My recent experience with a Polish girl.

I know that kind of personalities. That kind of persons should be avoided!

They cause a lot of problems for both themselves and others.

Then be a man and bin your SIM card, like I did when my ex sent me a text a month after I dumped her!

Difference with you though is that i tried to be with her and she rejected it, so we werent together, i never dumped her

You both might be right tho, to avoid someone like that

awww, she probably thinks about you every night before she goes to sleep. She has still saved those old messages on her phone, and wants to be friends only so she could have gotten to know you better before making that intimate romantic aesthetic warm kiss that means so much to that lonely Polish girl. Now a tear falls everytime your innocent face jots her memory; who will be there to catch it in all it's warmth before it hits the stone cold floor below. Stone cold like her heart and soul from the lonliness burdened by a lost lover to never again be seen.

that's a bit deep lol

If that girl keeps changing her mind then help her out and choose for her - stop replying to her and diss her. I bet it will make her mad because how dare you not miss her?! She knows she's got you under her spell and will try and contact you every now and again when she's bored. That's all it is, she doesn't wanna be friends, she doesn't wanna be lovers, she wants your attention when nobody else gives a damn about her and she honestly doesn't care about your feelings and what you want. Cut her off, plenty of nice women around, that one is just a time waster.

Think on the bright side though, someone ELSE got to shag her and you did NOT.

Oh wait.

Btw its your own fault, women have a sixth sense, if you're a doormat they'll treat you like one.

I don't think thats the case sokrates, and you could be right Justysia, I'm not going to chase anymore and consider if I want something to do with her. I do have other possibilities.

Yes, probably sometimes in a sick & twisted way unfortunately, lol.

We are, just listen to uncle Ruda and auntie Justy, you know it makes sense ;)

Barr_2009


Don't ever trust these two!

:)

>^..^<

M-G (don't say I didn't warn you if you follow their advise)

Polish girls:
Where are you from?
What is your name?You are handsome.
Will you marry me?
-Of course

Ukr girls.
Where are you from?
What is your name?
Will you fck me?

-Of course.

You don't say that to a girl. You'd say that to a guy. To a girl you would say: "you're gorgeous" or "pretty" or "beautiful". Brazilian girls fit the description of Ukrainian girls too.

>^..^<

M-G (off to bed - tired)

Women are women no matter where they are from.

There are many fish in the sea. Throw that one back and start fishing again.

Man Logic does not equal woman logic.

Oi you, I've probably spent more time dating Polish women than most of the guys on here added together; to give advice on these matters, one requires experience ;)

Simple answer Barr. As soon as she was sure you were not rich enough she broke. So simple. It has nothing to do friendship, sex attraction, etc. Just imagine if you had some good €€€. She'd be glued to you whatever you did. If you are still interested in her, assuming she is a newbie thing to streets, don't stop, follow her for months, maybe years. She may change her mind about money and men. It may be late if you leave her alone. You should be police of her. She may complain about stalking, etc. But, don't mind. You may find yourself in prison either. If she doesnt visit you, then, you can be sure you are not interested by her.

Funny funny, i wondered whether to mention about the money coming my way ;)

Problem is in women. They dont see the reality of men with big wallets. I am not sure who to pity. The both.

Yeh, wouldnt want a woman in such a false way. Some might look for money, all i want is a woman, poor or not, who is able to communicate, not that easy to find!

Problem arises when there is money between woman and man. Happiness never happens there. Money kills communication on and off bed.

Yeah, i've realised i'd prefer to be with someone i am happy with rather than someone with money.

I realized this, on the other hand, money/capital should be given to women more so that power difference can be balanced till equilibrium. Then, they won't think money and we men won't think money in our love/sex relations. Lets name it. Socialist Love!

I paid so often seeing this girl recently, saying she will pay more now as friends. Thing is, she tried to even tell me she only wanted to be friends since we met, despite letting me continue to pay. That way i paid for her, and she could take a swipe at my self esteem too. I smelt some bull sh1t in the air.

I understand. I've just sit and observed what they have been doing. Almost all of them were trying to be close to boys/men with better financial stiuations. I've hated girls throughout my life because of this. Later, I have questioned this a lot. And, I realized that the real problem aren't women, but, we men. Females are after money? Yes. So what? We men too are same. But, due to power difference, we men own money/capital more (90% of capitals in world are owned by men. Not strange?) and this makes not only females unhappy, but also us. We men just dont realize what we are doing. Lets give them capitals. Really. (i am not a feminist or something like that. Just searching happiness and as we agree it is rare to find, but, under these conditions.)

I think the problem lays in how often the women have the upperhand, more choice, so of course they might get greedy seeing if they can find something better. Us men chase them, thats the problem. If they chased us, we would also look to find better, its human nature.

What "better" means?

If capital related, my offer above (share the wealth with women) will eliminate discussion about better. This money thing is most important thing as it is about life.

If about physical appearence (beauty/handsome), then, the nature will balance it again. Just look at showbiz girls. Eye catchers? Maybe. But, for me, they are eye shutters. So, be with them, I'll love some others. Balance.

So, who will chase who?, if balance, with criteria "better" meaningless.

Just better in every way, it seems impossible to change nature. It doesnt matter all about stunning looks, depends on how a girl makes me feel.

The best thing to do when you first meet a girl/guy on a date, is close your eyes and speak to them, get to know them first before you judge them by their looks. I wish i had known this in my earlier years!!!

looking good is ok when your humping it but apart from that whats the value in it??? the other 80% of time spent with your partner its about whats in the head, isn't it?? maybe i'm wrong!!

Nature? Which nature? "Better" is based on some criteria by some humans in history.
This nature isn't my nature. I too am interested in girls how they make me feel. But, they are very rare and this problem of rarity is again us men. Paradox, yes. I think we men need to change rather than expecting them to change first. Why so difficult to share the wealth in the world with them. (I have expected females too have to fight for that, but, strangely they have left me alone. Fear?)

They're complicated creatures, i see what you mean not look at them and get to know them. I got feelings for a girl who is really cute but now i know her better, isnt quite as perfect as i thought, so now finding that hurts.

tornado2007 - its about whats in the head, isn't it??

whats in the head of a female? I dont know as i dont live in this nature. But, I guess the ultimate thing in their minds is 1001 nights. In other words, 1 good a night that will worth of 1000 bad a night.