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GabiDaHun   
18 Jan 2012
News / Poland fines singer for bashing Bible [159]

When a country tells you what you can and cannot say = communism.

Actually, it's called fascism. Communism is a different kettle of fish, although one can be fascist and communist - like Stalin.

Agree with you on the rest though, stupid law is stupid, and fascism is baaad m'kay.

Having said that, worryingly, most of the world is veering towards more fascistic tendencies of late - including the gun totin' U S of A.

As you were.
GabiDaHun   
27 Jan 2012
News / Communist era 'newspeak' appeals the most to Poland PiS supporters (what a surprise) [89]

The educated elite didn't touch them with a bargepole.

You say that, but I have a teacher friend who has a colleague (also a teacher) whom is a staunch PiS supporter.

My mate says this woman regularly flunks her kids if they say anything bad about PiS. A bit disgraceful really, but there you go!

Seems that scared, reactionary people exist in the educated elite as well.
GabiDaHun   
31 Jan 2012
Language / Polish was chosen the HARDEST LANGUAGE in the world to learn... :D [1558]

It depends on where are you from. because polish can be the most difficult language for people from england,germany,spain,chinese,japanese etc but easier for slovakia ,czech republic and hungary because polish is similar . But polish , is really difficult (grammar) comparing english or german.

Guess again. I speak Hungarian fluently and Polish is a real minefield for me, even though I completely get what case endings are about most linguists agree on 14 cases in the Hungarian language (Polish has 7). At the moment I'm struggling with simple sentences, particularly with gender declination and animate vs. inanimate declinations. Hungarian has no gender - so that doesn't help me.

It's not always obvious which case follows which verbs either.

I think Hungarian probably is harder for most people to learn than Polish, but not by much - it's not a competition. The two languages aren't really that similar at all, although they do share some common lexis.

It really all depends on what your mother tongue is.
GabiDaHun   
31 Jan 2012
Language / Polish was chosen the HARDEST LANGUAGE in the world to learn... :D [1558]

man does that make things easier. i know Hungarian is a super hard language but no gender.....heaven.

It's one of the ONLY redeeming features of learning the language. It has no genders, but try mastering the "vowel harmony" system.

I think you'll be begging for the return of genders.
GabiDaHun   
19 Feb 2012
News / Topless sunbathers acquitted in Szczecin, Poland [128]

That proves how stupid you are. Wikipedia is not a reliable source for information. The content is often outdated and incorrect.

BWAH HA HA HA! HAHAHAHAHAH! HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA!

How about a site run by American lawyers for American lawyers then? Just for you. Cos you seem to be unable to search Google by yourself.

criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-charges/indecent-exposure.html

Are you really at Uni? God help your lecturers.

Can't speak for Poles but I doubt it. If most normal guys want to see women's breasts, they just ask their wives or girlfriends nicely.

Or pop down to the sklep and reach for the top shelves....
GabiDaHun   
19 Feb 2012
History / Anyone know the name, if true... .... Polish Royal heir [40]

There was a program on the BBC a couple of years ago about 3 princes looking for love called "undercover princes".

The last episode featured two minutes of a Polish prince called "Jakub Puzyna", he was HOT! Probably of royal heritage but there hasn't been a Polish King for 200 odd years. Certainly not the dude you're after. Still....
GabiDaHun   
19 Feb 2012
News / Topless sunbathers acquitted in Szczecin, Poland [128]

You Poles hardly use swear words (even in public)

To be honest there is no finer use of language than an aptly put swearword in the right place. A gentlemanly swear. Not a tirade of barley understandable expletives.

My professors back in Michigan always said "fu*ck" in front of the classroom and no one cared.

Effin and blindin in a willy nilly way is ridiculous. Poles swear plenty. They just do it in a more refined way.
GabiDaHun   
21 Feb 2012
History / Poland and Britain started WW2 [307]

I'm quite amazed that as this is THE most studied period in modern history, no respected historian has yet discovered this bombshell.

