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shewolf   
29 Nov 2010
History / Christopher Colombowicz: America's discoverer Polish not Portuguese, claim historians [60]

"Discovered America", this is always the language used. Discovered for who?
Surely the first people to discover America were the natives. Perhaps centuries before the Vikings, the Mayan and Aztec might have travelled from their lands and "Discovered" America.

Yes, the natives did travel from Asia to the Americas as we all know but the explorers were talking about discovering the land that no one else but the natives had found or inhabited. They probably figured the natives had always been there.
shewolf   
29 Nov 2010
History / Christopher Colombowicz: America's discoverer Polish not Portuguese, claim historians [60]

My Spanish aint' that good so could anyone tell me if it would be Ladislarez (patterned on Spanish patroynmics such as Gonzalez, Perez, Sanchez, Fenandez et al), or does that hold only for indigenously Spanish Christian names? Władysław is Ladislao in Spanish.

This is just a guess but Władysławic would probably be translated to Ladeslavo because slavic is eslavo in Spanish. From there it might become Ladeslaves for "the son of" but I doubt those names exist. Ladislao is probably correct for both names or maybe even Ladislaos to make it plural.
shewolf   
29 Nov 2010
History / Christopher Colombowicz: America's discoverer Polish not Portuguese, claim historians [60]

The Irish got there long before other Europeans. Saint Brendan

Isn't there a calendar written in stone in a cave somewhere in the U.S. that proves that the Irish or "Celts" were there long before the others?

I always thought Amerigo Vespucci is credited for having discovered America and that's where the name America came from.

And the Chinese are also thought to have discovered America.
shewolf   
23 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

The government has a program called CODIS (Combined DNA Index System) and you can download the software and type your autosomal DNA markers into it and see if you have any matches. They give you the closest matches to your DNA markers but it's a list of countries in general, like just "Poland". It's free but the last time I checked you needed Excel software.

Was the National Geographic DNA project big in the U.S?

That was very big in the U.S. They had the documentary on TV and I seem to remember them offering free tests for men to add them to the project.
shewolf   
22 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

They have a slew of test results from people who have either purchased the test or from prisoners. A lot of those companies use DNA from the prison system DNA bank but they also go to countries and get DNA from volunteers, like Sibera for example.

We've found documents online of people who have practically all the same markers as my Dad except for one difference and they live in the surrounding area of his birthplace but further out. That's how you can tell someone is not as closely related but still from the same tribe.
shewolf   
22 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

I am not sure I understand this, you are saying that your father's haplogroup matches that of people living only in (for example) Poznan and only those that have been tested there or have relations from there?

Not just his haplogroup but his particular set of markers. All of his exact matches are from his hometown, meaning thousands, maybe millions of people in the world have been tested and his exact matches are only from that same location.
shewolf   
22 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

That's why I think it's voodoo science (for now) to charge people money for such a general indicator.

I'm not as familiar with Y-DNA as with mtDNA but mtDNA seems more recent and you can have a variety of markers and still belong to the same haplogroup.

My dad took the mtDNA test years ago and his haplogroup is thousands of years old and he has about twenty exact matches so far. We all exchanged information and they were all born in the same place as my dad or their parents or grandparents were. I mean within just miles of each other.

Then I took an autosomal test from a different company and I got matched to the same exact place where my dad was born.

It just seems weird to think that I'm not related to any of those people because the haplogroup is so old and that the location has nothing to do with my own ancestry on his maternal line.

Did you know that Island has been genetically mixed with american Indians ? It means that the Vikings really were first in American :) or should we call this land Vinland ?

Many places overseas have American Indian DNA including England and Spain, among others. I've seen stories about people in England who are stunned to find out that they Native American DNA. Native Americans were taken overseas after the Europeans encountered them and some escaped. But also, the Siberians or Mongolians who have the same DNA traveled that way, as opposed to the Americas.
shewolf   
21 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

On the chart, there's a greenish color in Africa and a purple color for Native Americans. When an African American or a Native American has the test done and gets those haplogroups as their results, does that mean they are related to African and Native American from thousands of years ago but they are not related to any other Africans or Native Americans today?

by the way, I have to go now....more later.
shewolf   
21 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

With an 18000 year old gene, it is safe to say you have relatives everywhere.

But fathers and sons, brothers, and cousins still carry those genes today and produce matches. Not all matches are that far back.

It's like saying that my dad and brother are related 18,000 years ago because they have the same DNA.
shewolf   
21 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

But despite that, it seems that the sites that can tell for money that you're "Polish" from your genes are just a scam.

But they don't claim that they can tell you that you're Polish or any other ancestry. At least, I've never seen that, but they do find your DNA matches to other people throughout the world. If your DNA markers match a large group of people in Poland it's up to you to decide what to think of that. But you obviously have some relatives over there.
shewolf   
21 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

DNA tests are good when someone doesn't know their paper records. I've known people who don't know who their fathers are or maybe anything about their family's history. They take the tests because they want to know what their ancestry might be.
shewolf   
20 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

You can go on a holiday with only $179? No wonder people think Americans are rich. That's how much we spend just going to the supermarket. hehe.

The 46 marker test on ancestry.com is $179. It isn't too over the top in my opinion as far as cost goes.

