ok ive just joined this site and ive seen lots of men talking about polish women and what they are like , now, not to generalize too much but heres the facts:
im an American born polish guy ,very Polish, speak read etc, all of it from a big Polish family,
i dated lots of women from all kinds of backgrounds, Italian, French, americans with varied backgrounds, i grew up watching the American people saying 50%of all marriages end in divorce etc. etc.. so i figured when it was time to settle down id get a polish gal, they seemed to have a much smaller divorce rate, ive know many who seemed to last ,
so at 39 i found one , cute ,blonde , i figured id take the plunge,i bought the line " you gotta marry a nice polish girl , youll be happy "
i also have a sibling who very aptly came up with the name i put up on this post , apparently he knew better than i,
he warned me,,, the **********, the materialistic-ness, the hunger for money, the expectations, of always expecting you to never enjoy your life, the arguing,how you dont work hardenuff and how everything always seemed to lead back to the man being the problem,,the lack of intimacy.etc. etc.
Aww cmon i figured,, not mine, shes cool ,a bit tempered , but shes ok ......B.S. !!!
rule number one :
everyone is always trying to be the perfect person in the beginning of any relationship< i was in a few i shoulda known this more clearley>
after the bloom is off the rose the real person deep inside always comes out
she is a royal pain in the ass, moody. walks around with a nasty F**N attitude,
listen man, i know what your thinkin, " all women can be moody and a pain in the ass, esp come menstrual time" yeah yeah yeah i KNOW THIS WE ALL DO BUT,,,
mines is a god dam jekyl and hyde, it goes form moody to down right nasty !
in the beginning shed cover it up with quietness and laying down, but now that shes got me , it all hangs out just a nsasy nasty *****
my sibling was right on !!!
Listen , guys, im telling you this out of experience,
polish gals, maybe not all,, but a HUGE , OVERWHELMING PERCENTAGE are a super duper pain in the ass,they may be cute, but trust me you WILL ruin your life with them,, the ones ive seen that last the men are always miserable, some just bow down and become dick-less and just hang on,,
and in case your wondering,. what kinda guy am i ? im a witty laid back, enjoy life while it lasts kinda guy,,im the one whos always saying.. relax,, itll be ok,, dont worry so much,, etc etc.. so guys heres the FACTS polish gals are:
ALWAYS seeking to impress other polish people.
they always seek control of the finances
they have NO sense of humor,
always putting on a face of being proper and prim
they spread rumor and innuendo that woulda made joseph goebbels proud
if you let them they will work you like a dam mule
they are completely wound up about life and you will NOT enjoy your life with them
if your american born like me youll find that after the bloom falls off, youll be stuck with a person that you have NOTHING in common with be it sports music, whatever,,
the sex will dry up like you cant believe
and if you have a bit of a wild streak in you and are adventurous in your intamicy and like to keep it fresh and hot,,
FUGGETABOUT IT !!!
life is meant to be a a constant journey of misery, hard work, arguing, and the collection of material wealth,
trust me guys, in time youll find out im right about what im saying
i kid you not,
the other men who are posting this wisdom are not blowing smoke up your azz
yeah they are cute,
yeah those long leggs look good
the blonde cute face,, yeah i know,, i know,,,
hey if you get a rare one that sweet and loves life ,, good for you,,but im warning you,,,,
dont fall for the line,
i must say, if your materialistic, dont need alot of intamicy, dont mind being told what to do and your a general overall wuss,, then they may be the right fit
i welcome anyone to write to me and ill share my in depth, first hand knowledge of this topic like i said i have a huge polish family here and over there
take this truth and go with it guys, id spare some of you the crap some of us are going thru, but in my case on day shall not
its a DISEASE , and thats the truth
its in bred,
they cant help it, maybe it genetics,
its real and its all true, just ask around
so i figured when it was time to settle down id get a polish gal,
i found one , cute ,blonde , i figured id take the pulnge,i bought the line " you gotta marry a nice polish girl , youll be happy "
So you wanted to marry this:
And you got a real woman instead! Wow! :D
youll be stuck with a person that you have NOTHING in common with be it sports music, whatever
Judging by what you've written you decided to marry a stereotype and you married a girl because she was "cute, blonde and Polish" and then you realized that you have nothing in common with her? What a surprise! Way the go, genius! :D
Oh yeah, and you're so witty too ;D
Stantheman, it seems you're paying for your stupidity now. If you're so miserable in this relationship then get a divorce. If the woman you married isn't the so called gold-digger then she's probably as unhappy in this marriage as you are. So you'll do both of you a favour.
Btw, I've found perfect T-shirts for you:
i grew up watching the american people saying 50%of all marriages end in divorce
How come if American women and men are so perfect?? :D Do they all marry Polish people from Poland? xD
I just read some of it, you got married at 40. I would say this plays some significance.
Dude just pick up a copy of "Men are from Mars women from Venus" that should straighten out most of your issues.
I actually browsed through a few pages yesterday and theres some pearls of wisdom in there. Most married couples need to take a look at that book every now and then imo.
Just out of interest - what's it like to be 39 and still have the interpersonal awareness of a 17-year-old?
I was wondering about that too ;)
I'm also curious how old is she...