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Joined: 26 Jan 2021 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 8 Feb 2022
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cruisepatron   
26 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

Today is the most happy day of my life as I finally managed to successfully divorce my Polish ex.

We met 5 years ago but got married 2 years ago. One day I accidentally saw a message pop up on her phone saying "Hey babe missing you". I got curious and started to dig in deep. What I discovered next is hard to put into words. In short, this woman has been sleeping around with 100's of men... her chat history from one of her close friends revealed that she wanted to trap men into marriage for money and have kids from several men to claim kids benefit from the government and then she can enjoy all her life. God saved me as I took screenshots and made a copy of everything.

In her divorce petition she falsely accused me of abusing her and that I pay her maintenance (she didn't know I had all the evidence of her cheating). I had a good lawyer and when I presented the judge with all the evidence the tables turned and the judge ruled her guilty. Although I could have charged her for all the damage caused both financially and emotionally, I just wanted divorce. I managed to dodge a huge bullet... never ever any Polish women as far as Im concerned.
cruisepatron   
26 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

Is this not the right section? I'm new to this forum and wanted to share my experience with anyone who might be interested.
cruisepatron   
26 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

@dolnoslask, I wish I could read minds... trust me I would not be in that position to begin with if that was the case. But, it was financially motivated judging from her chat history. She was a divorcee when I married her... fabricated a side of her which in reality did not exist. I even took her to meet my parents who are no longer alive. I haven't encountered such evil person in my entire life be it a man or a woman, even worse I got married to her.
cruisepatron   
26 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

@Dirk diggler
I'm not that naive. I did my research on the dangers marrying a polish women. But fun turned into nightmare when she became pregnant. I gave her thousand bucks each month in dollars. She prevented my daughter from having my last name until I married her... expressed this demand is a very feminine and emotional way... I fell for that and wanted to be the "good guy".
cruisepatron   
26 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

Let me also add this, when her father came to know that I applied for divorce he came to "talk" to me and said "this is normal in the modern world" and that I have an old mindset. No thank you sir!
cruisepatron   
27 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

I have come across several women who don't quite understand the difference between dating market and marriage market. Fact is women control access to sex while men control access to marriage.
cruisepatron   
27 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

Everything said is very real. In my wildest dream I didn't imagine any person could lie to that extent... but I was wrong by a long shot.

That's an American model, not that true of Poland....

The point I was trying to make is any average woman could walk into a bar and easily find a man to sleep with (she controls sex). But, she doesn't have the same luxury when it comes to marriage (men control that). Men should be extremely careful who they marry as laws are not in their favor if things go south.
cruisepatron   
27 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

@jon357
Not trying to generalize all polish women. What I learned is, if a Polish woman speaks moderate to good English, likes to travel solo, had several boyfriends in the past and has unrealistic dreams/ambitions... it's a huge Red Flag.
cruisepatron   
27 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

As ever, there may be a lot he isn't mentioning in either of the threads in which he's posted about this.

In fact, I tried my best to say less, the entire story is much more horrifying if I start speaking about the money I lost, threatens to get me arrested so I will never see the light again, threatens to my mom who was in hospital bed fighting for her life. I lost a lot but escaped alive.
cruisepatron   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

What's in it for the man to wife up a single mother? Men and women gets married for different reasons. If a provider male cannot have his own family then for what he worked all his life to become who he is today? just to take care of another man's family? This is a dysfunctional setup.
cruisepatron   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

Yes, there are "other" reasons as well... example being immigrants looking to get inside EU.. or maybe a compromised beta male having less options etc... They don't seem to last long either because of hypergamy.
cruisepatron   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

Lol.. emotions can lie but the data does not lie :) But, I understand your point.. same reason why millions visit the Vegas every year even though the odds are clear.
cruisepatron   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

Perhaps he's a single father?

It's a bad deal even for a single father. She and her kid would always come first and not he or his kids. I would personally hire a nanny instead.

Someone cuckolded by their wife?

Lol.. man desperate for female attention as in a simp.
cruisepatron   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

What data is that?

First Marriage divorce probability - 45%
Second marriage - 67%
Third Marriage - 74%
If child from previous relation is involved at any stage - 90%

The data is collected from people who thought they would beat the odds.