By the way, I only paid $99 because I ordered the test some time ago. The prices keep rising. It's better to take advantage of the current price than to wait until it doubles and then you can't afford it.
shewolf   
20 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

I've been tested and so have my parents and the results were very accurate. Females can only find their haplogroup on their mother's maternal line and our haplogroup on that side isn't Polish but our autosomal DNA had matches in Poland, from the northwestern part of the country. From what I understand, a lot of those DNA results are from prisoners. eek.
shewolf   
10 Nov 2010
News / Giant Jesus Rising in Świebodzin ( Tallest in world ) [323]

Wow. They're putting up a huge statue of Jesus in Poland? I'm amazed because they would never allow that in the U.S. Poland seems to have a lot more freedom of "religious" expression. There was a much smaller cross in the desert of California to honor the memory of fallen soldiers. It was isolated and hardly visible and on private land but an organization fought in court to have it removed. When they were denied, someone cut it down.
shewolf   
5 Nov 2010
Love / Broken Heart due to the mother of my Polish girlfriend [23]

A problem in the situation is the biggest for the mother of the girl. I think she doesn't see opportunities for them to be together.

Yeah, he explained that about her. But is it really the mother's decision? The mother is in control. She's the one who will decide who her daughter will marry and the daughter will obey.
shewolf   
5 Nov 2010
Love / Broken Heart due to the mother of my Polish girlfriend [23]

And don't mothers play even more of a role in their daughters lives in the Polish culture?

That's true for many cultures, where the children are taught that family is important, even the men. I had a boyfriend whose mother was a nightmare, so controlling. I left because I couldn't take it anymore, but I never would have asked him to leave his own mother for me. Like the greeting cards say, sometimes love means letting go. hehe.
shewolf   
5 Nov 2010
Love / Broken Heart due to the mother of my Polish girlfriend [23]

if you love somebody you dont listen people around.

A parent is not just people, though. It's not that easy for a woman to throw her mother away to be with a man. Of course she's not going to love you more than her mother. It's better to find someone whose parents like you.
shewolf   
4 Nov 2010
Love / Broken Heart due to the mother of my Polish girlfriend [23]

If she doesn't want you because of financial reasons or language barriers, then you really should forget about her.

It sounds more like her mother is making her doubt.

The mother of this girl is very difficult woman,talking too much and not good.

It's hard for a woman to leave her mother for a man. Too bad her mother is like that. If you marry her, maybe her mother will try to control everything, your lives, your children...
shewolf   
31 Oct 2010
Love / Such a Very Sad Loss.. fighting the battle with a Polish lady to see my daugher. [56]

I know I have not ben as Loving and Warm as I usually am due to Closing myself in as when I have Tried to talk to her in how I feel I have got Nowhere due to her supposed Lack of English.
I wish her to know that despite my saddness over the Last few Month's I have Never Once Stopped Caring for her even Now I feel Sadd'ness coupled with Love at my Loss.

You had the right to feel sad after the losses in your life and if she had really cared about you, she would not have left you or turned to another man. I just don't think she deserves to know that you care for her or that you're sad without her.
shewolf   
28 Oct 2010
Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

This was Her decision after knowing the man was married.

Do you mean the part where she said ex-wife?

This conversation will never go anywhere. deeply_inluv has already left.
shewolf   
27 Oct 2010
Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Lies you knew he was married and not divorced, he never lied to you.

You should read what she said again. She meant she wanted to know him better before marrying him or else there would be a divorce between them if things didn't work out and it would cost money. She wasn't talking about the divorce with his wife.
shewolf   
26 Oct 2010
Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

She said he lives in the US...

I am engaged with a Polish man but he lives in the US.

She explained that he lied and said he was single and then later admitted he was married but he showed her a divorce paper. If she's guilty of anything it's for believing him. She doesn't need to be talked down to.
shewolf   
25 Oct 2010
Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

But they're not in the UK, they're in England and they're not American, different culture.

She originally said he lived in the US.

The Philippines is a bit far to go for a bit of slap and tickle though, wouldnt you agree?

And yet a lot of people do it, the email, instant message, and phone dating while they go on with their lives at home.
shewolf   
24 Oct 2010
Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Yes polish guy values so much with their family but too bad his ex-wife only concentrate her life with herself and the kids and just want him to work and to support for the family. she forgot that husband needs her attention, respect, care and love from the wife. Intimacy, respect is very important in a the marriage and if couples are lack of that marriage wont last. Needs two to Tango!

deeply_inluv, I hate to tell you this, but it's very common in the U.S. for a 45 year old man who has been married to the same woman for awhile to say these things. The truth is that they're just bored and they want a new woman. They act like a victim to convince the other woman (you) that it's okay. A man will usually look for someone who lives in his city. If he looked for someone overseas it's because it's easier to hide you that way.

His story about having to stay with his wife even though they're divorced can't be true. The government gives money to women who need it so that they can pay their bills and buy food, especially if they have children. That's why women come here to have kids.

If he had really told his wife about you, she would have left him and maybe taken him to court and sued him because that's what women do in the U.S.

I don't know your situation but it sounds like he is using you. The things he says are fake and manipulation and the reason you believe him is because he's very good at it.

But now you're going to have his child so he needs to pay you some money after it's born, to support it.
shewolf   
16 Oct 2010
Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

sure sounds crazt for other peolpe but guys common love is blind.

Your situation is different, though, because you're going to have his baby. You can't just forget him and move on that easily. And also, your child is going to want to know his or her father and it would be wrong not to allow that. He created a mess.