Come on, when you read stories like "We knew each other for 3 weeks and I gave up my job to move to her city or country to be together, but she dumped me after 1 week.
You shouldn't mix up teenage boys with grown up men :)
the girl should know other girls may ask him questions
Do you really think a girl cares about that? Heck no, they don't! They only care about that great new guy they've met and you have to move off the stage as soon as pssbl. If you're nice, you will get a front row seat, and if you behave like any normal guy would do, you get kicked out of the theatre for good. Why? Because they want to have their way and when they decide it's time for you to move, you will move. And don't complain about it.
So it's not really fair the guy has to guess
No it isn't, but that's the way it works. And since women always get away with this (it's basically an interpersonal crime, only punished in very odd cases and when a girl gets punished for her "crimes" the whole world thinks it's ridiculous, but I don't care, some girl who ***** me over, will get ****** over: I don't do that to anybody that way, nobody will do that to me. It's not sick, it's just fair.), they will keep doing it. And being a man, you're always on the losing side of things, because there will be always idiot men who will take sides with her. Why? Simply, because she is a woman and they are hoping to have a chance with her. It's that simple. With my last chickadee everybody was saying: "how can you do this? She's a girl, frail and all." Yeah, so what? Does it make things less bad then? She wasn't so frail when she ****** me over and since she is a grown up, she will have to learn that her actions can and will have consequences, just like my actions can and will have consequences. Are women little kids who do stuff out of childishness? Heck no, they are grown ups, they know exactly what they're doing. So they don't have to come up with silly and stupid excuses. If they have found somebody else, they should simply say it instead of letting the man wonder for a long time what the hell went wrong.
M-G (doesn't hate women, he just thinks what's fair's fair; simple like that)