My recent experience with a Polish girl.

Buy her some strawberries.

So you expected sympathy and for us to tell you, "hey man, it is not you, it is POLISH WOMEN, they are evil!".

Tough.

changing?? yeah thats the hurting truth about most Polish girls.If u dont know them know them from now.They do change.U can meet a polish girl and spend a good time with her and she can give u her contacts even without asking her but the next 2/3 days u call/text her to propose a next meeting she will not pick up.Dont take things so seriously in premature stages of a relationship with a polish girl.Certainly she might hurt you.

Maybe that black guy is confusing her.I hope ur matured enough to know women.They say when a woman is fed up there is nothing u can do about.So find ur way out immediately even if she is owing you money just forget.Be strong and leave her alone.

ur sayin its ok to take things seriuosly wen at tht stage wen shes not polish???

I simply wanted to discuss the mentality and find out more, not just say they are evil or something, ha. I really don't think in this way. I just see some similarities with them. Maybe coincidence

tell us the similarities you see with Polish women Vr's other women.
perhaps you are right, perhaps only Polish women change their mind.

Well that's well over, the girl I was with last year, it doesn't matter anymore. That girl is pregnant now to the black guy, may have given birth actually, think he grew up in the US. They'll probably be off to the US soon I bet. Still, I don't regret all that, as she was an incredibly beautiful girl, and when it was good, it was really really good :)

All chicks can do the above but what strikes me is that you were dating for a few months and then she dumped you. Thats does seem a tad strange, i suspect foul play.

You must have done something or did not do something or kept doing something she didnt care for. Only you know.

Tell us more specifics and we can deduce a conclusion.

Well, I see differences. I dated a German girl before, English, obviously. The only girl to completely ignore me after a relationship was the Polish one.

But you never went out with her, you just saw her.

I am still confused as to who you did which with what to?
there were two girls, one you dated for months but you were never going out with and the other you were going out with until you became unemployed and hung around her, while she wanted to be with the guys she was living with and ended up with a black fella.

Am I getting this right at all?

Sh1t.


I will tell you an example.I had two months since I had last seen a polish girl.Two weeks ago I saw her in the train with a young boy and told her to call me.Yesterday at afternoon I sent her sms and she came with her cousine.After 20 minutes in the restaurant we went to my home and there her cousin started dancing and after a while we were in the bed.

Good experience.

During all this the phone of the cousine ringed constantly as she spoke with several boys telling them she is home of her cousine.
We had appointment for today,they did not appear,my gf has her phone closed.Should I worry?NOOOO.

I find it insane that you made so many sacrifices for her.Polish girls have lots of bfs and guys they have sex with who are not their bfs.I don't care too much about this since next weekend I will call another polish girl or a czech girl,who knows,this is the circle.

Well we were dating, but we never did anything more than kiss. I didn't do anything wrong. Simply she changed her mind, the problem for me was trying to understand it and talk to her about it, was almost impossible. But don't get me wrong, she's a sweet girl, I want to be friends with her if nothing else.


haha, erm, some of it is right but. The girl I was in a relationship with was the one that totally ignored me. I only became unemployed because I moved to the other end of the country to be with her, thinking I could work and live with her, but it didn't happen.

And you don't really want to be firends with her, it is the bird that you dated, kissed and she changed her mind about you, that you want to be friends with, right?

And these two experiences has made you come on here.
So, do you think it is a Polish thing?

How old are you?


I am.

Without sifting through the thread are you ethnic English Barr?

What do polish girls do with minorities is beyond my comprehension.Here in Greece I never ever see a polish girl with a paki or a Black(only exceptions those coming from the UK).My impression is that they try to exploit the benefits UK system has given to minorities.(for example here no paki or black is a public servant etc).

Barr fight for her! Polish women like if you follow them around, dont be obnoxious about it, make sure she knows you're following her around, if she comes up to your car drive away, do some pictures of her in everyday situations and send them with bloodied scissors and a card "together forever".

You could try beating her up, women are into strong men, if she notices you're not tired with kicking her arse she might fall for you.


Got dignity?

I just want to be friends with the girl i saw recently yes, not the one I was in the serious relationship with. I'm trying to understand if there is a common link regarding the 'ignoring', regarding the mind-changing. I'm not saying there is, I'm exploring the possibility. I'm not wanting to make generalisations or anything like that. I just want to discuss.

What on earth for?

Done is done my friend!

My ethnic background is a mix of English and Irish :)

Irish, huh, so there is some hope for ya after all!

Because I like her, I'd like to see her as a friend. maybe it would work, maybe not.

Got dignity no.2 ?


Yes you got boring and she dumped you, apparently you had a large dick or something that got her interested but when she got to know you she decided its not enough, thats not rocket science.


Because i'd like to f*ck with her but she doesnt want me but maybe if she lets me hang around and see's what a nice guy i am i'll get some eventually.

Fixed that for you.

Also women are never into nice guys and you're as nice as a dope can get, good guys yes, smart guys yes but never into nice guys, grow some dignity and take a hike.

Yeah my mother's Irish, she's from Belfast

Now im confused, fcuk this im outta here, ill stick with my original - buy her some strawberries.

haha, nevermind, got to read my first few posts. thanks for advice.

It may be a little difficult to stay friends, with someone you've seen naked before and visa versa.

You probably should just try to move on now.

I've confused everyone with combining two stories in one haven't I, haha. Well that girl that I did see naked, etc ;) ;) we don't talk at all, and we won't be friends. The girl that I dated, but never had anything serious with, and unfortunately never saw naked, I want to be friends with her.

Im even more confused now. You want to be friends with the one that you never saw naked??

That may be to your advantage. With that info stated, it should be much easier for you to get over her now.

Well, it should mean that it's possible to be friends then