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Can someone tell me about the reason behind being gay in Poland being wrong


tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #1
my brother is gay but in Scotland very open about sexuality but my friend who is Pole has cousin who is gay and lives happy over here because it was not accepted in Poland i presume x
time means 5 | 1,310
17 Jul 2010 #2
not accepted in poland

On the contrary Polands full of "puffs". Check out the link

europride2010.eu/?go=wylaczrekl&u=1&lg=1

Lifted it from Polishmeknobs blog which is very good.
Seanus 15 | 19,706
17 Jul 2010 #3
It stems from Catholicism and an overly judgemental attitude. Some people just can't leave things alone. If it isn't white and straight, it's trash! That kind of nonsense is prevalent! I've known gay men and have thought nothing of it. I actually went to a gay bar with all the straight guys from my school (one was gay). It was a bit uncomfortable in moments but generally was a laugh. They make for good dancers :)
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #4
i do love going out in blackpool as the gay scene is safer i think .. well it feels safer cause the guys dont bother with you but im sure it was wierd in some bitsxx
time means 5 | 1,310
17 Jul 2010 #5
I actually went to a gay bar

It was a bit uncomfortable in moments

That will teach you to fall for the "hey you have dropped a fiver on the floor" trick :-)))
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #6
or teach the new act of walking with your arse to the wall xxx
Seanus 15 | 19,706
17 Jul 2010 #7
LOL. Nah, I wasn't giving off any signs and why would I? I just can't imagine doing that, it doesn't enter my thinking. Still, if gays wanna do it behind closed doors, it's not my business to interfere.
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #8
i know what you mean but they do make good dancers some handsome men and they are a waste xxxxxx
Seanus 15 | 19,706
17 Jul 2010 #9
It was quite amusing to see women flirt with them. I can't imagine what runs through their minds when they start getting turned on by a handsome gay guy. Maybe, 'why did I bother starting this?' :P
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #10
it is a thrill to want something you cannot have xxxx
have you ever had a desire or want frsomething you cant have .. it must be frustating for them when they think they have gotten somewhere with the guy then turn round and they are snogging another man xxx gutting at the very least xxxxxxx
Seanus 15 | 19,706
17 Jul 2010 #11
I can imagine that being amusing :) Well, it all depends where you set your standards. I don't see why gays in Poland should feel bad. It's just how they are.
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #12
I can imagine that being amusing :)

when you have all work no play like me then the slightest things i do find funny but i am very passionate person about things

and worse when my boyfriends brother dances and cooks better than me lol xxxxxx
Seanus 15 | 19,706
17 Jul 2010 #13
Getting gay contacts in Poland is hard as one of the teachers here tried it. Still, he found a loyal helper who put 'meat' his way. It was discreet so harmed nobody. It's not like he was getting it on in public.
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #14
he found a loyal helper who put 'meat' his way

you have a way with words xxxxxxx but yeah quite right but here they do it in public loos etc xxxxx
Seanus 15 | 19,706
17 Jul 2010 #15
So do straight couples ;) ;) (I guess, LOL)
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #16
So do straight couples ;) ;)

what offer meat lol polite way of saying xxxxxx
do you ????? xxxxx
Seanus 15 | 19,706
17 Jul 2010 #17
Come again, please.
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #18
i was joking about meat offering lol any way have you ever seen a man chat a gay female up , his ego is shattered when they realise they are not into them xxx
jablko - | 106
17 Jul 2010 #19
his ego is shattered when they realise they are not into them

I think he would be just disappointed. Its worse for a guy when straight female turns him down.
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
17 Jul 2010 #20
i know its as if the world has caved in xxx

u are straying from your own topic.
polishmeknob 5 | 155
18 Jul 2010 #21
Poland is a pretty conservative country (but much more liberal that places like Russia.)
Mr Grunwald 25 | 1,747
18 Jul 2010 #22
I have a very simple explanation
They are afraid to tell their Babcia's
"I can't have kids"

xD

Just like if I were sterile, I would never tell anyone lol
POLENGGGs 2 | 150
18 Jul 2010 #23
my brother is gay but in scotland very open about sexuality but my friend who is pole has cousin who is gay and lives happy over here because it was not accepted in poland i presume

Scottish people are more law abiding. Polish people get rowdy more and forget about law, this includes all of the popuylation, and when a gay person has the unfortunate bad-luck to come across a rowdy Pole who happens to be hating on people ...... that is the answer
OP tabeauty 3 | 50
18 Jul 2010 #24
so a bit or wrong place at wrong time ? xxx
plk123 8 | 4,150
19 Jul 2010 #25
It stems from Catholicism

yes, mainly

Still, if gays wanna do it behind closed doors, it's not my business to interfere.

what about when they flaunt their "happiness" in a parade or something?

It was quite amusing to see women flirt with them. I can't imagine what runs through their minds when they start getting turned on by a handsome gay guy.

some play for both teams, if you will
pioter11
29 Oct 2015 #26
Merged: How tolerant people are towards Gay/lesbian in Poland?

I'm always wondering how good or bad people might get after knowing if a person is homosexual,
Do people in general accept it at school,, work,.of generally in their group/ society?

I'm trying to understand better polish people to make my life better in this country :)

Anyone can share their experience so far in positive or negatives?
G (undercover)
29 Oct 2015 #27
"Do people in general accept it at school,, work,.of generally in their group/ society?"

How about just keep that... something behind your own door ?
pioter11 - | 1
29 Oct 2015 #28
Well thats the question only, if people are tolerant in the society for it?... normally so many people still are hiding in nutshell :(
G (undercover)
29 Oct 2015 #29
"if people are tolerant in the society for it?"

Well, we generally don't push homo off the roofs like some other guys do...
jon357 63 | 15,624
29 Oct 2015 #30
I'm always wondering how good or bad people might get after knowing if a person is homosexual,
Do people in general accept it at school,, work,.of generally in their group/ society?

It's just like most other places. If people have a strong opinion against other people's personal lives then that tends to come as part of a package with all sorts of other baggage.

Educated urban people tend to hold different views to less educated people with a more parochial outlook. Same everywhere.

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