Has the OP considered a career at Oxford University?
GabiDaHun   
11 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

LOL at the people (mainly men, I presume) wanting to force women through unwanted bodily trauma. These people claim they are in it for the "benefit of the child" and usually think that it somehow benefits the mother in the long term too. This faux Trisha Goddard/Jeremy Kyle impersonation of "Won't SOMEBODY think of likkle baby" needs to stop.

When the pregnancy is completed most unwanted babies will go through their lives in the hell-holes otherwise known as Polish orphanages where this child receives minimal contact,and minimal socialisation, and no love - because its simply not affordable to the state.

If the child doesn't end up in the orphanage it will end up with a mother who neither wants it or loves it (and in fact will probably look on it with some kind of resentment), and a mother complete with brand new mental health issues due to this forced trauma. Statistics also show the child will probably end up living a life of poverty with very little hope, and will also acquire their own psychological issues.

My question to the anti abortion advocates for Poland is (and I truly want this answered) If you give so much of a hoot about the unwanted children's lives in Poland how regularly do you give to charities that provide care for children in Polish orphanages? How often do you physically help struggling mothers with mental health issues?

If, as I suspect, the answer is "never" you can stop being so evangelical about the situation. You have brought suffering to two lives in the world, where there would have been none. You prove by actions how much you care, not by words and your actions prove you are causing more pain in the world than you would like to believe. It also proves that this issue is purely about control!

Shame on the Sejm, really. Have they upped the budget for women dealing with trauma? Have they upped the budget for orphanages? No? Then it's about control and nothing more. Stupid control based on a fairy tale, and forced down our throats by a religion we neither believe or care for.

If I were to ever become preganat whilst I'm living here, I'd be on the 1st flight back to the UK to expel the unwanted parasite feeding off my body. If that's shocking then tough - not unless you'd be willing to maintain my child for life, pay for the birth, and provide me with the years of psychological treatment I'd no doubt need after being forced to go through such a thing - and probably my child's too. "Won't somebody think of the likkle baby"? - indeed!

And for those nutters that still bandy about murder as if it has some kind of meaning in this situation, the word "murder" has a clear definition and is not just subject to what you reckon it means. Just to clear up a common error:

Abortion is not murder.
Manslaughter is not murder.
Death by dangerous driving is not murder.
A sausage roll is not murder.
GabiDaHun   
11 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

I am anti-abortion first of all because people should be responsible for their actions... not behave like animals.

Ahh, I see for you it's about punishing women. You've sidestepped paying for these children very well. So now it's "You shouldn't have done it, now suffer the consequences"! You are truly a delight, aren't you?

You do realise that it takes two to start an unwanted pregnancy? What do you suppose the "punishment" be for men who also take part in "behaving like animals"? Shall we cut off their willies? If you're of the "punish the irresponsible" mindset I'm sure you'll approve of this new measure. Should I propose it to the Sejm?

Another thing is a border line when a human begins... how do you set it ? After it is born ? Why not several weeks or months earlier?

I think the ability to survive independently is a pretty good starting point. Either way most abortions happen in the first eight weeks when the foetus is about as big as a raspberry and looks like a tadpole. I doubt it could survive independently or is capable of any kind of thought process.

Too bad your mom didn't think the same.

If she did, I'd have never existed so it would have been no loss to me. According to some theories there are millions of parallel universes where I didn't exist, so you can at least be a little pleased that there's a world somewhere that I don't exist or may have even been aborted! Lucky you Grzegorz!

it's so easy to talk like that.

It's easy to talk like that because it's true.
GabiDaHun   
11 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

Sorry, I realised that and deleted the offending aggression but you saw it. Damn!

Anyway, the "think of the baby" or "hang 'em high" lot are ones for using emotive language. If they can bandy about such emotive terms as "baby" and "murder", why not add "parasite" into the mix? If anything it just livens up the debate ;)

Either way, I've never wanted children, much to the disappointment of my Mother-in-law. People have been telling me my whole life (since the age of 5 - I knew then) that I'd change my mind. I found that rather offensive. I haven't changed my mind yet.
GabiDaHun   
11 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

No loss to humanity either...

