desperate
25 Aug 2023 #1
Hello,
so, the relationship I had with a woman resulted in her becoming pregnant. Unfortunately, despite all my attempts she did all possible to kick me out of her life (including insulting me on a daily basis, and so on). Now, in a normal circumstances I would simply leave, but there is a baby, which I do not want to lose and I am openminded
to even be a part-time father, alimony, etc...
Now the issue is that she is trying to cut me out, and even explicitly said that she will not put my name in the birth certificate.
I just contacted a lawyer, about it but it might be too late. Should I act before the baby is born (most likely next week)? Or if she does not put my name and we go to court and I prove to be the father (DNA, etc) even few weeks after ther birth will they at least put my surname?
It has been already a nightmare to deal with a woman treating you like **** for months, then knowing that I will have probably limited access to the kid, she will put proably the first name without consulting with me,
now even knowing that not even my surname will be there.
Her argument is that she will cut me off from all medical visits, and she needs to have the same surname of the child?
Can the law at least accept compromises like double surname "FirstName hers-mine Surname"?
Thanks for your time
so, the relationship I had with a woman resulted in her becoming pregnant. Unfortunately, despite all my attempts she did all possible to kick me out of her life (including insulting me on a daily basis, and so on). Now, in a normal circumstances I would simply leave, but there is a baby, which I do not want to lose and I am openminded
to even be a part-time father, alimony, etc...
Now the issue is that she is trying to cut me out, and even explicitly said that she will not put my name in the birth certificate.
I just contacted a lawyer, about it but it might be too late. Should I act before the baby is born (most likely next week)? Or if she does not put my name and we go to court and I prove to be the father (DNA, etc) even few weeks after ther birth will they at least put my surname?
It has been already a nightmare to deal with a woman treating you like **** for months, then knowing that I will have probably limited access to the kid, she will put proably the first name without consulting with me,
now even knowing that not even my surname will be there.
Her argument is that she will cut me off from all medical visits, and she needs to have the same surname of the child?
Can the law at least accept compromises like double surname "FirstName hers-mine Surname"?
Thanks for your time