Are all Polish guys like this

I met a really cute Polish guy who always blushes when he looks at me but he never says hello. He is really good looking, blond, green eyes, tall and thin, his hairstyle is also cute, he has these spiked up hair. The main thing about him is that is never talks to me or when he has to answer back to me he turns red and his eyes shine. He also smiles at me as soon as he sees me. Sometimes even if he's really tiredhe findsthe strength to smile at me. I think he is a sort of prince charming. But I don't understand why he acts like this with me because I am not so good looking. I always dream about him. Once I looked in his eyes while he was working and he turned at me and blushed and his eyes had a twinkle in them. His shyness and beauty, the fact that he's polite and kind make him even more beautiful. One day while he was looking at me his friend hit him behind the head. He pretended he didn't see me and then turned again at me. Everyday we have such things. I don't know what I should do with him. He seems to be unable to say hello to me. Any advice?

Just make your move. Women know how to make a move without being obvious about it. And the guy will think that he picked you. Yes, most of us are such fools :-)

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Yes, it happened to me decades ago when I was in high school. She called and said: I am calling to tell you that you are inviting me to the cinema. I liked it a lot.

@pawian


What I meant was sending signals to initiate the action on the man's side. Not being 'womanhandled' by your future wife :-)

I knew exactly what you meant. And that was exactly what happened - she sent a signal which initiated the action - I invited her to the cinema and we went out for 6 months.

In that case they must be either blind or extremely self-oriented. The rules of the game are perfectly know to both sexes and if the female makes a first move she does it the such a subtle way that she (and he as well) will not feel embarassed if her advance is turned down. The male, on the other hand, making the first move is prepared to being rejected and instead of feeling embarassed, he (merrily) moves on to his next "prey".

It is obvious that you should make the first move. To reduce the sexual fascination and tension that is between you and him, during that first verbal contact with such a shy person you should do it in a most neutral way. Start a conversation with him imagining you were addressing a female, for example, you may ask him if he speaks English or if he does, ask him how long he has been learning the language. Then you may ask him about something else (but for goodness sake, don't ask him if he has a girl-friend). If I were you, I would not let this first conversation flow for too long. Let things develop rather slowly and they will surely take their own, desirable course for both of you. Remember: Rome wasn't built in a day.

Try to perform a sweaty T-shirt test on both of you. Get each other`s used T-shirt and smell them.. Then you will know if you are destined for each other - a pleasant reaction of your sense of smell will mean you can become partners.

I carried this test once and today we have been happily married for nearly 30 years.

I would probably start by saying hello when passing. If they work together she may find work related reason to start a conversation

That's true. It's incredible how telling and decisive this factor can be. I think Nature made it so which means the genetic compliance isn't good within a couple if they don't like each other's smell.

But how to make him give you his used T-shirt if doesn't dare to say hello to you?

Exactly. And then we wonder why so many people can`t put up with their partner after some time and get a divorce - they simply didn`t carry out the sweaty T-shirt test at the very beginning. A huge mistake.

It would be enough if they did not use cosmetics in excessive quantities to present themselves as more "sexually attracive".

Youre asking advise from a bunch of old guys..... You might want to try cosmo or teen vogue website, just saying.


I didnt know you were a PUA as well? It must be those muttonchops that drives all the women nuts! lol

The amazing thing about this thread is the stupid question in its title and the posts that actually attempt to answer it with one or two profoundly-looking sentences.

So, here is my answer and an attempt at sanity: No.


Much better...

Not really. Do Cosmo (do they still publish it? - I remember reading it long ago - they had wonderful articles about women) or Vogue deal with Polish men? I doubt it.


You constantly insert those abbreviations which are lost one me: STD, PUA. I don`t have time to check all of them.

How do you know, if you are:
a) not Polish, or
b) not a woman, or
c) not a gay?

Yes, but Novi can be interested in Polish males and know a lot about them just out of pure curiosity, he doesn`t need to be gay.

There is no such thing as "Polish man". It's a generalization that leads nowhere. It may be of interest to sociologists and statisticians but not to a person looking for a mate.

Based on statistics, I should have never married my wife. I am glad I didn't read the statistics.


Really. Joker's advice was to read a publication that is like - let's see - a billion times better than a bunch of guys on an obscure forum like this one.

Of course there is. Take an average Am male and make him drink a bottle of whisky/vodka in a few gulps - he will die instantly. While a Pole won`t! He will ask for another bottle!

Sorry for proving your wrong but you shouldn`t mess with Polish males.


It is not obscure. It has glorious history! Like Poland!


Did you smell her T-shirt or another piece of garment?

Aemilia, run!

He just sounds shy. Best to strike up a conversation and take it from there.

And grab his T-shirt at once!


We know what type you mean:

A typical Polish male: beautiful, polite, kind

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Why, interested in Polish males and not gay? Hahaha, I wonder what Johnny Reb will tell about this.
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@Joker @Новичок (Novichok)
You are not that clever and witty, aren't you? But you've been trying to pass as such on this forum for years ...

The true story behind Aemelia is this. She met a very good-looking boy whom she felt very attracted to. But the boy didn't take any notice of her. She dreamt he would at least say hello to her one day, but he wouldn't. So she developed an illusion that he did not because he was very shy, too shy to say hello to her. In this illusion the boy constantly watches her and is presented as equally attracted to her even if she is "not so good-looking". Notice this statement of hers. It in she reveals the truth about their relationship in real. The boy is beyond her reach. To release her sorrow and unhapinness with the situation she creates this illusion in which the boy has been attributed many features of shyness that are so unrealistic and exagerated that they must clearly be fake. Finally, in an attempt to add some rationale to her story, she entitles it "Are all Polish guys like this?".

This is a sad story, but a good thing in it is that she has decided to share her illusion about the boy whom she is infatuated with with other people. It is much better than if she kept it only to herself. It may help her to get rid of an illusion which at her age is normal and passing.

I think she will never return to post a comment on all the "findings" people gave her, but I'm sure she will read all our comments on the forum.

And the truth is that he had already obtained her sweaty piece of garment, be it a T-shirt or socks and smelled them with negative results. Now he knows they are not destined for each other. He can` t tell it to her, though, for obvious reasons - other guys at his workplace would ridicule his testing.


She will. In another thread, under another nickname, with another story. :):) Don`t lose hope.


No, he won`t be jealous.

Like this one:


or this:


or this:


or this:


Yes, Z, you are not that very clever.


Every forum has its Nostradamus.

This thread is becoming a new champion on PFs.

Which such an amount of support and advice Amelia and her prince charming will consume their relationship in no time :-)

She'd probably rather consummate it than consume it, however frankly both are possible.

He just sounds shy.

Aemilia, they are hearing voices. So, my last warning...Run, baby, run...

Test `em all! Only thorough testing will contain a rising divorce rate.

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