Tell that to the homeless people (real living people) I give up my Christmases for. What have you done for anyone lately? Oh that's right. I forgot, you want to emotionally and physically traumatise women (but not men) for making a mistake, or behaving in a way that you judge unfit. You're right. It's me who has no humanity. None, whatsoever.

Re: parasites

A foetus is as much a parasite as it is a baby. Both terms are technically incorrect but equally emotive. Is emotivity only allowed on one side of the divide? Should I stop talking to anybody who calls a foetus a "baby" or a "child"? Are you going to reprimand any of the anti-abortionists for use of such emotive terms?
GabiDaHun   
11 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

oh no probs gabi, this lot would get my back up too, that's why I don't really engage with them.

I know. I hate these kinds of threads.

The reason I think it's my duty to post on these type of threads is that many people come to this site looking for information about Poland. Living here, I don't want these potential visitors to think that all Poles are superstitious hardline nutters, bound by whatever falls out of the church's mouth. We need some kind of balance here. We aren't all afraid of the big woo-woo.
GabiDaHun   
11 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

What about in the case of rape? Should a woman have to look at this child for the rest of her life knowing what it was the result of??

Don't give them ideas.
GabiDaHun   
11 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

There are an infinite number of outcomes to one's life so I don't like this option a) or b) nonsense.

If a girl wants a child, and feels that she has no choice BUT to abort, then it's a terrible shame, and society should have safeguards there to ensure that abortion is not made through a "no other choice" option. However.... neither should we be forcing women to go through pregnancy if she feels that she cant handle it, will suffer mentally, or simply desperately wants not to have a child (there are some women who don't want to have children, take all the precautions, and still end up pregnant).

Forcing a person to do anything is always unsavoury be that forced abortion OR forced pregnancy.

I would be as opposed to abortion being used as a first line contraceptive as I would be to a total ban on it.

This is a line regularly trotted out by the anti-abortion lobby. However there is NO evidence to suggest that abortion is a primary contraceptive in any country where it is legalised. What woman in her right mind would have abortion after abortion just because she can? It's a nonsense, and if these women do exist I'm sure that they don't even reach the 1% mark.
GabiDaHun   
12 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

What has this got to do with men in suits in the Sejm forcing some women through bodily trauma, yet doing nothing to help with the aftermath?

Wouldn't it be nice if we didn't punish people for making mistakes? Wouldn't it be nice if compassion and freedom was legislated? Wouldn't it be nice if people with control issues didn't want to dictate to everyone their own black and white version of morality, and just, you know, got on with taking the bits of log out of their own eyes?
GabiDaHun   
12 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

How is it legislated in your country ?

I'll answer your question when you answer mine. I fully expect no response. But seeing as I asked mine first, it's only fair isn't it?.

If you think a woman should be forced to go through bodily trauma because she "behaved like an animal", what traumatic equivalent should the man be forced to go through? Possibly paying 50zl a week for a child you didn't want doesn't come near the same scale as having the equivalent of hormone treatment for 9 months, then having to push out a watermelon through a hole the size of a saucer.

Surely a man should suffer an equal punishment for his reckless behaviour, seeing as you are quite happy to force this onto a woman? Or do the man's actions somehow not count?

You told me I was a "quasi-human", so tell me, what have you done to make the world a better place recently? Given up months of your free time working at the Red Cross washing wheelchairs? Perhaps you've given up a few Christmases for the homeless? Visited any orphanages recently and given these unwanted babies the emotional attention and love they so desperately crave, I mean, you wanted them born in the first place, perhaps you've helped these poor children? Given your time to any mental health charities? I mean, you're quite happy for women (but not men) to acquire a whole set of mental health issues.

At the moment it seems that you're all for dishing the dirt to the vulnerable in society but seem to give back very little. I wait with baited breath.
GabiDaHun   
13 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

lol back at your presumptions,

My presumptions are sound. The majority of the "force em though it" lot here are men. You can tell by the icons next to the username. Furthermore it's the Sejm - a bunch of men - dictating and pontificating to women about their actions, consequences and responsibilities whilst ignoring their own. I don't see many of the sejm asking women of child bearing age their opinions on the matter.

nobody want to force anybody to do anything, just to face consequences of their voluntary actions

Ok! So if it's about facing the consequences I take it you'd be quite happy not to give any medical treatment to a child who has fallen down a cliff, by your logic s/he should have been more careful in playing around cliffs the first place, right? If his/her bones happen to fuse badly, or suffers some kind of mental trauma due to the incident, then he/she should just get on with it. I've got you. Actions -> Consequences. Deal with it.

