I am stumped as to how I can find a guy who is move in or husband material,
Here i go with the motherly instincts.. lol
my daughter asked me the same thing not to long ago, let me just say, love isnt something you force. you have a visual of him
* the guy you want* but think about it, are you putting standards to high that you might wind up missing the right guy?
another thing to know, love is something that grows, its not like when you look at a person and suddenly you want to go to bed
with them, attraction helps, but you have to have something in common with them, other then the bedroom, sometimes the guy for
you might be right there and you havent seen him because you want prince charming.
my daughter was so in love with this boy last year, he liked her for a friend only, she cried to me saying, all I want is to be with
someone, but she finally seen this boy she fell for who he really was. his true colors came out, so she decided to just focus on her
school and friends, and 6 months later, she meets this really nice boy who likes her for who she is, he thinks she is beautiful, he is
a gentleman , he takes her out to dinners and movies and they have fun all the time, And all she had to do was stop trying so hard
to find that one guy,
hes out there, and trust me , hes looking for you, you will meet up soon, but dont analyze every guy, have fun, let them know your
a good girl and keep their paws off and focus on you and I predict you will be married in couple years.
And once your married, remember to try to not change this person, dont try to change a bad boy, let the bad boy change himself
because then it only ends in disaster, if you love someone, you dont need to change them, they should be who they are because thats
what you loved about them to begin with and when you love someone, you love everything about them and there shouldnt be anything
you want to change.