they do (unless they bring infections into bed).
That's a big part of it. If people are sleeping with multiple partners then they should be making sure that they're safe too.
Whether women sleep with multiple partners or not is their business, some people "enjoy" it that way. However, I do think that when they broadcast it all the time that's when people start to dis-respect them as a person and the word "slut" starts to get used.
Which is what I can't understand. I mean, what exactly is the huge difference between someone who got married five times or someone who has slept with five persons that he or she liked?
I wouldn't call you a slut if you got married five times. I wouldn't call you a slut if a few of your relationships failed. I wouldn't call you a slut if you really aren't the relationship type. I wouldn't even call you a slut if you seriously feel that prostitution is the only way for you to feed your children.
Call me naïve, but I just really don't think I have the right to judge someone else, or even the life experience it takes to understand someone else who has been less fortunate than yourself.
Which is what I can't understand. I mean, what exactly is the huge difference between someone who got married five times or someone who has slept with five persons that he or she liked?
There is no difference. I wasn't saying that there is. I simply meant that whether a person has 1 sexual partner or has 50 it's their personal thing and they should keep it private to themselves.
Personally I find it degrading to listen to other females talk about how many sexual partners they've had. Sex, whether it's done with one partner or a different one each night is a private and personal thing so it should be kept to oneself.
Well I would probably opt to not call anyone a slut, period. It's just not a nice term ;)
Perhaps we're in the wrong gender pool to make any kind of decision. After all both you (Arien) and I are males...and I'm not even sure we're in an argument. I think we may agree if I'm not mistaken :P
or is it because our 'typical' Abdul and Mohammed never had a white girl (or in fact any girl) before
well this abdul has had plenty of girls before and mainly english(white) without blowing my own trumpet.i have now been seeing a polish lady for over a year and i think they are totally the opposite of english girls(women).they(polish)have style,class and are stunning.they will not just get pissed up and drop their knickers and start giving you a gobble and please before somebody says "well english dont do that,they must have been dogs that you were with".i was born in england,i am 38 yrs old and i know english like the back of my hand so dont even go there.polish women and english women worlds apart and i dont care what anybody says.
Here I have to refer one greek guy's view which perfectly summarized the issue.I once asked him his opinion about polish girls.He told me:
Polish girls are like the girls we have in village.Total village girls.How is a woman you see and she is from village?The same are the polish girls.They came here for vaccations.They were on the beach and they were standing like this(he makes a deep sit).Boobs out,asses out,deep sitting.And then,all the loser guys,the ones who could not get any greek girl even the ugliest ones,the guys whoc could not manage to score even english girls on the islands(impossible),all these guys my friend manages to hook up a polish girl.Can you believe it?They were not able to score even english girls.Total losers.But they were enough for the polish.
Could you please tell me where else you've heard that besides Canada? or was it Canada only? I have lived in Sweden, Norway, US, and a brief period in Australia, I have never heard that Polish women are promiscuous. I have heard many times, and sometimes it's true, that Polish and other east (central) European women only want a green-card and possible half of the man's savings when they divorce him but I think it shows a person's character more than anything. Some women are like that, I doubt the majority of them are.
Should you be offended? Damn right you should. You have a sister and I have a sister. I can tell you that would I ever hear anything like that from someone in my presence I'd get really mad. I'm not a violent person and there wouldn't be any physical violence of course but I'd definitely want to get the person to explain himself/herself. By the way, I'd act the same way if it was about an American or a Chinese woman.
Isn't it amazing that when a woman (I'm a guy) dates a bunch of guys she becomes a slut, w-h-o-re, loose, you name it. When I or any of my friends do the same we becomes studs, ladies-men, etc. Unfortunately there's a double standard and it's too bad.
Not sure if it'll ever be totally equal between the sexes but from what I've noticed women are tough on other women, guys seldom care. I do think change starts from the bottom up so it is up to us, usually guys to defend the ladies when stupid BS is being said about them.
If she "sleeps around" - well, it's her business and eventually she'll learn that it won't make her a happier person, in fact usually it's the other way around but it's up to her to figure that out.
You said you have a sister but didn't mention your gender, I'm assuming you're a guy, correct?
Next time you hear something like that - get mad and do something about it - that's what being a man is all about.
Just my 1/2 penny which equals 1/4 of a penny in Obama's world.
Just let a guy be bitter if he is. It'll wear off eventually...
I agree with you but at the same token I don't like when women or men who'd just broken up with their latest flame immediately start dating a new person and "rub it in" without any consideration whatsoever for their old love. I think that's rude - no reason to be hurting the ex just to be a jerk. Let the ex heal first or at least keep your new relationship as private as possible for a while.
I have to admit I did something like that in the past and it wasn't until several years later that I was told how "ruthless" she thought I was after the break up. I honestly had no idea, didn't even know she cared but I guess she did. The thing is she was really nice and kind to me so I don't know why I was such a jerk. Anyways, my point is when love ends there's no reason to be ruthless - the 'dumped' person is hurting bad enough.
I don't know about Polish girls, but can surely tell you about the last 3 relationships I had with Bulgarian girls ( 4 years, 4 years, 6 years) ended the same way - she jumped in his bed, even before we split, asking kindly: "can we still be friends?" :)
Greek men who studied in Bulgaria told me they ate very well.I mean gorgeous bulgarian girls.But they are not so aryan and white like polish,however they look good.