Furthermore, if I happen to eat something bad and develop tapeworm, I should just let them live in me cos I shouldn't have eaten that tasty bit of pork in the first place... right?

you can enjoy said activities without having to go through such "trauma" - snip, snip!

YOU UTTER GENIUS! I've never thought of that before! WHAT A F***ING REVELATION! If *only* I'd thought of that sooner! A round of applause for that man!

Aside from the repugnancy of you actually telling me what to do with my body, and aside from the fact that this thread isn't about my personal circumstances, I've got a bit of news for you... I've asked for the 'snipsnip', In fact I asked two doctors. None of the doctors agreed to it. They said "I might change my mind" and also, it's standard practice not to give any unnecessary medical treatment to women of child bearing age. What's your next bright idea... genius?

As if the babydeveloping in a mother's womb is "her" property and hers alone.

.......... aaaaaaaaaaaaaand we're back to the emotive language again.

Baby (from the Oxford English dictionary.....

noun (plural babies)

1a very young child: his wife's just had a baby [as modifier]: a baby girl
a very younganimal: bats only have one baby a year [as modifier]: baby rabbits
the youngest member of a family or group: Clara was the baby of the family
a timid or childish person: 'Don't be such a baby!' she said witheringly

So I'm sorry, technically a foetus is not a child but who cares about one small technicality!!!!

I think I'll just go back to calling foeti parasites. It's just as technically flawed.... but really, who cares about one small technicality.
GabiDaHun   
13 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

I dare you to go and tell that to a rape victim. You know they Sejm haven't ruled out the possibility of banning abortion in cases or rape?

While were talking about actions, consequence and responsibility, would you be happy for your child to forego emergency treatment if he or she falls off a cliff? Yes? I'm sure you know he or she shouldn't have been playing there in the first place. S/he knew the consequences. It shouldn't be society's tax bill picking up the pieces.

If you get tapeworm, I hope you take your own advice, and just let them live out the natural process of their lives. Really, you should think of that before eating pork.
GabiDaHun   
13 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

A good parent will make sure the kid doesn't end up on a cliff in the first place and if this were to happen it's the parent's responsibility.

So you'd be happy for them to forgo the emergency medical treatment then?

So when you have sex and especially outside wedlock you know there's a "risk" of getting pregnant

Ah ha, so now we're back to dictating one black and white version of morality onto another human. I bet you complain about "barbaric Muslims", without noticing that you are doing the exact same thing which you complain about. I think it's time for a reminder of the old logs and specks quote from the holy bearded one.

Sex isn't meant to be casual and it is not a woman's "right" to end the pregnancy

Isn't it? Tell me why it isn't. Is it because you said so? Cos your book says so? Are you yet again forcing (just like Muslims do ;) ) one version of morality over another.

just because the new life emerging does so in her womb and dispose of it as if it were mere garbage.

I think you're mixing up "new life" with "potential life". I hope you don't masturbate.
GabiDaHun   
14 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

As usual rape comes up to imply that being anti-abortion is to be anti-female and pro-rape

I didn't say that at all. I said that if people think it's "all about responsibility" try telling that to a rape victim. No one in their right mind would be pro-rape. Don't put words into my mouth.

wow, you people are sick.

Sick in what way? I've not been the one that's been saying that people need to suffer in order to "take responsibility" for their actions.

why bother to post if you are just going to repeat the standard non-thinking 'wisdom'?

So using correct terminology, in a philosophical debate closely linked to the biological process is now classed as non-thinking? Great.

