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Posts by pamlarouge  

Joined: 27 Oct 2007 / Female ♀
Last Post: 5 Dec 2007
Threads: Total: 3 / Live: 0 / Archived: 3
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From: Lodz, Poland
Speaks Polish?: Some
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pamlarouge   
29 Oct 2007
Life / Why Do You Love Poland? [907]

I love Poland because my boyfriend lives there, and if any country can produce such an amazingly loving and caring guy, then I'm all for it. :)
pamlarouge   
4 Nov 2007
Love / AVERAGE AGE FOR MEN TO MARRY in POLAND [33]

I agree with you, Latina. There's definitely widespread lack of respect for marriage vows in the U.S., I can't speak for Poland, though.
pamlarouge   
5 Nov 2007
Love / AVERAGE AGE FOR MEN TO MARRY in POLAND [33]

Do you mean in people getting married and thinking if it doesn't work they will just throw it away?

Pretty much there's no way I can answer this question without sounding completely inexperienced and not "qualified" to contribute. :) I've never been married, but I've grown up around a lot of people who had successful marriages because they married under the impression that divorce was only an option under extraordinary circumstances such as adultery, abuse, etc. This caused them to be very careful in selecting their partner and to wait until they were mature enough and felt ready to make a lifetime commitment.

When you go into it knowing that you've got to make it work no matter what, you're a lot more motivated to make a careful choice all around. I'm not saying that means that most Americans are nonchalant towards marriage, I just don't think they take it as seriously as they could.

All the couples I know have had serious problems within their marriage, but I know very few who have divorced, and I think that's because they strongly believed marriage was for life.

That's not to say that you didn't take it seriously or didn't exercise careful consideration, etc. in your experiences, moonmustang. Everyone makes mistakes, and has to make the best decision for themselves according to their situation...I was just giving a different perspective :) old fashioned as it might seem...
pamlarouge   
5 Dec 2007
Life / Poles - the Nation of Liars? [478]

I'm not being defensive. In his original post (and his other posts too) WroclawBoy made a lot of unfair generalizations. I just wanted to to point that out.

I have to agree there.

Good for her.....now, if she could only figure out how to stop you from posting on PF....

*chuckles*

I think you mean: that is really pretty.

HAHAHA