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Do you think that Polish people are rude?


jonni  16 | 2475
20 Jan 2010   #481
We say thank you for the company they have kept us

Some people in PL, though not many these days, do that - also saying thankyou when leaving office block lifts.
SeanBM  34 | 5781
20 Jan 2010   #482
Travelling is not enough.

Apparently not.

The only country that I have been to that lacked even their own form of polite behaviour was Cambodia. That was interesting though as I had a local man's knowledge of how the Khmer rouge had turned the society upside-down and they lost many aspects of their traditional behaviour. But even with that I met many friendly and welcoming Cambodians.

A huge one here in Poland is the "hand shake", when there are ten people in the place, You shake all of their hands, everyone must take off their gloves and it can not happen through a doorway.

In Lithuania there was the opposite behaviour, if you were conversing with a friend and some of that person's friends came over to say hello, they would completely blank you every time. They don't know you, so that's that.

I don't think most Poles are rude, except Harry is very rude.

Harry is not Polish.

He was born in Australia but claims no nation as his own.
bravo  4 | 63
20 Jan 2010   #483
Do say it. I don't care if its corny...

Here's my ten cents

It doesn't matter what people's manners are like. It only matters whether you like them or not. Manners are only what we use to judge people we don't like. People have used the whole manners thing as an excuse to hate since the start of time.

Its all about having the ability to tolerate differences in ettiquate (cant spell that stupid french word) There is no common courtesy except that you don't kick someone in the nuts or steal their stuff or bone their girl friend the rest is just whimsical. They are just notions. If you cant tolerate, do yourself a favor and put yourself in a place where you can
SeanBM  34 | 5781
20 Jan 2010   #484
There is no common courtesy except that you don't kick someone in the nuts or steal their stuff or bone they're girl friend the rest is just whimsical.

WHAT???
It seems I have some apologising to do...This could take a while.
bravo  4 | 63
20 Jan 2010   #485
Im Irish too BM and I have been very rude. But what can you do? I'm seriously charming so noone cares if I lack manners or not:-0
MENA2802  - | 1
2 Feb 2010   #486
They are not rude they just dont fancy answer ten times a day ''I'm good;I'm alright thank you etc just like english one

I think its more like to be honest and not a repeat rubbish all the time if its not a true
Many people asking ''how are you and to be honest I dont think anyone of them give a **** about it how r u feel in the mean time.

Its more like polish people ale going straight to the point of conversation,english loves talking!its doesnt matter is it true or fairytale they just love it!

with polish one its not this same-they like talking but many sentences you can say in one straight option than english doing.
English people are smiling all the time even they think ''you are bloody bastard!''they will not tell you that.
And polish people will gonna tell you straigh to face if it is so.
Thats the different.
peter_olsztyn  6 | 1082
3 Feb 2010   #487
And polish people will gonna tell you straigh to face if it is so.

You are kidding of course :)
Seanus  15 | 19666
3 Feb 2010   #488
He was reading from the back of a matchbox, let it go ;)
frd  7 | 1379
3 Feb 2010   #489
''how are you and to be honest I dont think anyone of them give a ****

I kind of agree with that. Many people ask me how am I, and they usually expect "Fine thanks" in return. I'm a talkative guy so after me asking about the same thing they are saying fine thank, I usually go deeper with questions and they always seem to be annoyed.. pleasentries.. barf
Mr Grunwald  33 | 2138
3 Feb 2010   #490
Polish people are rude, plain simple
"Get out of the country you ******! you come here your gonna get KUR**ED!

Get's to bring the correct information into someones brain quite fast I say.
Wish my fellow countrymen were like that :/
Ironside  50 | 12542
3 Feb 2010   #491
some are and some aren't

now why don't you all fck off, if you please:)
Seanus  15 | 19666
4 Feb 2010   #492
Plagiarism costs, Ironside ;) ;) Right enough, though. Some are and some aren't.
RonWest  3 | 120
4 Feb 2010   #493
the modern generation of people anywhere are rude and without manners.

That pretty much sums it up. I'm in complete agreement!
Nataliee  1 | 2
26 Feb 2010   #494
Iwona You sound like a miserable cow. If you dont like our culture why on earth are you here. Go back to Poland where you can be as rude as you like. Really go away.