If I had 90% odds in Vegas, I would empty my bank and go all in and beat Bezos to become the riches man... lol
cruisepatron   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

And why would a women marry a single dad?

Because Man and Woman marry for different reasons :). Man is the provider, he is expected to bring food and provide shelter. Reward = Motivation. Without it nothing can sustain long term.
cruisepatron   
28 Jan 2021
Life / Single mothers in Poland [175]

What data is that?

I read it sometime ago so don't have all the links saved up but you can research it yourself.

This is a good start... wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/

@ delphian

I'm from the US so indeed different cultural background. Here, we have lots of blended families... yet, numbers don't lie :)

Oh sorry, I didn't realise I'm talking with someone from the middle ages

I'm sure we all here are under 100 years of age... humanity existed for more than 200,000 years. So many of our western countries are having demographics problem for a reason...
cruisepatron   
28 Jan 2021
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

You have every right to choose its your body and your life, Not every person here is a practicing catholic either.

I believe this is due to demographic crisis.

"Poland, a nation with a population of more than 38 million, registered 357,400 births last year, the lowest number since 2005, and some 486,200 deaths from various causes, the highest number registered since the war. The overall data showed a population loss of some 129,000 people"
cruisepatron   
29 Jan 2021
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

Government is like a company where the citizens are its employee. Nations interest will always come first.
Human Rights is valid only as long as it serves nations interest.
cruisepatron   
29 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

The pther thing about many of these polish women is they dont seem to be into artists or want a dude in transition in life.

To be fair most women are like that and not just Poles... women in general want a "finished product"... Hypergamy has been around for decades and that's not the problem. The issue is with honesty and how certain woman approach that.
cruisepatron   
29 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

they sleep with thenboring marketing guy with an artist on the side.

What you are referring to is because women have been told "They can have it all". A propaganda driven by brands and corporate world to sell their products.

Former editor of Cosmopolitan confessed and regrets for selling lies to women.

dailysignal.com/2020/05/26/she-wrote-fake-news-for-cosmopolitan-and-now-regrets-misleading-women-on-feminism/
cruisepatron   
29 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

How is he the problem for dealing with retarded Polish female people?

No one can be held responsible for another person's actions. I can only control myself, I cannot control what another person is going to do.

When I first visited Poland to meet my ex the very next day she opened the topic of buying a house, her brother started showing me pictures of properties on sale. A voice in my head whispered, RUN. Basically these women wants to have fun riding the carousal and when they are 30+ they want an established man to settle down with. If it sounds too good to be true then it is...

Well, even a layman's understanding of feminism makes clear that it was never a Christian movement.

The funny part is she was married herself while encouraging other women to be promiscuous. Fake news that this is common, fake news of successful woman, fake news of some anonymous rich men marrying single mom's... and here we are today.
cruisepatron   
29 Jan 2021
News / Poles march against Mandatory poisoning by vaccines [202]

That's why so many pharmaceutical companies get sued for billions every year.

Covid vaccine manufactures signed a deal that no one can sue them for any side effects.
cruisepatron   
29 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

wy do thry even wek or care sbout dudes eork or money if thry just fuk anything?

Backup plan/Insurance. But it almost always ends badly... research has already proven that women who had multiple partners are unable to emotionally pair bond with any man... its all surface level show.

My ex confessed that she never thought she would get caught. When I asked her why she was so sure, her answer was because no other guy was able to catch her before. Left me speechless.
cruisepatron   
29 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

I can't imagine any real man divulging the stuff you have.

Indeed but this an online forum. If you can't handle facts then..testosterone supplements might help.

I didn't bother reading all of his comments, but my impression is that he's more likely an anti-women troll, rather than anti-Polish.

Didn't bother to read all comments but did bother to judge?
cruisepatron   
29 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

When facts gets attacked with the word "Anti" blah blah... you know already who you talking to.
cruisepatron   
29 Jan 2021
Love / Divorced a Cheating Polish Wife [62]

Real men don't talk to sub-humans!

A man's mistake is another man's lesson.
Btw I have both a dog as well as a new woman, so thank you again for your years of experience in judgment, had a good laugh nevertheless :)