Pregnancy is not an illness. Woman body is able to nurture life of another human being

Pregnancy is personal to a woman. It is whatever she makes it. If she wants to give personhood to the potential independent life inside her then that's her prerogative. If she doesn't then that is also her prerogative. If she wants to eat organic mung beans for the duration of her pregnancy, then that is up to her too, as it is to neck a bottle of vodka week in and out.... it's not illegal, although I would doubt her capabilities as a mother.

Just because one is able to do something it doesn't mean that one HAS to do it. Ability and obligation are not mutual and do not go hand in hand, and whilst no body is forcing anybody to get pregnant there people are forcing pregnancy. See the difference?

Telling you what to do?

You told me, in your complete ignorance, that if I didn't want to get pregnant I could get the snip. Which clearly I can't, genius. I and many other women take the necessary precautions already.

Is not? It is very unusual for mothers to refer to pregnancy as "a trauma".

As I said, pregnancy is whatever a mother perceives it to be. If she wants to see it as the most wonderful thing ever, then that's up to her. If she doesn't, well I'm sorry but that up to her too, not up to you.

Well I can say that you are under the age of thirty, have no children and you haven't convinced two doctors that you are serious and mature

Erm, as Harry pointed out:
1) You can't get the snip in Poland
2) Doctors will not perform unnecessary, expensive, and painful medical operations on women of child bearing age unless there is a real necessity. It's in their code of ethics. I'm not the only person who's been turned away in the "liberal" UK. I suggest if you don't like it, you should take it up with the doctors and stop trying to find flaws in my personality in an attempt to make things personal. Is there no depths to the lows which you will not go? Also, before suggesting people in Poland "get the snip", a vague idea of the actual law might be a good idea.

Nice one IS, way to distract attention from the fact you know nothing about Polish contraception law.

Quite.

So far we've had a whole host of ill thought out and straw man arguments as well as personal attacks from the usual suspects:

1) We've had personal insults, and dehumanisation - "quasi-human", "hysterical women", and "immature" being a few.

2) The ascertation that in order for society to stay moral people need to "face the consequences" of their actions, and then U-turning when tapeworm and childhood accidents come up. It seems this "moral rule" is therefore only applicable for pregnancy, and more to the point, only for women, cos men don't get pregnant. It's do as I say, not as I do hypocrisy.

3) We've had emotive and incorrect language; "baby" and "murder" from one side, but when other incorrect and emotive terms are used such as "parasite" suddenly the tactic is no longer acceptable! Moreover, using correct terminology is now called as "non thinking". So whic is it to be? Incorrect emotive language? OR correct non-thinking language? Goalposts are constantly being shifted, but only as long as it suits the anti-abortionists.

4) We've had some people trying to say that it's all about the welfare of the child, but yet these same people actually deliver no help, physical or monetary, to unwanted children in Polish orphanages, or any struggling mothers, and actually do nothing to make the situation that they wish to implement on these vulnerable people any better for them. More do as I say, not as I do.

5) We've had people projecting their personal views of a morality, on to others, and then demanding that only their version of morality is acceptable and should be legislated. So.. totalitarianism then.

6) We've had people wanting to force dogmatic views taken from their own religion on to others. I think that called religious fanaticism.

The ONLY and I mean ONLY reasonable response we've witnessed so far is actually this one:

As said earlier, it depends on whether you believe life begins at conception or not. I see no reason to assume it does not. I'd rather err on the safe side.

Which is fine and dandy. Should really be having a discussion about where life begins. Or more importantly where you consider individual human life to begin and therefore at which point do you consider life to become huiman life to become "sacred".

There can be five possibilities for this:

1) Metabolism. - Cellular activity. Such as respiration and metabolism. This includes skin cells, and sperm cells.

2) Genetics - A complete genome, in other words a fertilised egg. It is an independent "being" from its parent, but is still not viable. We must also think of some paradox's when talking about this. A a single ferilized egg can give rise to twins, triplets or quadruplets, in fact theoretically with infinite space, a singe fertilised egg could give rise to a million monozygotic twins. So is this fertilized egg a life, a million lives, or still just the potential to become whatever it pleases?