Yes many Polish are Rude. Very Rude. especially the women.
Bzibzioh
26 Feb 2010   #495
Iwona You sound like a miserable cow.

You are not very bright, aren't you? Iwona posted 3 years ago.
krysia  23 | 3058
26 Feb 2010   #496
Iwona posted 3 years ago

Maybe Iwona the miserable cow went back to Poland?
Bzibzioh
26 Feb 2010   #497
So maybe she is not a miserable cow after all? :)
hague1cameron  - | 85
26 Feb 2010   #498
Is that why thay call you Honest George? I'm not picking a fight with you either, I was just wondering.

I think he calls himself that.
McCoy  27 | 1268
26 Feb 2010   #499
Do you think that Polish people are rude?

i think that most of westerners are just soft pus5ies
Seanus  15 | 19666
26 Feb 2010   #500
That doesn't mean that you have to be rude and boorish though, McCoy. It's not cool to be that way at all and thankfully there are many that aren't.
Exiled  2 | 424
26 Feb 2010   #501
Polish are rude but Russians are even more rude.In generaƂ what you see in Poland exists in a larger extent in Russia.
Seanus  15 | 19666
26 Feb 2010   #502
Exiled, you can't go typecasting a nation like that. What I have found from living abroad is that people act differently when they use English. For example, in Japan, they tend to be more flowing when the linguistic peculiarities of Japanese are removed. Keigo (respect language) is less required and relationships become more natural and less determined by social strata, i.e hierarchical concerns.

In Poland, sth similar applies. When they are in their workplaces, there is more wrangling and arguing, this is part and parcel of some establishments here. However, they tend to get a new lease of life when using English. They revel in their learning and I make it my priority to tease that out to the max.

The point is, we are not robots and are often affected by out surroundings. I reacted differently in my Japanese cooking classes, for example. I had a heightened sense of awareness that I was in a different culture and tried to mingle and fit in. The same in Poland but to a lesser extent. I have to be aware of some cultural idiosyncracies here but it's more like home than Japan is.
Exiled  2 | 424
26 Feb 2010   #503
I get along well with Slavs since they are neighbours.I mean what they do seems natural to me.On the contrary Westerners are often non-reacting to astonishment.
Seanus  15 | 19666
26 Feb 2010   #504
Why not say that you just get on with people based on their individual characteristics? I don't care if you are Slavic, Celtic, African or whatever else, you should be seen as an individual and judged accordingly.

What, like going to the toilet, eating and drinking? Seems natural to me too.

Non-reacting? That's not true at all, it depends what kind of astonishment and what Westerner.

On a general scale of world rudeness, the Poles would be in the top half but that's as general as I'm prepared to go on the matter.
Exiled  2 | 424
26 Feb 2010   #505
English are reacting,Germans are not reacting.But generally if you notice,the friendlier the nation the more likely to be screwed.
Seanus  15 | 19666
26 Feb 2010   #506
So the Greeks must be very friendly then, right? :0 ;)
Exiled  2 | 424
26 Feb 2010   #507
Unfortunately yes.Like mediteraneans in general.
Wroclaw Boy
26 Feb 2010   #508
Is that deduced from bedroom observation Kebab boy?
Exiled  2 | 424
26 Feb 2010   #509
You would be annoying if you were not an idiot.
Maaarysia
28 Feb 2010   #510
Iwona You sound like a miserable cow. If you dont like our culture why on earth are you here. Go back to Poland where you can be as rude as you like. Really go away.
Yes many Polish are Rude. Very Rude. especially the women.

In Poland we say "born-yesterday" on ppl who don't know life. Natalee apparently you have born yesterday. Each man has its own character - don't you find ridiculous to claim that all polish ( especially women...xD) are rude? I'm really sorry you have such a low opinion on us but mind one time you find rude man, another time you meet nice man - such a life! There are no easy rules ruleing the world... so maybe chill out a lil'bit and don't be so upset, frustrated, grumbling and ranting woman - it really truns against you (if its common for you to be like that in everyday life).

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