Here's a scientific view on some common inaccuracies and untruths:

- The Embryo is Safe Within the Womb. Modern research shows that 30% or fewer fertilised eggs will go on to become foetuses. Many of these early miscarriages are because of abnormal numbers of chromosomes. The view that every fertilised egg is a potential human being is wrong in around 70% of cases.

- There is a Moment of Fertilisation when the passive egg receives the active sperm. Again recent research has shown that the previous commonly held view that the fastest sperm races towards the egg and, bingo, we're up and running is wrong on many levels. Fertilisation is a process taking up to four days. As such there is no magic moment, rather there is a process.

- There is consensus amongst scientists that life begins at conception. There isn't even consensus amongst scientists as to whether there's consensus. However, Scott Gilbert's paper lists embryologists who support each of the major view points belying the common and oft repeated assertion that there is consensus amongst embryologists, let alone scientists.

3) Embryology - This places the start of life at gastrulation, where the uncertainties of the genome become fixed. Twins will now be twins, viability becomes much more likely (but not certain), at this point however all embryos are female, and we still don't know for certain what it will develop into. The stem cell argument hangs in this stage.

4) Neurology - Or brain activity. Death is usually determined by brain activity, so most people consider this to be the start of life. It's the point at which we decide to switch off the life machine. It's much a much more reliable indicator of life than a heartbeat, which is actually just involuntary muscular activity, and is not really that much different to the metabolic process described in 1).

5) Ecology/ Technology - The point where a fetus can sustain itself outside the womb and becomes viable. As technology progresses, this moment is pushed to an earlier time.

6) Self awareness - Which actually comes after birth for us humans.

Scott Gilbert (a developmental biologist) says:

The entity created by fertilization is indeed a human embryo, and it has the potential to be human adult. Whether these facts are enough to accord it personhood is a question influenced by opinion, philosophy and theology, rather than by science.

So if we're going to talk about where life begins, it's always going to be a matter of opinion, and opinion alone. It is not something anyone can say for definite. What we do know for definite is that a woman IS a living being, and an embryo "might possibly be one", so I'm of the opinion that we should be giving far more rights to "definite life" than "possible life".

Because where life begins is a matter of opinion, can we really, in a moral sense, legislate an unprovable philosophical opinion over the real feelings, emotions, and experiences of a definite provable living being? Do your unprovable opinions on this subject, trump an actual human? If a woman, or a living being, is that an unwanted pregnancy seen to completion would be the same as torture, and wishes to do something at say, stage 3 of the process where there are still many uncertainties about what this embryo will become, would you force her through that torture, on nothing more than your opinion?

I guess the answer to those questions would be yes. We've already witnessed dehumanisation, projection and name calling, so I don't see forcing someone through torture that for from the dehumanisation process. It's very easy to ignore the feelings and wishes of someone who we no longer seem as human. It's how we get soldiers to kill the enemy, and it's how the governments win us over with propaganda. I wish to be no part of it, which is why you will never see me dehumanise anyone, no matter how much I disagree with them.

Personally, when it comes to morality I prefer to go on definite truths and leave the rest up to personal choice of a provably living human. Anything else on my part would be arrogant and cruel. Why should I be forcing my opinions on to others? Where does legislating opinion stop? Do we make heresy illegal? Do throw people in jail for eating meat, I mean, animals are sentient aren't they?? If my morals dictate I don't do something, then I don't do it. What other people do with their lives is none of my business, and neither is it yours.

You don't agree with abortion, then don't get one.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

How is that dehumanising? i would say that those are very human features. Would be rather described in mechanical terms?

Oh please mate! You have got be on a wind up! I've repeatedly asked you to stop guessing about my personal circumstances and here you are CONTINUING to do so? Why is that? Every time you and your genius have made any kind of ill-informed guesswork you've been wrong - as you are now. I belong to no activist or political groups, feminist, pro-choice, or otherwise. Once again, this thread is not about ME. Stop trying to drag ME through the dirt and instead why don't you talk about your opinions and try to back them up with some kind of factual information? Seriously you are embarrassing yourself. You think you are being much smarter than you are.

All you've been doing on this thread is making stuff up, and then debating this made up stuff as if it were reality.

You continually misunderstand and misread (deliberately or not, I don't know) anything I, or anyone else whose life view you disagree with, says. You continually have shown your ignorance of anything to do with women's reproductive health , and are still somehow trying to blame me for your ignorance. Any experiences that differ to yours you just dismiss as a "moot point" without actually looking at the context. You constantly back-pedal, then change the goal posts. And when presented with cold hard facts you use dirty tactics by either selectively quoting, or you just reply flippantly with more of your "opinion" without backing it up with any form of evidence.

Have you even referenced anyone or academic or philosophical standing yet?

You say you're against propaganda, but then you selectively quote me, use emotive terms, more personal attacks, and more guesswork; "pro killing life" "looking for insults" "victim" "member of an organisation"

Now, finally, when all this hasn't worked you're invoking Godwin's law and banging on about the Nazis!!!!! Really?!? It must be a wind up!

put on an ignore list only because you never have a point to make and you're insufferably boring.

Quite.

Just in case anyone missed my earlier post, I'm sure it was ignored rather than taken into account:

where you consider individual human life to begin and therefore at which point do you consider life to become human life to become "sacred"

GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

A sperm isn't a human life. An ovule isn't.

As said above. A fused embryo could technically become quadruplets, or an infinite amount of people if given an infinite amount of space. In fact, under 30% of fertilised eggs become viable. Now, if you wish to assign every single embryo, viable, or non viable a personhood, that is entirely up to you but I don't see how forcing "personhood" onto something that may or may not become one, two or ten million people is helping anything. Especially when this possible person will never have anything to do with you, and especially, when you can't possibly for see the effects of the abortion on the mother.

Yes, some women are coerced into abortion, and of course this is horrendous, and the psychological damage is awful. I also know women who have been coerced into proceeding with the pregnancy and the psychological damage has been equally as atrocious and the morality of it just as horrendous. I also know women who have had abortions and say it's the best decision they ever made.

So abortion is as subjective a thing as anything can be. Why is your subjectivity more "correct" than another's? Why can't it just be left down to the individual?

I agree with you that it's the women who need to be protected in all this, but for me they should be protected in whichever choice they want to make, regardless of whether I think it's right or wrong.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

AFAIK contraception's a nightmare in Poland. Getting the birth control pill is such a palava, and so expensive one has to rely on condoms, which gives women far less control of their own fertility. I haven't tried yet because I was thoroughly put off by the process. Getting the contraceptive pill in Poland (from what I've heard and understood - from a doctor friend of mine, but please correct me if I'm mistaken) consists of a visit to the GP followed by a referral to and an interrogation by the gynaecologist. Rinse and repeat every month. And pay through the nose for it.
GabiDaHun   
15 Oct 2012
News / Abortion still under control in Poland [2986]

Why women who do not want to have children would not take the necessary precautions to prevent pregnancy?

Erm, I'm pretty sure they do. No one is saying that precautions shouldn't come first, but accidents do happen. Condoms do split you know? A fair few people I've know have got abortions, the majority those pregnancies were due to contraception failure. I'm sure you know plenty of women that also got abortions, they just haven't told you.

RESULTS: Forty-six percent of women had not used a contraceptive method in the month they conceived, mainly because of perceived low risk of pregnancy and concerns about contraception (cited by 33% and 32% of nonusers, respectively).

So the facts are that 54% of women who go for abortions HAVE take precautions and out of the 33% of the people who did no use didn't do so because of misinformation and lack of education.

Again though, don't let the facts stop your "take responsibility" standpoint. 54% of women [guttmacher.org/pubs/journals/3429402.html ]in this study took responsibility. The vast majority of the remainder were ignorant or badly informed.

When I choose to debate a subject - when the life beings?- I will take it into account.

When human life begins, is actually the main crux of the abortion debate. That's why it's so divisive.. because no one knows the answer yet everyone seems to have an opinion on it. If you knew an embryo was not a person you wouldn't give two monkeys about what happened. Or, for you is it honestly only about women not having sex?

I'm not here to learn or study because I can do it myself somewhere else - thank you.

Yeah. Why facts and published sources get in the way of a good argument?